26/11/2025
āAnonymous:
Saa zingine I just sit and wonder what exactly I was thinking staying with a guy like Kelvin. Honestly, love can make you blind in ways you donāt even realize.
When we first met, Kelvin used to treat me like a queen. Calls every morning, long chats till late, even showing up with chips and kuku when I said Iām tired. I felt like, āfinally, a genuine guy.ā
But pole pole, the true colors started showing.
Attitude every small thing.
If I didnāt pick his call immediately, I was āplaying gamesā.
If I asked him where he was, suddenly I was ānaggingā.
But him disappearing for hours was somehow normal.
He hated when I went out with my girls. Hata dressing nicely became an issue. āUnaenda wapi na hizo nguo?ā Every small thing turned into an argument. And I found myself apologizing for things I didnāt even do.
My friends, kept telling me, āBabe this guy is draining you.ā But I kept defending him, saying heād change. And of course, every time I tried to leave, Kelvin would come back with sweet words, long paragraphs, fake promises, mpaka you start thinking maybe you overreacted.
The day it hit me was when I realized I had cried three nights in a row over the same nonsense. I looked at myself in the mirror and I didnāt even recognize who Iād become. I was stressed, drained, and honestly just tired.
So I finally left. Just packed my pride and walked away.
It still hurts because feelings donāt just disappear. But at least now I can breathe. Iām finding myself again, slowly, without all that drama and manipulation.ā
