10/11/2025
My girlfriend said, “I need some space. Don’t contact me for a while.” Then she posted photos of herself on vacation with her ex. I respected her wishes — changed the locks and sold the car that was under my name. When she came back, her car key didn’t work, and her parking spot was empty...
When Emma told me she “needed some space,” I didn’t argue. We’d been together for almost three years, and lately, every conversation felt like walking through a minefield. So when she said, “Don’t contact me for a while,” I took a deep breath and agreed. What I didn’t expect was to open Instagram two days later and see her smiling in Cancun… with her ex, Ryan.
I stared at the screen for a full minute, scrolling through the photos — her in sunglasses, his hand around her waist, a drink in each hand. The captions were casual: “Sunshine and good vibes.” The comments were worse. Mutual friends dropping heart emojis like confetti. My heart didn’t break; it calcified.
So, I decided to take her words literally — she wanted space, and I was going to give her plenty of it. The lease was in my name, the car was in mine too. I changed the locks the next morning, called the dealership, and sold the car that afternoon. It wasn’t revenge; it was closure wrapped in practicality.
A week later, I got a text:
“Hey, I’m back. Can we talk?”
I didn’t reply. Two hours later, my phone buzzed again:
“Why doesn’t my key work? And where’s my car???”
I sat on the couch, sipping coffee, staring at the message with a strange sense of calm. For months, I’d been walking on emotional eggshells, afraid of losing her. Now, she was the one outside, locked out of my life — literally and figuratively.
That’s when I realized: sometimes respecting someone’s wishes means freeing yourself too... Watch: [in comment] - Made with AI