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About That Street, About That, Nairobi (2025)

28/05/2025

7 KINDS OF PEOPLE EVERY MAN MUST AVOID TO PROTECT HIS PEACE, PROGRESS, POWER, AND PURPOSE

A man’s downfall rarely comes from enemies. It comes from the wrong people in his circle. If you want to secure your peace, maintain your progress, command your power, and fulfill your purpose — you must master the brutal art of disconnection.

Here’s the hard truth:

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1️⃣ WHEELBARROW PEOPLE
These people are energy-drainers and time-wasters. They bring you their problems and expect you to solve them. They never consider your own good — it’s always about what you can do for them.
The problem? Like a wheelbarrow, after you’ve loaded them with your time, money, and effort — you still have to push them forward.

Note: These people consume your energy, your time, and your resources. Cut them off.

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2️⃣ MOSQUITO PEOPLE
These are the leeches of life. They show up when they need something and disappear when you need them. They’ll suck value out of you and replace it with poison — envy, lies, and betrayal.

The sign? Mosquito people only sing your praises when there’s something for them to gain. Behind closed doors, they backbite and sabotage.

Note: Never entertain men who only come around to benefit themselves.

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3️⃣ SCAFFOLDING PEOPLE
Temporary helpers who want permanent power over your life. Because they assisted you once, they feel entitled to dictate your direction, decisions, and destiny.

Understand this: Scaffolding serves a purpose when building, but it’s dangerous if left up forever.

Note: Know when a man’s relevance in your life has expired. If you delay cutting them off, your growth will be stunted.

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4️⃣ CROCODILE PEOPLE
Professional pretenders. They act like they care, act like friends, but only draw close to gather ammunition against you. At the slightest disagreement, they’ll use what they know to destroy you.

Crocodile people smile while they plot.

Note: Keep your vulnerabilities away from people who haven’t proven loyalty.

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5️⃣ CHAMELEON PEOPLE
Jealous men hiding in plain sight. They monitor your every move, pretending to support you while quietly competing against you. They never clap when you win but magnify your mistakes.

The danger? Envy is silent but deadly.

Note: Detect envious energy early. Remove it permanently.

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6️⃣ NAYSAYER PEOPLE
Dream assassins. Every time you share an idea, they flood you with negativity and doubts. They’ll remind you of your failures, magnify obstacles, and mock your ambitions.

The fact is: A man with no vision can’t respect yours.

Note: Stay far away from men who tell you what can’t be done.

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7️⃣ GARBAGE PUSHER PEOPLE
These are the messengers of misery. Always carrying bad news, gossip, and discouraging talk. They specialize in distractions, drama, and demoralizing information.

Their goal? To pollute your mental space and disturb your peace.

Note: A man who feeds on negativity will eventually poison your environment. Block them out.

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FINAL WARNING:

Your circle controls your fate. The wrong people will derail your peace, cripple your progress, strip your power, and kill your purpose. Stop entertaining liabilities disguised as allies.

As a man, your mission is to build, lead, and protect your legacy — not babysit snakes, leeches, and parasites.

Audit your circle. Cut dead weight. Stay sharp. Stay sovereign. Stay solid.

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28/05/2025

WHY FOCUSED MEN DON’T ARGUE, FIGHT, OR CHASE WOMEN

Let’s be real.

The moment you start arguing, fighting, or chasing women, you’ve already lost control — not just of your emotions, but of your life.

Focused men don’t waste time or energy on drama.

They play a different game.

Here’s why focused men stay calm, strong, and above the noise.

1. They Know Energy is Currency

Arguing burns energy you can’t get back.

Fighting wastes time that could be spent building your future.

Chasing women steals focus from your goals.

Focused men protect their energy like their lives depend on it — because they do.

When you argue or chase, you’re spending precious currency on distractions.

2. Focused Men Understand Power Comes From Control

Control over emotions means control over outcomes.

When you lose your temper, you lose respect.

When you chase, you lose value.

Focused men don’t need to prove themselves through conflict or desperation.

