17/02/2025
Listen up, Men!
Nobody Likes You When You Struggle—Then They Hate You When You Win!
When you're grinding, struggling, and trying to build something out of nothing, nobody gives a damn about you. Women ignore you. Friends mock you. Family doubts you. You're invisible to the world.
Then, the moment you break through and start winning, suddenly everyone “believes” in you. Women who never looked your way now bat their eyelashes. Friends who disappeared suddenly want to reconnect. Even family members start acting like they always supported you.
But here’s the twist—the second you reach undeniable success, people start hating you.
Now they say “he changed,” now they question your methods, now they spread rumors and call you arrogant. Why? Because your success reminds them of their failures.
They didn’t like you when you struggled. They only liked you when they thought they could benefit. And when you become untouchable, they despise you.
What Should You Do?
Ignore the noise. Keep building. Your real value is in your progress, not their approval.
Never forget who was there when you had nothing. Those are your real people.
Never let fake supporters fool you. They love your success, not you.
Understand that hate is part of the process. If they’re not talking, you’re not doing anything worthwhile.
So grind hard, win big, and let them love you, then hate you. At the end of the day, none of it matters—only your legacy does.
Aklahyel Goni