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Shadrack Mwimbaji., Mombasa (2025)

05/03/2024

16 THINGS MEN LEARN TOO LATE:

1. The less you say, the more your words will matter.

2. Don't take everything personally. Not everyone thinks about you, as much as yourself does.

3. When you focus on problems, you'll have more problems. When you focus on possibilities, you'll have more opportunities.

4. No matter how much it hurts now, someday you will look back and realize your struggle changed your life for the better.

5. There will always be a reason why you meet people. Either you need them to change your life or you're the one that will change theirs.

6. Never be afraid to try something new because life gets boring when you stay within the limits of what you already know.

7. When you are ignored by a person whose attention means the most to you, the reaction in your brain will be similar to physical pain.

8. Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory.

9. Once you begin to take note of the things you are grateful for, you begin to lose sight of the things that you lack.

10. If you do not have control over your mouth, you will not have control over your future.

11. Life is a mirror and will reflect back to the thinker what he thinks into it.

12. Life is ten percent what happens to you and ninety percent how you respond to it.

13. The only person you have to face in the morning is yourself.

14. Nothing feels as good as something you do from the heart.

15. You are a reflection of the 5 people you spend the most time with.

16. Your potential is directly correlated to how well you know yourself.
May God bless you 🙏

06/01/2024

*TWO DISTINCT LEADERSHIP STYLES*

Leadership styles exhibited by Mother Hen and Mother Duck.

The Mother hen lead from the back, while the Duck leads from the front.

The fact that the mother hen stays behind the chicks while the duck goes ahead of them highlights two different leadership styles: leading from behind and leading from the front.

Leading from behind, as demonstrated by the mother hen, is a leadership style that emphasizes support and empowerment. This style involves staying back to provide guidance and encouragement to followers, allowing them to take the lead and make decisions. It requires a high level of trust in the followers' abilities and a willingness to let them take the lead. This leadership style is effective in situations where followers have a high level of competence and need minimal direction.

Leading from the front, as demonstrated by the duck, is a leadership style that emphasizes direction and control. This style involves taking the lead and setting the direction for follower.
Good evening folks. Wish you all good night.

02/01/2024

SIX LAWS OF MATURITY:

1. Stop Telling People Everything

Most people don't care, and some secretly want you to fail.

2. Choose Your Friends Wisely

The fastest way to become better is to surround yourself with better people.

3. Expect Nothing, Appreciate Everything

Be grateful for the little things in your life to find inner peace.

4. Do Your Best And Trust The Process

The harder you work, the luckier you will get.

5. Control Yourself, Not Others

Controlling others is strength. Controlling yourself is true power.

6. Learn To React Less

When you control your reaction, nobody can manipulate you.

31/12/2023

At age 17, she was rejected from college.
At age 25, her mother died from disease.
At age 26, she suffered a miscarriage.
At age 27, she got married.
Her husband abused her. Despite this, her daughter was born.
At age 28, she got divorced and was diagnosed with severe depression.
At age 29, she was a single mother living on welfare.
At age 30, she didn't want to be on this earth.
But, she directed all her passion into doing the one thing she could do better than anyone else.
And that was writing.

At age 31, she finally published her first book.
At age 35, she had released 4 books, and was named Author of the Year.
At age 42, she sold 11 million copies of her new book, on the first day of release.

This woman is J.K. Rowling. Remember how she considered su***de at age 30?
Today, Harry Potter is a global brand worth more than $15 billion dollars.

Never give up. Believe in yourself. Be passionate. Work hard. It’s never too late.

27/12/2023

HERE'S A SECRET YOU DON'T KNOW ABOUT AIRPLANES....!!

Do you know that so many passengers are so scared when the plane takes off from the ground to the sky. But here's what they don't know, so many people don't know that it's more risky for the airplane to stay on the ground than it is for it to be in the sky.

And that is so because the airplanes are configured for the sky. And so wherever it's on the ground, it gets rusted easily.

Today I want to ask you how many times you feel that that place you are right now is the perfect place for you to be?

So many times you say to yourself, This is just my place, this is where I was meant to be. But on the other hand, if you check, that is not the place God wants you to be.

The more you keep staying in that point where you are not meant for, the more things in your life keep getting worse.

It's like the airplane many of us have been configured for the sky but because we are so comfortable with our comfort zone, we have limited ourselves and to remain on the ground and at the course of that we keep getting rusted.

Most times we ask ourselves why our lives keeps going the way it is?…

It is because like passengers in the airplane we've concluded that because of the fear of rising high to the sky, is it not better for us to remain in the ground?