They lead quietly and let results do the talking.

3. They Have Bigger Goals Than Temporary Drama

While others fight over petty issues or scramble for attention,

Focused men are building legacies, stacking wealth, and leveling up.

They see the bigger picture — women, fights, and arguments are small chapters, not the whole story.

Why waste your life on side drama when greatness awaits?

4. Chasing Is a Sign of Weakness, Not Strength

Men who chase women show insecurity and lack of self-worth.

Focused men know their value and wait for the right ones to show up.

They attract, they don’t chase.

When you chase, you’re begging for validation.

That’s weakness — not masculinity.

5. They Build Respect Through Actions, Not Words

Focused men understand respect is earned quietly.

They don’t argue to prove a point — they work to prove it.

Their silence is louder than noise.

They don’t fight for attention, they fight for results.

Your words mean nothing if your actions don’t back them up.

6. They Avoid Drama Because It Kills Productivity

Drama steals your focus, clouds your judgment, and drains your motivation.

Focused men cut off drama before it starts.

They surround themselves with winners, not complainers.

They guard their time like a hawk because every minute wasted is a step backwards.

7. Emotional Mastery Is Their Secret Weapon

Focused men control their emotions instead of being controlled by them.

They don’t react impulsively or get dragged into chaos.

They respond strategically.

This emotional mastery builds confidence, peace, and power.

FINAL TRUTH:

If you’re always arguing, fighting, or chasing, you’re stuck in a low-level game.

But focused men?

They play at a higher level.

They know the real battle is inside — mastering themselves so they can conquer everything else.

Stop wasting energy on useless fights and chasing after what’s not meant for you.

Focus on your purpose.

Focus on your power.

Because focused men don’t argue, fight, or chase — they win.

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Drop “FOCUS OVER DRAMA” in the comments if you’re done wasting your energy.

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28/05/2025

When a Father Walks Away—Everyone Pays the Price

Let’s say it loud:

The greatest crisis a child can face isn’t poverty.
It’s not bullying.
It’s not the cost of college.

It’s a father who left.

Whether he left through cheating, cowardice, or being pushed out—
the result is the same:

A child with no compass.
A future with no blueprint.
A legacy with no foundation.

Let’s talk about it.

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1. Fathers Who Cheat Don’t Just Betray Their Wives—They Break Their Children

That affair you had?

It didn’t just destroy trust.
It disrupted an entire bloodline.

Because the day you became a father, you weren’t just a lover.

You became a leader.

And when the leader abandons the structure?

The whole kingdom collapses.

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2. Women Who Weaponize the Law Are No Better

Let’s not pretend:

The law is on your side.
The courts favor you.
The world will call you brave—even if you’re petty.

But just because you can destroy a man legally doesn’t mean you should.

Pushing a father out because your emotions changed isn’t power.
It’s generational sabotage.

Children don’t care about your ego.

They care about consistency.

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3. Science Confirms It—Kids Do Better With Fathers Present

You can’t rewrite this.

Studies show: – Boys raised without fathers are more likely to be violent.
– Girls raised without fathers are more likely to be exploited.
– And all children suffer emotionally when dad becomes a ghost.

Single motherhood may be normalized.
But it’s not ideal.

And if you’re offended?

Check the prison stats.
Check the dropout stats.
Check the depression stats.

Father absence is not just a wound.
It’s a curse.

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4. Men: Stop Starting Families You’re Not Ready to Lead

You want to be a father?

Then stop acting like a frat boy with responsibilities.

– You don’t get to cheat because “she let herself go.”
– You don’t get to start over and pretend your first family doesn’t exist.
– You don’t get to “heal” by disappearing from your children’s lives.

Leadership isn’t convenience.

It’s covenant.

And a man who can’t keep his vows shouldn’t expect loyalty from his children later in life.

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5. Women: Stop Removing the Father Just Because the Marriage Died

You fell out of love?

Cool.

But that doesn’t cancel his role.

You moved on?

