
22/09/2024
THE DANGERS OF OFFENCE IN MINISTRY
Offence in ministry, if not addressed properly, can be one of the most detrimental factors in the life of a church or a Christian leader. The Bible is clear about the spiritual dangers of being offended and how it can hinder both personal growth and the effectiveness of ministry.
1. Offence Leads to Division
In any ministry, unity is essential for the body of Christ to function effectively. Offence, however, can create divisions and strife. In Proverbs 18:19 (KJV), it says, "A brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city: and their contentions are like the bars of a castle." This means that once offence takes root, it becomes very difficult to heal relationships, creating barriers that are hard to overcome.
In ministry, division can halt progress, destroy relationships, and hinder the work of God. When church members or leaders hold onto offence, it can create cliques, bitterness, and mistrust, all of which are contrary to the unity Christ prayed for in John 17:21 (KJV) – "That they all may be one; as thou, Father, art in me, and I in thee, that they also may be one in us: that the world may believe that thou hast sent me."
2. Offence Breeds Bitterness and Unforgiveness
Holding onto offence often leads to bitterness, and the Bible warns against this. Hebrews 12:15 (KJV) instructs, "Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby many be defiled." Bitterness does not only affect the one who is offended but can spread to others, poisoning the entire ministry.
In ministry, bitterness can manifest in gossip, slander, and passive aggression, all of which can break down trust and hinder the flow of the Holy Spirit. Unforgiveness keeps individuals in bo***ge, limiting their spiritual growth and usefulness in God's service. Christ emphasized the importance of forgiveness in Matthew 6:14-15 (KJV): "For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."
3. Offence Distracts from the Mission
Offence shifts the focus from God’s mission to personal grievances. Instead of focusing on the Great Commission, offended individuals become preoccupied with their hurt and how they have been wronged. Paul warns about the dangers of distractions in 2 Timothy 2:4 (KJV), "No man that warreth entangleth himself with the affairs of this life; that he may please him who hath chosen him to be a soldier."
In ministry, the devil often uses offence to cause distraction, knowing that if the leaders or members are preoccupied with their own issues, the ministry's effectiveness will diminish. Instead of advancing the Kingdom of God, time and energy are wasted on resolving conflicts.
4. Offence Can Lead to Apostasy
Unchecked offence can lead to disillusionment, causing individuals to leave the church or abandon the faith altogether. Jesus warned about this in Matthew 24:10 (KJV), "And then shall many be offended, and shall betray one another, and shall hate one another." Offence can cause people to lose sight of Christ, focusing instead on their pain and the perceived failures of others.
When individuals walk away from the faith due to offence, it is a tragic loss to both the body of Christ and their personal spiritual journey. The enemy uses offence to blind people to the grace, mercy, and forgiveness that Christ offers, pushing them further away from the truth.
5. The Call to Avoid and Overcome Offence
While offence may be inevitable in ministry, the Bible calls believers to rise above it. Psalm 119:165 (KJV) says, "Great peace have they which love thy law: and nothing shall offend them." Mature believers are called to love God's Word and live in such a way that they are not easily offended. This requires humility, forgiveness, and a willingness to overlook minor grievances for the sake of the gospel.
Additionally, in Matthew 18:15 (KJV), Jesus gives a clear process for dealing with offence: "Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother." Addressing offences directly, with love and humility, prevents them from festering and becoming larger issues.
Conclusion
Offence in ministry is a dangerous tool that the enemy uses to weaken the church, disrupt unity, and hinder the work of God. However, through forgiveness, humility, and a commitment to the Word of God, believers can avoid falling into the trap of offence. Ministries must prioritize reconciliation, open communication, and a Christ-centered focus to avoid the dangers that offence brings.
Bishop Maxwell A. Hagan
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The Dangers of Offence in Ministry
Hagan Publications Group