Like passengers, so many people have told us the 'pilots' of our lives that you should just remain where you are because it is scary for you to go up there.

It is time for you to move.

It is time for you to make a move.
It is time for you to be where God wants you to be not where people want you to be.

Remember, no one, no one can ever help you make a decision of where you need to be only you.

SEPARATE YOURSELF FROM YOUR COMFORT ZONE.

24/12/2023

10 POWERFUL TRUTHS FOR EVERYDAY LIVING.

1. Nobody cares about you, your plans, your goals, or your little dramas. So, stop pretending they do, or getting upset when they don't. Do the good things you have to do for your benefits.

2. When it comes to reaching your goals, discipline is more important than motivation. If you don't have discipline, you will never be committed to anything.

3. You are the only person capable of changing your life; no one can do that for you and no amount of excuses can do it for you. The easiest way to change yourself is to change the things you do each day.

4. The biggest threat to your progression in life isn't something or someone around you. It is you.

5. The key to a successful life lies not in what you know, but in what you do with what you know.

6. Failure is just a steppingstone on the road to success.

7. You can't change the past, but you can still d£stroy your future if you repeat the mistakes.

8. Success is not about what you accomplish, it's about who you become in the process.

9. Your comfort zone is a barren place. Nothing ever grows there.

10. Anything in life worth achieving will not be easy to get. Stop believing otherwise. If it was easy, everyone would get what they wanted. Most people give up on their goals when things become too difficult. Don’t be like them.

23/12/2023

10 THINGS WOMEN NEED TO KNOW ABOUT MEN

1. A man who loves you actually looks forward to helping you, even with chores; all you have to do is ask

2. Men love to hang around a woman who challenges them. That woman who knows more about different life topics, not just romance. That woman who talks and he is amazed by her wisdom

3. Flirting doesn't keep a man. What keeps a man is his need of you and how you respect him

4. A man can actually use his ego positively :) to love you, to brag about you, to be proud of you and to make sure the love you two have is never put to shame because his name is on the line

5. A man who is affectionate towards God will be affectionate towards you. Check his relationship with God

6. The moment a man feels you don't admire him but belittle him, he will begin to pull away and avoid you

7. When you give a man peace he will become vulnerable to you and find you to be good company

8. When a man loves you, it will be clear, you will know it and feel it

9. The easiest way to make a man change for the better is not to criticize him but to inspire him to be better by appreciating his effort

10. Men have emotions too. If you make him feel safe, he will reveal those emotions to you

23/12/2023

KEEP YOUR HUSBAND . EVERY WOMAN SHOULD READ...

1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.

2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you.You are each other's keeper.

3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.

4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.

5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.

6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.

7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.

8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.

9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.

10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband s*x. You must give it to him how he wants it. S*x is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over your duty. No man can withstand s*x starvation for too long(even the anointed ones)

11). Never compare your husband to your one time s*x mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.

12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.

13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.

14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.

15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.

23/12/2023

ADVICE TO ALL EMPLOYEES :

1. Build a home earlier. Be it rural home or urban home. Building a house at 50 is not an achievement. Don't get used to government houses. This comfort is so dangerous. Let all your family have good time in your house.

2. Go home. Don't stick at work all the year. You are not the pillar of your department. If you drop dead today, you will be replaced immediately and operations will continue. Make your family a priority.

3. Don't chase promotions. Master your skills and be excellent at what you do. If they want to promote you, that's fine if they don't, stay positive to your personal.
development.

4. Avoid office or work gossip. Avoid things that tarnish your name or reputation. Don't join the bandwagon that backbites your bosses and colleagues. Stay away from negative gatherings that have only people as their agenda.

5. Don't ever compete with your bosses. You will burn your fingers. Don't compete with your colleagues, you will fry your brain.

6. Ensure you have a side business. Your salary will not sustain your needs in the long run.

7. Save some money. Let it be deducted automatically from your payslip.

8. Borrow a loan to invest in a business or to change a situation not to buy luxury. Buy luxury from your profit.

9. Keep your life,marriage and family private. Let them stay away from your work. This is very important.

10. Be loyal to yourself and believe in your work. Hanging around your boss will alienate you from your colleagues and your boss may finally dump you when he leaves.

11. Retire early. The best way to plan for your exit was when you received the employment letter. The other best time is today. By 40 to 50 be out.