Great.

But that doesn’t mean he disappears.

When you turn your child against their father, you’re not protecting them.
You’re punishing them.

And they’ll resent you for it when they grow up.

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6. Children Aren’t Resilient—They’re Just Quiet

Don’t be fooled.

That smile is covering confusion.
That silence is hiding trauma.
That “I’m fine” is rehearsed.

They notice: – When your new partner gets more attention.
– When they stop being invited to things.
– When love starts feeling like a competition.

They’re not “adapting.”

They’re breaking quietly.

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7. Masculinity Must Be Modeled—Not Just Taught

Boys don’t become men through lectures.

They become men by watching one.

And if you’re not around?

They’ll find masculinity in the streets, the screen, or the chaos.

And none of those places build men you’d be proud of.

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Final Word: You Don’t Stop Being a Father Because You Failed as a Husband

Men:
You may have lost the marriage.
But don’t lose your mission.

Women:
You may be hurt.
But don’t hijack your child’s future to soothe your ego.

Because when a father walks away—
Or is pushed out—

Everyone pays.

The kids.
The legacy.
The soul of the next generation.

So whether you're the man who strayed,
Or the woman who shut the door…

Fix it.

Because children don’t care who was right.

They just want both parents to stay in the fight.

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28/05/2025

“YOUR SPIRITUAL LIFE IS DYING BECAUSE YOUR S*X LIFE IS WILD”

Some of you are not under spiritual attack —
You’re just trying to mix holiness with horniness.

Let’s talk like men.

1. You can’t be praying for power in the morning, then watching p**n at night.

What exactly are you expecting?
Heaven to bless you while hell is clapping for you?

You pray for purity, then scroll Instagram to find temptation

You beg God for destiny, then chase someone’s daughter to a hotel

You cry in worship, but moan in fornication by evening

That’s not warfare — that’s contradiction.

You’re not growing spiritually because you’re feeding your lust more than your soul.

2. S*xual sin is a spiritual leak. It drains your authority, boldness, and closeness with God.

That’s why after s*xual sin:

You feel distant from God

You don’t want to open your Bible

You avoid real men of God

You start justifying what you once preached against

You struggle to worship like before

It’s not punishment. It’s separation.
Sin weakens your spiritual voltage.
You can’t sin boldly and still pray boldly — it doesn’t work.

3. Your fire is off because your zip is open.

The Holy Spirit does not dwell in a temple that keeps inviting lust in every weekend.

You can’t cry “Lord, use me” when you keep using your body to please strangers online.

Every time you watch p**n, you plant seeds of guilt

Every time you ma******te, you fuel addiction

Every time you sleep around, you dilute your spiritual oil

Your anointing is not lost — it’s just buried under s*xual compromise.

4. You can’t chase God and girls at the same time. One will leave.

It’s either:

You die to flesh and grow in Christ
OR

You live in pleasure and die spiritually

Let’s be real:
Most brothers don’t lack calling — they just lack consecration.
You want to serve God but still keep your “bad boy” edge.
You want prayer and p**n. Fasting and flirting. Spirit and s*x.
That’s a recipe for spiritual paralysis.

5. God is not the problem — your lack of discipline is.

You cry, “God why don’t I feel you like before?”
But last week, you were on TikTok drooling over half-naked girls.
You ask, “God, why is my fire low?”
But you haven’t gone 3 days without “releasing” into your palm.

This isn’t spiritual warfare. This is self-destruction.

You’re killing your own intimacy with God — and calling it “dry season.”

6. Some of you are not weak — you’re just spiritually disconnected because your s*x life is out of control.

Let’s be real:

You’re losing your spiritual authority

Your dreams are now filled with lust

You’re no longer bold in the Spirit

You’re battling guilt, shame, addiction

You no longer hear God clearly

And guess what? It all started with that small “just once” moment.

One p**n clip.
One ma********on session.
One sneaky hookup.

Now you’re hooked.
And your fire is gone.

