25/09/2023
We just passed the fall equinox, which means we’re headed into one of my favorite times of the year. Every day just gets better and better from here on in.
And as long as we’re talking about changing seasons, can I advocate that we all enjoy a brand new season of self compassion as well?
I think it’s time.
The season of self compassion is the season where we practice loving ourselves.
Unabashedly and unapologetically.
I think it’s time to take a break from the heat of our unrealistic expectations and the long hours of self judgment and criticism, and slip into the cool respite of embracing and approving and appreciating all the parts of us.
Good, bad—
best self, shadow self—
high energy, low energy—
brave, scared—
gentle, mean—
wise, foolish—
generous, selfish—
all of you.
What if you loved all of it?
And decided to have some compassion for yourself, and where you are, and what you’re experiencing, and what you’re learning, and what you’re not good at yet.
And this season, what if you just settled into allowing all of that to be exactly what it is and you took a deep breath and stopped telling yourself you were wrong for it.
And instead you noticed how hard it is to be a human, and how hard it is to live on earth with a brain that only lets you see through the glass darkly, and how hard it is to make the right choice when you can’t see two steps in front of you let alone the ending—AND how marvelously you are managing all of it.
What if you just let yourself be the flawed, imperfect human that you are and what if you didn’t just allow it, but you had unlimited compassion for it too?
It might just be the change you’ve been longing for.