04/11/2025
Hey, I just got back from visiting my buddy Rex, and man, he's been through a rough patch. He's been sharing some crazy stories about his ex, Sarah. Apparently, she was using him for his financial support, and he was too caught up in the relationship to see it.
Rex told me that he'd been with Sarah for three years, and he thought they were happy. He'd work extra hours to buy her gifts, cook her favorite meals, and even help her family out financially. But no matter what he did, it was never enough for her.
One time, she asked him to lend her money to pay off a debt, and he gave her his entire paycheck. But guess what? She didn't even bother to thank him or return the favor. Instead, she started complaining about how he was spending too much money on her.
Another time, she got upset because Rex forgot her birthday. He'd been working non-stop for weeks, and he just forgot. But instead of understanding, she accused him of not caring about her. Rex was devastated.
Despite all the drama, Rex stuck around, thinking that things would get better. But things only got worse. She'd flirt with other guys in front of him, and when he'd confront her about it, she'd deny it and make him feel guilty for being jealous.
It all came crashing down when she met someone new – a wealthy businessman who showered her with luxury and attention. She dumped Rex without even looking back.
Rex shared with me that he realized too late that he'd been blind to the signs. He'd ignored the red flags and prioritized the relationship over his own well-being. He told me that he's learning to recognize the signs of a toxic relationship and to prioritize his own needs.
As he reflected on the relationship, Rex realized that he'd lost himself in the process. He'd sacrificed his own happiness and desires for someone who didn't appreciate him. It was a hard lesson to learn, but he's determined to move forward and find someone who truly values him.
I just hope Rex finds someone who treats him right. He deserves all the love and happiness in the world Macabwao Fred