7. Freedom is not in “managing it” — it’s in surrender and discipline.

You don’t manage lust — you kill it.
You don’t reduce p**n — you delete it.
You don’t play with s*x — you flee.

You’ll never win spiritually until you cut off the things feeding your flesh.

Unfollow those lust pages

Block those sneaky links

Avoid the girl that only texts you at midnight

Cancel the sneaky “Netflix and chill”

Confess your struggles to real brothers who can help you stay accountable

It’s not shame — it’s spiritual survival.

FINAL WORD

Dear brother,
You’re not dry spiritually because God left you.

You’re dry because s*x has become your new savior.
But s*x doesn’t save — it steals.
Lust doesn’t build — it breaks.
P**n doesn’t relieve — it destroys.

Come back to fire.
Come back to purity.
Come back to spiritual sensitivity.

Your calling is too heavy to live with a careless zip.

Your future family, your ministry, your purpose — depends on this war.

Win it.

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28/05/2025

“BEING STINGY CAN SAVE YOUR LIFE”
(A thread for men who stopped simping and started winning)

Let them call you stingy.
Let them say you’re wicked.
Let them mock you for not “providing.”

But guess what?

The day you stopped sponsoring nonsense,
You started seeing clearly.
You started thinking straight.
You started winning.

1. SIMPING IS HOW MANY MEN BECAME BROKE, USED, AND DEPRESSED

You used to send money for wigs, food, airtime, and “urgent 2k.”
She said she loved you.
But the day your account ran dry, she moved to the next sponsor.

You weren’t a boyfriend.
You were a walking bank with emotions.

2. BEING STINGY EXPOSES WHO’S REALLY FOR YOU

The moment you stop spending, the real ones stay — the users disappear.
Suddenly, “I’m busy.”
Suddenly, “You’ve changed.”
Suddenly, “I don’t feel the connection anymore.”

No sis, it’s not connection you lost —
It’s your daily allowance.

3. STINGINESS TEACHES YOU DISCIPLINE

When you stopped giving anyhow,
You started saving more.
You started investing.
You started thinking long term.

Now you’re building something real,
Not just helping a woman maintain her slay life.

4. YOU OWE NOBODY A SOFT LIFE — ESPECIALLY NOT A LAZY WOMAN

You’re not her dad.
You’re not her sugar daddy.
You’re not a charity organization.

She wants to slay? Let her work.
She wants to flex? Let her hustle.

You’re not her source of income.

5. BEING STINGY FORCED YOU TO LEVEL UP

Because you stopped chasing girls,
You started chasing goals.
Now you’re growing.
You’re glowing.
You’re grinding in peace.

Funny how peace entered your life —
Right after you stopped sponsoring chaos.

6. EVERY TIME YOU SAID “NO” — YOU BOUGHT YOURSELF FREEDOM

No to random requests.
No to manipulative tears.
No to blackmail disguised as love.

That “NO” gave you time.
That “NO” gave you power.
That “NO” gave you life.

7. CALL IT STINGY. I CALL IT STRATEGIC.

Men are not ATMs.
Men are not emotional wastebins.
Men are not fools.

A woman who truly loves you won’t need constant funding to stay.
But a parasite will call you stingy when the free money stops.

FINAL WORD:

Being stingy didn’t make you less of a man.
It made you a man with sense.
It saved your money.
It saved your peace.
And most importantly —
It saved your destiny.

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27/05/2025

“MEN DON’T VALUE LOVE ANYMORE — BECAUSE WOMEN TURNED IT INTO A TRANSACTION”
(A savage post on how modern women destroyed romance and taught men to choose money over emotions)

Let’s be real…

Men were once lovers.

We used to buy flowers, write sweet texts, call at midnight just to say “I miss you.”

But now?

We just want peace. Power. Purpose.

Because modern women didn’t just kill love — they commercialized it.

1. It Was Women Who Made Money the Entry Fee

You want a man to be kind, caring, loyal — and rich.

But when a broke guy gives you all the love in the world, you say:

“He’s too nice.”
“He’s not ambitious.”
“He’s not my type.”

