13/08/2026
To the people who called me a gold digger, I want to make one thing CLEAR: If I hadn’t STOPPED ENGAGEMENT conversations if I had gone ahead and gotten married, I believe it would have ended in DIVORCE. I knew deep down that this wasn’t love. It was desperation to get me under control so that I would QUIT ACTING.
I always said, He’s very young. We need to take a little more time. We can consider egg freezing and everything in the future.
There was always something in my gut telling me, “This is too fast. This is not right.”
You’re supposed to feel at peace with your partner, but instead, you’re constantly worried. Psychologically, you start rehearsing what you are going to say before you speak.
The way you enter this phase is very slow. By the time you understand what is happening, you are already deeply in love. The families are talking. You have stayed with their family. They have stayed with your family. Mentally, you have already decided that this is the person you are going to spend your life with.
And then things become much tighter. The control becomes more direct.
I didn’t promote . It was the most successful film of my career. I have to let go of so many projects. In everything, the control was happening very indirectly. There was always something that didn’t feel right about the relationship.
We don’t open up about these things to our families because we want to protect the relationship and give the other person a good impression. Even with friends, at one point, I was scared. I had breakdowns. I started avoiding people. Behind all of this, they can put on a mask of love.
I was on anxiety medications. I stopped communicating because everyone would say, “No, this isn’t right.” They are extremely good at manipulating you.
You believe that a person who loves you could never do these things to you but that’s actually what’s happening.
In narcissistic abuse, you can end up being punished for someone else’s insecurities and traumas.
Even during promotions, there was something else happening parallel happening to his life. I was questioned about how I could even promote something while smiling. I was punished because of that person insecurity.
I stopped looking at people. I stopped looking into their eyes. I even stopped touching my own brother. The consequences became so severe that I stopped shooting multiple times because I was having mental breakdowns.
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