Bonface Mwiti

Bonface Mwiti Web & Software Developer in the Making | Football, Adventure & Cycling Enthusiast | Inspiring Youth Through Tech & Life. [email protected]

16/07/2025

Damn 😊

It's funny how we don't know our s*xuality.

What's your s*xuality?

Stay tuned, nitakuambia yako soon 🤗

Utajua 😂🤣

Moments I long for 🤗😊
18/06/2025

Moments I long for 🤗😊

Do you relate 🤔
17/06/2025

Do you relate 🤔

13/06/2025

Let’s Stop Romanticizing Poor Communication

It’s time we stop mistaking emotional unavailability or vague behavior for mystery or chemistry.

If someone can’t express their thoughts, share their feelings, or meet you halfway in a conversation—that’s not deep, it’s just confusing. And over time, confusion turns into frustration, disconnection, and resentment.

Good communication isn’t just a “nice-to-have.” It’s the foundation of trust, intimacy, and growth in any relationship. You deserve clarity, honesty, and effort—not breadcrumbed messages or emotional guesswork.

So here’s your gentle reminder:
✨ Stop chasing people who can’t communicate.
✨ Heal whatever part of you is drawn to emotional unavailability.
✨ And start choosing peace over chaos, every single time.

You’re not asking for too much—you’re just asking the wrong person. 💬❤️

14/05/2025

Have you been in this situation where you were friends with someone and suddenly things change or go west?? Then what follow is ridiculous insult, defamation etc 😊😀😀

After a friendship breaks, defamation or harsh language often comes from emotional pain and a need to regain power or control over the situation. Here are some common reasons why this happens:

1. Hurt and betrayal: When someone feels deeply hurt, especially by someone they trusted, they might lash out with insults or defamation as a way to express pain or seek revenge.

2. Ego and pride: Ending a friendship can bruise one’s ego. Instead of admitting vulnerability, some people choose to attack the other person to make themselves feel stronger or appear blameless.

3. Desire to protect image: If someone feels their reputation might be damaged by the breakup, they might spread negative narratives about the other to protect themselves or influence how others see the situation.

4. Lack of emotional maturity: Not everyone knows how to handle conflict or separation in a healthy way. Using defamation can be a sign of immaturity and poor emotional regulation.

5. Peer pressure or influence: Sometimes people speak badly about ex-friends to gain sympathy or loyalty from mutual friends or social circles.

6. Unresolved feelings: If the emotional bond was strong, unspoken or lingering feelings (even love, jealousy, or guilt) might manifest as anger or slander.

It’s a defense mechanism, but it’s unhealthy and often causes more damage in the long run. Emotionally mature individuals usually choose silence, boundaries, or respectful communication instead.

14/05/2025

Why Friendships Feel Hard Nowadays

Ever noticed how making or keeping friendships feels harder than it used to? You're not alone — and it’s not just in your head.

We’re living in a time where everyone’s busy chasing goals, dealing with personal struggles, or healing from past betrayals. Social media makes us feel connected, but most of it is just surface-level. People are more guarded, cautious, and sometimes afraid to open up — not because they don’t care, but because they’ve been hurt before.

We crave real connection, yet we’re scared of being vulnerable. We miss deep talks, yet we’re unsure who’s really there for us. It’s a strange and lonely paradox.

But here’s the truth: genuine friendships still exist. They just take intention. Be the one who checks in. Be the one who listens. Be the one who creates space for real conversations. You never know who’s quietly waiting for a real friend too.

Let’s bring back real connection — one honest friendship at a time.

12/05/2025

Fall in love — but don’t fall apart.

Love in your 20s should feel like growth, not stress.
Here’s what a healthy relationship looks like:

Respect, not control

Support, not sabotage

Communication, not manipulation

Space to grow individually and together

Shared goals and vision

You don’t need perfect — just honest, kind, and consistent.
A relationship should feel like home, not a battlefield.

12/05/2025

S*x is more than biology — it’s responsibility.

Let’s talk honestly. Many of us were never taught about:

Emotional consequences of s*x

Consent and boundaries

Safe s*x and protection

Peer pressure and shame

Respecting your body and others

Real s*x education is not just about avoiding pregnancy.
It’s about understanding your body, emotions, and decisions.

Talk to someone wise. Learn from real stories. Don’t be afraid to ask questions.
Knowledge protects you. Silence exposes you.

*xEdMatters

12/05/2025

Wrong people can delay your destiny.

That relationship that drains you, controls you, belittles you… is more costly than you think.

Here’s what toxic love can steal from you:

Your peace

Your self-esteem

Your focus and dreams

Your time and mental energy

Your belief in healthy love

You deserve love that feels safe, respectful, and empowering.
Don’t normalize drama. Don’t confuse attention with love.
The right relationship helps you grow — not shrink.

11/05/2025

School gives you a certificate. Skills give you income.

Balancing both isn’t easy — but it’s doable with the right mindset.
Here’s how:

Prioritize time blocks. Dedicate 1–2 hours daily for skill learning.

Use your free time wisely. Replace TikTok scrolling with tutorials.

Pick ONE skill at a time. Don’t overwhelm yourself.

Apply what you learn — even in small projects.

Use school assignments to practice your skill if possible. (e.g., create a website for a project)

School is important. But so is preparing for the real world.
The future belongs to those who graduate with both knowledge and skill.

11/05/2025

You don’t need a degree to start earning — you need a skill.

Here are high-demand skills you can learn online in under 3 months (and some even faster!):

Graphic Design (Canva, Photoshop)

Video Editing (CapCut, Premiere Pro, DaVinci)

Social Media Management

Copywriting / Content Writing

Web Design / Development (HTML, CSS, JavaScript)

Digital Marketing (SEO, Ads)

Data Entry / Virtual Assistance

Most are free or affordable online (YouTube, Coursera, Udemy, ALX, LinkedIn Learning).
Learn the skill → Practice it → Build a portfolio → Start small jobs → Grow.

Don’t wait for opportunity — skill up and create it.

11/05/2025

Many of us carry pain that no one knows about.

Abuse. Neglect. Grief. Betrayal. Abandonment.
We normalize silence because we think it’s strength. But buried pain doesn’t die — it grows.

Healing starts with honesty:

Acknowledge what hurt you. It’s valid.

Stop blaming yourself for what you didn’t cause.

Seek healing — therapy, prayer, journaling, support.

Be kind to yourself. Healing is not linear.

Real talk: The things you don’t heal from will affect how you love, work, think, and live.
You owe it to yourself to be free.

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