Translation? “He can’t fund my lifestyle.”

So why blame men for focusing on money now?

You taught us that love without cash is useless.

2. Every Rejected Romantic Man Becomes a Ruthless Hustler

The guy you curved in 2019?

The one who called you beautiful and texted “good morning queen” every day?

Yeah — he’s the one now driving past you in silence with a Benz and cold eyes.

Because your rejection turned his heart into stone.

Love failed. Money worked.

And now, he doesn’t want feelings — he wants focus.

3. We Stopped Listening Because Love Doesn’t Pay Bills

“Be soft.”
“Be vulnerable.”
“Be romantic.”

But also:

“Take me out.”
“Send me money.”
“I can’t date a man without a car.”

So men figured it out:

Why invest in emotions when only cash gives results?

4. You Want Love, But Only If It’s Wearing Designer

A man says “I love you” with his whole heart, and you ignore him.

But another guy says “pull up” with a cold voice and money — and you melt.

Let’s be honest:

Love doesn’t move women anymore — lifestyle does.

So don’t blame us for matching your energy.

5. Women Killed Romance — Men Just Buried It

Stop telling men to “be romantic again.”

You made love useless the moment you made money the measurement.

Now, men choose peace over passion.

Work over women.

Silence over simping.

And truth be told…

We’re better for it.

FINAL WORD

You want men to value love again?

Then teach your sisters to stop pricing it like it’s a luxury item.

Until then…

Money first. Love later.

Because in today’s world?

If you’re broke, your feelings are invalid.
And if you’re rich, your flaws are excused.

The game has changed.

Tag your guy who gave love but got played.

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27/05/2025

THE MOMENT YOU STOP CHASING BODILY PLEASURES AND LUSTS , YOU START CHASING SUCCESS
(Why women only respect men who respect themselves first)

P. Diddy is proof of an ancient law:
A man’s greatest victory isn’t conquering the world — it’s conquering himself.

He rose to the top. Music. Fashion. Business. Billions made. Legacies written. An empire built.
But now… the empire crumbles, his name disgraced, and his soul auctioned off for lust, ego, and unchecked demons.

This is the fate of every man who wins the world but loses the war within.
A poor man who governs his impulses is more powerful than a billionaire enslaved by them.

Don’t be fooled by the shine.
Fame without self-mastery is a slow death.
Wealth without wisdom is a loaded gun pointed at your own head.

Look around — the industry’s full of them.
Famous, rich, powerful… but broken, hollow, and terrified of their own reflection.
Because when you sell your soul, repayment always comes. And it’s never in cash.

Here’s why men like Diddy fall — and why YOU must not.

13 Brutal Truths Every Man Must Face If He Wants Power, Peace, And Respect

1. Discipline Is The Real Crown
A man who controls his desires owns his destiny. Lose control, and you’ll end up a rich slave like the ones you idolize.

2. Fame Is Fool’s Gold Without Self-Control
The world may clap for your victories. But if you can’t master yourself, they’ll cheer louder when you fall.

3. Women Only Respect The Man Who Respects Himself First
Chase them, lose yourself. Build yourself, they’ll chase you. It’s ancient law.

4. Weakness Is Expensive
Uncontrolled lust, ego, and impulse cost more than money. They’ll rob you of peace, purpose, and your name.

5. Hollywood Will Give You Everything — Then Strip You Bare
They’ll lift you when you’re useful. Destroy you when you outlive your purpose. And your demons will be the perfect weapon.

6. Temporary Power Is Worse Than No Power
Because it deceives you into thinking you’ve won, while your soul rots.

7. Chasing Women Is Proof You Lack Purpose
A man locked into his mission has no time for distractions. Lust is a distraction. Period.

8. Your Inner Demons Always Collect
Every unchecked appetite, every ignored vice — it builds a debt you will pay. No exceptions.

9. A Name Without Honor Is A Curse
What’s the use of billions if your name is spoken with pity, disgust, or forgotten in shame?