12. Join work welfare and be an active member always. It will help you a lot when any eventuality occurs.

13.Take leave days utilize them by developing yr future home or projects..usually what you do during yr leave days is a reflection of how you'll live after retirement..If it means you spend it all holding a remote control watching series on Zee world, expect nothing different after retirement.

14. Start a project whilst still serving or working. Let your project run whilst at work and if it doesn't do well, start another one till it's running viably. When your project is viably running then retire to manage your business. Most people or pensioners fail in life because they retire to start a project instead of retiring to run a project.

15. Pension money is not for starting a project or buy a stand or build a house but it's money for your upkeep or to maintain yourself in good health. Pension money is not for paying school fees or marrying a young wife but to look after yourself.

16. Always remember, when you retire never be a case study for living a miserable life after retirement but be a role model for colleagues to think of retiring too.

17. Don't retire just because you are finished or you are now a burden to the company and just wait for your day to die. Retire young or whilst energetic to enjoy waking up for a cup of coffee, enjoy the sun, receive money from your business, visit nice place that you missed and spend good time with family. Those who retire late, spend about 95% of their time at work than with their family and that's why they see it difficult to spend time with their family when they retire but end looking for another job till they die. If they don't get another job, they die early.

18. Retire at your house than at government accommodation so that when you retire you can easily fit into the society that raised you. It's not easy to adjust to live in a location after spending more years at company house or at government house.

19. Never let your employment benefits make you forget about your retirement. Employment benefits are just meant to make you relax, get finished whilst time is moving. Remember when you retire no one will call you boss if you don't have a viable business.

20. Don't hate to retire because one day you will retire either voluntarily or involuntarily.

Hope this will help you look at life positively.

06/12/2023

The best Leadership lessons

1. Talk less, listen more.
People will pay attention to what you say, just because of your position. The leader’s job is to pay attention to what other people say, especially those who think their views don’t count. Show you’re listening by acting on what people tell you, and gain their trust by giving them the credit.

2. Don’t step in with solutions too quickly.
No-one learns anything new if you keep doing what you already know how to do, and don’t allow others to try. Anyway, they may find a different, or better way, and if not… mistakes are valuable too.

3. Be authentic.
Be authentic, passionate, even emotional, about what you believe in. Share your vision and live your values. The personal is more engaging, even inspiring, than the process.

4. Don’t ‘dis’ downwards.
Once a decision is made by the Board, or the leadership team, it’s yours even if you argued against it during discussions. Your job as leader is to get others to believe in, and work towards, a shared goal, not to divide opinion or loyalties.

5. I’m OK: You’re OK.
Start from the position that everyone is doing the best they can, then look for ways to support and encourage them – which is so much more rewarding than finding fault.

6. Don’t be the smartest person in the room.
Being a leader does not mean knowing more than anyone else. Recognise, encourage and promote others as experts. Give them the trust and autonomy to be creative and do excellent work, defined in their terms. You simply provide the direction, so that this excellent work contributes to a shared purpose.

7. Sense of purpose.
Your team know what they do and how to do it, but you can make a big difference by sharing a strong sense of why they’re doing it and where it’s heading. Help them develop a broad understanding of the team’s purpose, and faith in how their role contributes to the whole. (Remember the floor-sweeper at NASA?)

8. Being right isn’t enough.
A great idea is of no consequence unless you can convince others to believe it too, and then persuade them to help you make your idea a reality. The best way to do this is to make the idea theirs.

9. Focus on a few things.
Focusing on the things that really matter and where you can make a difference. There may be a hundred different distractions and demands on your time and a hundred ways you could respond, but it’s the dozen carefully chosen actions that deliver the results.

10. Get out and about.
Get out and about and in the work. It’s hard to retain that sense of what the job’s really about when you are sitting in your office. You’ll see what people actually do, rather than what people tell you they do. And you’ll see their commitment, effort and achievements first hand, and feel proud to be part of the same team. Always inspiring, and informative, and better than any meeting!

11. Keep trying.
Don’t beat yourself up when you don’t live up to your own expectations. Reflect and learn from those times when you stumble and fall over the other 10 resolutions.

05/12/2023

Men,
A woman who doesn't listen to you does not belong to you. A woman who doesn't take corrections from you; a woman who doesn't take instructions from you; a woman who doesn't take direction from you; that woman is condescending and arrogant. She thinks she's doing you a favor by being in a relationship with you. That woman thinks she's better than you and she deserves to be with someone who's better than you, richer than you, more successful than you. That woman is disrespectful; always arguing with you; always creating unnecessary drama; giving you no peace because she wants to prove a point. That woman loves materials for trade. she will humiliate you and abandon you. So, stop trying to change her. That woman will ruin you. Run when you still can.

