14/08/2025
Great,,good to hear this
If you don't know yourself,you will make similar mistakes in your relationships with everyone and then if people leave you,you will say"why doesn't anyone want to be with me?Maybe I am not just lovable or maybe there is something wrong with me that pushes people away."
Self love is about knowing everything about yourself, however ugly or dark or bad your truth is and accepting yourself with it.Self love is about knowing how to transform your flaws into your strengths rather than hiding them inside you so that no one can see them
Self-love is about choosing yourself every single day to study your patterns,examine your behavior, knowing your thoughts (even if they mean at times).Self love is about creating a home deep inside you where you can be YOU without worrying about healing, pretending or perfectionism.You are beautiful with your dark side not by hiding them under the mask of goodness
I feel pathetic to say that there is a dark side in all of us . Because it's not even our dark side, it's just who we are.That is how we are designed . That's what makes us unique and different from each other.You don't have to be bad to people.
You just have to learn to not loathe yourself for having some traits that are not accepted in our well-dressed society.Be proud of what you are and accept every bit of yourself
Now I know that you don't have to be all classy and glassy to love yourself,I guess it will be a lot easier to get to know yourself
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