Violet Chanyisa

09/07/2026

You owe your spouse s*x. If you don’t want s*x, live alone or with your relatives and share the bills. Release your partner to someone who is excited to share romantic love.

09/07/2026

HOW TO LOVE A HURT WOMAN

1. Listen to understand her, not to judge her. Already the world is hostile towars her

2. Counter the negative words she speaks to herself, teach her to unlearn negativity

3. Know her needs and pray for her in her presence. You need God to walk with her

4. Do not repeat the things her ex did. Be different

5. Expect her to run or to threaten to run due to her past insecurities. Fight for her, she is looking for someone consistent

6. Make her laugh and smile. Be easy to talk to. Don't always talk about the heavy stuff that weighs her down. Expose her to bright conversations

7. Expect her to doubt you especially when things get tough. Prove to her you are here to stay

8. Find out her dreams and get her to believe in them again. Sometimes all she needs is a cheerleader

9. Show her that you see her for more than her s*xiness. See her spirit, her soul, her heart, her mind

10. Remind her that she is a Queen. Get her to see her greatness, especially when she puts herself down

11. Protect her from her past, present and future enemies

12. Be patient with her, it will take her sometime to heal and let go of past mindsets

13. Do not be condescending or speak in a manner that suggests you are tired of her

14. Correct her with love. She will appreciate when she knows you have her best interest at heart

15. Work on your healing too or your wounded heart will make you hurt her. Hurt men are destructive to hurting women

16. Allow her to be there for you. This will make her feel needed and awaken confidence in her. When a woman is allowed by a man to love him she heals faster and manifests her power.

09/07/2026

09/07/2026

WHAT KILLS LOVE?

1. LACK OF COMMUNICATION
The less you two communicate, the more you two slowly learn to live without each other. The more you two take breaks from each other, the faster love dies

2. ENDLESS FIGHTS
Constant fighting will make you two avoid each other for the sake of peace, thus drifting apart

3. LACK OF MUTUAL ACTIVITIES
Yes, you two might be in different careers and have different likes; but if you don't have common activities to do together, the bond will fade

4. AFFAIRS
Affairs distract, your love for each other withers

5. ADDICTIONS
Addictions such as p**n or alcohol take the best of our time and we end up defending the addiction more than the relationship, we get too hooked to see how we are neglecting or hurting our partner

6. THIRD PARTIES
You might end up siding with third parties such as parents, friends or siblings to the point that they pull you away from your spouse

7. LACK OF APPRECIATION
The more appreciation lacks, the more loving starts to feel like a strain; worst of all is when things are done, not out of joy but obligation as a spouse

8. UNFORGIVENESS
Your heart cannot love and hold a grudge at the same time

9. DISTANCE
Physical distance but most of all, emotional distance can make two people fall out; try as much as possible to connect as a couple

10. WORK
When your work or business becomes too demanding, you might struggle to balance, and your love life, because it appears not to have financial value, might suffer the consequences

11. BLAME GAME
When you two keep exchanging blames and finding fault in each other, you will began to dislike each other's company

12. LACK OF EFFORT
Love doesn't just happen, doesn't just grow; it needs constant watering, nurturing and attention. If you both don't put in the effort, it will gradually die.

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09/07/2026

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