03/12/2023

WORDS FROM A FATHER TO A SON ABOUT MARRIAGE.

1. My son, if you keep spending on a woman and she never asked you if you’re
saving or investing, and she keeps enjoying the attention, don’t marry her.

2. My son, a woman could be a good wife to you, some could be a good mother to
your children but if you’ve found a woman like a mother to you, your children and
your family, please don’t let her go.

3. My son, don’t confine the position of your wife to the kitchen, where did you get
that from? Even in our days, we had farm-lands where they worked every
morning . . . that was our office.

4. My son, if I tell you that you’re the head of the house, don’t look at your pocket;
look if you will see a smile on your wife’s face.

5. My son, if you want to have a long life, let your wife be in-charge of your salary,
it will be difficult for her to spend it when she’s aware of the home needs and bills
to pay but if it’s in your care, she will keep you asking even when all has been
spent.

6. My son, don’t ever beat your woman, the pain in her body is nothing to be
compared to the wound on her heart and that means you may be in trouble living
with a wounded woman.

7. My son, now that you’re married, if you live a bachelor kind of life with your
wife, you will soon be single again.

8. My son, in our days, we had many wives and many children because of our
large farm-lands and many harvests, there are hardly any land for farming anymore, so embrace your woman closely.

9. My son, under the cocoa tree that I did meet your mother could be your
eateries and restaurants of nowadays, but remember, the closet thing we did there
was to embrace each other.

10. My son, don’t be carried away when you start making more money, instead of
spending on those tiny legs that never knew how hard you worked to get it, spend
it on that woman that stood by you all along.

03/12/2023

•SUBMISSIVENESS IS NOT STUPIDITY•

Ladies don’t know there is power in being submissive.
Some feel it is stupidity to respect a man.

To be there for him and be part in his life both in good times and bad times.
Circumstances shouldn’t determine whether you submit to a man or not.
Per adventure he loses his job,that shouldn’t make you disrespect him.

Remember, that is just a passing phase,he will bounce back again and you might regret being disrespectful and rude when he had nothing.
A man’s greatest want is respect,many mistake it for s*x. In as much as they want that,men love to be respected whether or not they have money. You should never disrespect them.
If you are submissive you can manipulate any man to do whatever you want... ya you heard that right.

When your HUSBAND comes back from work, 👷🏾‍♂️you greet him. Give him a warm hug 🤗
Ask about his day ❓
He takes his bath🧖‍♂️
You serve him his food 🥘
You stay with him till he finishes eating
Yes you have a hair to buy or a clothe you have to buy👈
After when he has settled down...
You sit on his lap, touch him in some certain places...😉
And then release the bomb 💣
“Honey I need to get a new hair”
Or “my king do you know my friend’s wedding is next Saturday?
He will say really?
You will then use a baby voice and say
“I need to get a fine dress for the wedding”
“You know you are a king,your wife can’t be dressed less than royalty”
Just try and see whether he will not do it or not!
Submissiveness is more powerful than not being submissive.
Hope you learnt a few things🙃bye.

03/12/2023

FACTS ABOUT WOMEN

A woman will block you, delete your number and tell you never to call her again and still expect you to call her. Don't ask me how, it's only women can explain it better.

In the midst of argument with her, don't bother exchanging words with her because it's not her that's speaking instead listen to her and let her continue vomiting. And when she's cool, embrace her and let her know how much you love her.

Listen bro, a woman that truly love you will block you on Whatsp, Facebook and still use her friends Facebook account to see how you are holding up.

They may breath fire in front of you and break down in tears in a Conner 🤔 their hearts are softer than a new born babys feet's🤦 HONESTLY.

Until you realized and understand that most women speak in opposite meanings whenever they are mad and angry at you, then you will forever fall in same trap of counting your Ex's

A woman that truly love you will have a fight with you sleep in the same bed with you and gave space for 10 people's in the middle and still be turning slowly to check if you turned your back at her or face her.

What am trying to say... Don't act upon angry women's words. Most of the times, that gender don't really mean what they say.

May God give men more understanding.

02/12/2023

HOW TO CONTROL YOUR DESTINY.

1. Accept reality
To control your destiny, you must first accept who you are and where you are, right now. If you fool yourself into thinking that you’re further along in your goals than you really are, you’ll leave yourself with nothing to accomplish. At the same time, don’t convince yourself that your life is worse than it really is. Take a step back and look at your circumstances from a new perspective. Develop your self-awareness and accept reality. You can’t make a plan to control your destiny if you don’t know your starting point.

