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AMOS NYAMU JNR, dedan kimathi Street, Nairobi (2025)

10/12/2024

HOW TO RESPECT YOURSELF

(1) Stop looking for who is not looking for you.

(2) Stop begging.

(3) Stop saying more than is necessary.

(4) When people disrespect you, confront them immediately.

(5) Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours.

(6) Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don't reciprocate it.

(7) Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy.

(8) Stop entertaining gossip about other people.

(9) Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth.

(10) Always look your best. Dress the way you should be addressed.

(11) Be an achiever. Get busy with your goals.

(12) Respect your time.

(13) Don't stay in a relationship where you don't feel respected and valued. Walk away.

(14) Learn to spend money on yourself. That's how people will learn to spend on you.

(15) Be scarce sometimes.

(16) Be a giver more than a receiver.

(17) Don't go where you are not invited. And when invited don't overstay your welcome.

(18) Treat people exactly the way they deserve.

(19) Except they owe you money, two call attempts is enough. If they value you they will call you back immediately .

(20) Be good at what you do. Be the best you can be.

05/12/2024

Food For Thought;

Appropriate Age to get married.

There is no age in terms of the number of years that we can use as a measure to recommend for marriage. There are 40 or 50 years of people who behave like teenagers and are very immature. Then there are people in their early 20s who behave very maturely and live their lives very responsible. So we can't use age as a measure of maturity but behave.

Now my opinion is that, when you find the person that you love, and you fairly love each other, there is nothing that should stop you from getting married.

There is this mindset that many people have that I will need to accumulate wealth first before getting married. As much as I believe that there is no one formula to life, the common thing that I know is that you will be able to find true love when you are still financially down. Whatever that will come after you have money is questionable. There are higher chances that you will settle for a person who loves what you are not who you are. This might be the reason why we have experienced so much divorce in recent years.

Find your life partner and marry before you become rich, work your lives, and build it together.

A strong community is built by complete family setup, a strong nation built by complete family setup where the wife and a husband stay together.

I don't overlook single parents. They also do a wonderful job to raise a family single-handedly. For that, we salute.

Dr Banabus

05/12/2024

Who did God use to:

Pay for your education
Pay for your healthcare until adulthood
Pay for feeding and accommodation
Pay for your childhood holidays, and
Pay for your marriage

Was it not your parents? Or am I lying? Yet, after they have sacrificed all these for you, you want to take your first salary and sacrificially pay it to your pastor or church as first fruit? Even Christ said, 'To whom much is given, much is expected.' Let me ask you this question: If, God forbid, you die today, who will feel it between your parents and your pastor? Look, do not be brainwashed with religious consumerism. God's representatives to you on Earth are your parents, not your pastors: if you truly want to honour God, go home and honour your parents!

04/12/2024

Tonight's football match between the MIGHTY ARSENAL and MANCHESTER UNITED will be an opportunity to separate the wheat from the chaff. Manchester will finish the game wounded! Dare me, we can bet.

04/12/2024

A son decided to take his aging father to a restaurant for a special dinner. The father, frail with age, struggled with the simplest of tasks. As they sat down to eat, he occasionally dropped food onto his shirt and pants. His hands trembled slightly as he brought the spoon to his lips. Around them, other diners cast uncomfortable glances, some filled with judgment, others with pity. The murmurs of disapproval were audible, but the son remained calm, his demeanor unwavering.

He patiently supported his father, offering gentle words and a steady hand whenever needed. Not once did he seem embarrassed or annoyed.

After the meal, the son helped his father to his feet and guided him to the restroom. There, he carefully wiped the remnants of food from his father’s face, gently cleaned the stains from his shirt, straightened his collar, combed his thinning gray hair, and adjusted his glasses. Each action was deliberate, filled with tenderness.

As they walked back through the restaurant, a heavy silence hung in the air. The judgmental whispers had stopped. Diners watched, their gazes now softened, perhaps even reflective. The son paid the bill quietly, prepared his father’s coat, and started to leave.

Just as they were about to step out, an older gentleman from another table approached them. His face was kind, his eyes gleaming with emotion.

“Excuse me,” the man said, addressing the son, “don’t you think you left something behind?”

The young man paused, puzzled. He checked the table, then turned back to the stranger. “No, I don’t think so,” he replied politely.

The older man smiled, a deep warmth in his voice as he said, “Oh, but you did. You left a lesson for every son here and a hope for every father.”

In that moment, the restaurant felt still. The kind of stillness where time seems to hold its breath. There was no noise, no clinking of plates, just a profound silence as the weight of those words settled over everyone present.

One of life’s greatest honors is caring for those who once cared for us. The parents and elders who spent their lives sacrificing for our well-being deserve nothing less than our unconditional love, respect, and gratitude. For one day, when the roles are reversed, it becomes our turn to be their strength, their support, and their unwavering source of dignity.

This heartfelt story is a gentle reminder that love and respect for our parents is a legacy worth leaving behind. ❤️

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04/12/2024

Reality of life

1.The worst battle is between what you know and what you feel.

2.People start hating you when they cannot control you.

3.Never assume that loud is strong and quiet is weak.

4.Feelings are temporary; decisions are permanent.

5.Most people don’t actually want the best version of you, they want the version of you that best serves them.

6.It’s not how big the house is, it’s how happy the home is.

7.Don’t trust too much, don’t love too much, that ‘too much’ can hurt you so much.

8.Sometimes you have to stay busy so you don’t have time to feel.

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04/12/2024

For ladies still wondering why men cheat, Nancy Mwende, an alumnus of our prestigious Kivumbi Institute of Dust Management and Simping Technology shared a simple solution with our Dean of Students Proff. Katetee Koroge. She said that she keeps her husbands stomach full and his testicles empty. This has really helped in reducing cheating cases. We urge Anyango to try the same.

Since we don't have a lot of words, We'll just wrap up this update with a Samburu proverb that says, "A wife who knows how to use a condom correctly is a serial cheater and a senior field marshall."

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