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06/10/2025

“Am I supposed to have s*xual in*******se with my husband only during the night and when he is in the mood? Can you imagine that this man doesn’t even know which parts of my body arouse me? All he wants is to open my legs, satisfy himself, and then go to sleep. Damn, I hate patriarchy.

The worst part is when I want to talk, he shuts me down. I tried discussing this with my sister-in-law, and she told me that women are supposed to protect men's egos and accept what they dish out in the bedroom. She said if I become vocal about my needs, people will start calling me a pr******te or a woman who likes s*x too much.”

"Hahaha, that's the word! Slut," replied Manta. "Women are s*xual beings with needs and desires that should be fulfilled, not silenced. The patriarchy has taken over so many aspects of our lives as Gambian girls and women. Why should we allow it to invade our bedrooms? The moment we become husband and wife, I have a say in everything regarding our relationship, including how I want to be intimate with my husband. If that makes me a 'slut,' then I am happy to embrace it," Manta said.

Silent Pleasures: Breaking Gambia’s Bedroom Taboo Get link Facebook X Pinterest Email Other Apps - October 06, 2025 PC: GoogleSigh, damned patriarchy. I can accept all these patriarchal biases, but why should my pleasure be silent? I am tired, I feel suffocated, and I feel like I am about to explo...

22/09/2025

Today, our CEO was a guest on QTV's "This Morning" show to discuss various issues, including the headlines in our newspaper.

22/09/2025

In this episode, Tumbul discusses how we can prevent s*xual violence against children, particularly girls, in homes and within society.

19/09/2025

Here is another interesting episode of the "Naada-kolobosso" podcast with Tumbul.

Enjoy

17/09/2025

Welcome to the first episode of the "Nadakolobosso" podcast with Tumbul!

In this episode, Tumbul discusses the challenges women face in accessing hospitals and emphasizes the importance of developing strategies to vote for a better president in 2026.

09/09/2025

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09/09/2025

Are we really saying in 2026, there is no single Gambian Woman capable of leading this Country? Or is Patriarchy still deciding who gets to lead?

Dear Gambian Women,

One of the major opposition political parties recently released a list of candidates competing for the flagbearer in the 2026 Elections.

Eleven candidates, all men—no women at all.

What does this mean?

This indicates that the power dynamics in our political landscape remain dominated by men. Patriarchal systems and structures within our political sphere discourage women from challenging men in authority to pursue political office.

The 2026 election should be a game-changer for Gambian Women.

Let's ask ourselves these questions!

⬆️ How long have men been in power since Independence?
⬆️ How many promises do they make and never fulfil?
⬆️ Are we satisfied with the healthcare system?
⬆️ Are we satisfied with the level of education our children are receiving?
⬆️ Do we have markets to sell our produce?
⬆️ How many of you can afford three square meals a day?

Search your beautiful hearts for the answers.

Have you witnessed our mothers being manhandled in the markets? Their only crime is voting in men, who promised and never fulfilled their promises.

If you've had enough, it's time to rethink what we really want for our future

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09/09/2025

08/09/2025

Ladies, patriarchal norms have extended into workplaces where some men think that we don't belong.

If you find yourself in such a situation, stand up, suit up, speak up and don't let an insecure person dim your shine to please his manly ego.

You are stronger than you think. Remember, every thorn in your path is meant to make you stronger, bolder, and prepared for the next step.

Ladies, let's look out for each other. Speak out against oppression and help each other grow and shine.

Remember when women unite, we don't just survive oppressive systems, we transform them.

01/09/2025

💔 This message is for every woman who has ever felt trapped in an abusive relationship.

You do not deserve to feel afraid in your own home. You do not deserve to be silenced, insulted, controlled, or hurt—emotionally, mentally, or physically.

Love is not meant to break you.

If he constantly puts you down, isolates you, manipulates you, or blames you for everything, that is not love. If you find yourself walking on eggshells, hiding bruises (both on your body and your soul), or questioning your worth because of how he treats you, you are experiencing abuse.

You are not alone.

Thousands of women have walked this path before you. Leaving can be difficult, but staying can be dangerous. Speak up, walk away, and embrace the healing process.

Wishing you all a happy new month and a fruitful week.

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