2. Question your beliefs
Accepting reality doesn’t mean you just sit back and forget about how to control your destiny. It means that you take ownership of what you can change and forget about things you can’t. You can’t control what others do or think. You can’t control the market. The only thing you can change is your own mindset. To do that, you must question the story you tell yourself – and transform it into one that empowers you. Limiting beliefs – the negative things we tell ourselves about the way we are and the way the world is – only hold you back from fully controlling your destiny.

3. Let go of the past
Your past is not your future – unless you live there. To control your own destiny, you must forgive those who have hurt you and let go of the past. Realize that, as Tony says, “Nothing in life has any meaning except the meaning you give to it.” Will you give your past a meaning filled with hurt and pain, or will you realize that it’s what made you who you are today? Your past can be a source of inner strength and deep belief in yourself, if you choose to give it a positive meaning.

4. Explore your relationships
Nothing affects the quality of your life and your ability to control your destiny more deeply than your relationships. They are a window into your values and beliefs, including your beliefs about yourself. They are the source of life’s greatest pleasure and life’s greatest pain. And they can either propel you toward your goals or keep you stagnant.

Sometimes you must cut ties with unhealthy relationships that no longer serve you. This is one of the hardest parts of learning how to control your destiny, but you can’t fly when you’re weighed down.

5. Reveal your driving force
Your relationships also provide clues about your driving force – the ultimate reason you do the things you do. We’re all driven by Six Human Needs: certainty, significance, variety, love/connection, growth and contribution. We need all of these things at a certain level, but we each have one top need that drives us more than others. By looking at your life in this context, you’ll be able to more successfully control your destiny, because you will recognize and fulfill your needs in a positive way

6. Face your fears
Fear is a natural survival instinct, but like our relationships, it doesn’t always serve us. If you’re living in fear, you can never truly learn how to control your destiny. To become your best self and realize your unlimited potential for growth, you must learn how to use fear instead of letting fear use you. Be vulnerable with your partner. Take steps to start that business you dream of. Sign up for a public speaking class. Whatever you are afraid of, go do it – today.

7. Design your life
You’ve created new, positive beliefs, let go of relationships and stories that don’t serve you and discovered how to fulfill your needs. You’re feeling confident and empowered. Now is the time to design your life. You can do, have and be anything you want, so think big. What is your true purpose in life? What energizes you? Envision an extraordinary life filled with passion. A life you can only achieve when you fully control your destiny.

8. Reset your focus
Tony tells us that “Whatever you consistently think about and focus upon you move toward.” Once you’ve designed your life, you must put all your energy toward achieving that life. Stop relying on others to make you feel a certain way or waiting around for them to get on the same page. Use empowering routines like priming, visualization, incantations and exercise to focus your intentions on how to control your destiny. Create goals using a system like Tony’s Rapid Planning Method and hold yourself accountable. You have all the tools you need – the rest is up to you.

01/12/2023

ADVICE TO MEN,

Men pay attention, both married and single. Let me give you this piece of advice for free..

1) It takes Patience to LIVE with a Woman

2) It takes Patience to LOVE a Woman

MARRIAGE will test your Patience as a Man. Start building it now..

A Woman can make you go late for events back to back because she'll take 3 hours to get ready. Remember you only need 3 minutes.

If you aren't patient, you'll talk to her in a manner or do something you'll later regret,

A Woman can burst into tears just because you forgot to tell her I LOVE YOU before you dozed off to sleep

A Woman loves to talk, if you are not patient as a Man, you'll snap one day and tell her "Woman, you talk too much, don't you ever keep quiet" and those words can damage a Woman almost irreversibly.

A Woman craves attention and petting, this can sometimes get on your nerves as a Man and only patience will help you.

A Woman can get angry, and you'll use full 45 minutes to be apologizing. If you aren't patient, you no go fit.

She'll say she's not hungry, then after you buy only one sharwama, she'll be dragging it with you.

You'll both have a plate of rice before you, but she'll leave her plate of rice and be eating yours.

When she's on her menstrual period, you'll see drama. PATIENCE!

When she's Pregnant, maximum drama. PATIENCE!!

You'll run errands in Marriage oh.

"Honey scratch my back".

"Honey hold me"

"Baby, tell me you love me.." and you just said it 3 minutes ago.

Relationship and Marriage will test your Patience as a Man. I've told you ahead, carry patience and enter marriage.

Put God First Always.

Shadrack Mwimbaji.

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