10. No Woman Will Save A Man Who Can’t Save Himself
They’ll feast with you when you’re rising and scatter like vultures when you fall. Bank on it.

11. Respect Can’t Be Bought
Not with money, fame, or followers. It’s earned in silence, with discipline, loyalty, and self-governance.

12. You Become The Tools You Serve
Serve ego, become empty. Serve lust, become broken. Serve your mission — become immortal.

13. The Right Woman Aligns With A Man’s Purpose, Not His Weakness
A wise woman will support your discipline. The wrong one will feed your addictions. Choose well.

Final Warning:
P. Diddy’s fall isn’t just celebrity gossip. It’s a cautionary tale.
The moment you stop chasing pleasure is the moment you start chasing power.
The world respects a man who conquers himself — not one who conquers headlines.

Chase purpose. Rule your demons. Guard your soul.
Because wealth fades. Fame dies.
But your name and your discipline echo long after the dust settles.

And remember…
What does it profit a man to gain the whole world and lose his soul?
Answer: Nothing.

Stay sharp. Stay dangerous. Stay untouchable.

27/05/2025

“YOU CAN’T BUILD WEALTH IF YOU’RE BUSY BUILDING A LAZY WOMAN’S LIFESTYLE”
(A wake-up call for men funding beauty instead of building empires)

Let’s cut the motivational talk and face reality:

You say you want to be rich,
You say you’re chasing legacy,
You say you want freedom…

But your bank account is busy sponsoring a woman with no hustle, no vision, and no intention to ever contribute.

Bro, you’re not building wealth — you’re building a leech.

1. You Can’t Be Focused and Foolish at the Same Time

Discipline and distraction can’t co-exist.
How can you be saving to invest…
…yet spending daily on wigs, lunch dates, urgent 2k, and “babe, I want to fix my nails”?

That’s not love — that’s economic su***de.

2. Lazy Women Are Master Planners — with Your Money

She has no hustle, but she’s always planning soft life:

Girls trip

iPhone 15

New bags

Random cravings

New outfits for birthday shoots

Who’s the sponsor? YOU.

She has a wishlist — and you’re the walking ATM.

3. While You’re Building Her Lifestyle, She’s Not Building Anything With You

Ask her: What’s your long-term goal?
She’ll say, “To be taken care of.”

That’s it.

No plan.
No skill.
No product.
No service.
Just vibes, lashes, and dependence.

That’s not a partner — that’s a parasite.

4. Wealth Requires Discipline — Not Romance With Laziness

Every N50k you send to a girl with no hustle is money you didn’t invest.
Every random transfer you make to impress her is profit you never made.
Every month you fund her lifestyle, you delay your own freedom.

You’re losing years to someone who’s not losing sleep about your future.

5. A Lazy Woman Will Drain You — Financially and Emotionally

The day you can’t send money, she’ll call you “broke.”
The day you ask her to contribute, she’ll say, “That’s your duty.”
The day you fall sick, she’ll vanish with her next sponsor.

You thought you were her king —
But you were just the highest bidder at the time.

6. Not Every Fine Girl Deserves Your Wallet

Is she smart?
Is she driven?
Is she growing?
Is she accountable?

If all she has is body, beauty, and bills —
Leave her for the next mumu.

Your money is a seed — not a donation to laziness.

7. Real Masculinity Is Building With Wisdom — Not Wasting for Validation

You’re not less of a man for saying “No.”
You’re not stingy for protecting your goals.
You’re not wicked for asking “What are you bringing to the table?”

Being a man is not about funding lazy women.
It’s about building a future — and choosing a partner who respects that.

FINAL WORD:

She’s not your wife.
She’s not your business partner.
She’s not investing in you.

So why are you investing everything in her?

Work on your goals.
Build your assets.
Guard your energy.

And stop bleeding your destiny just to sponsor someone else’s slay life.

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27/05/2025

“YOUR BIGGEST ENEMY IS NOT THE DEVIL — IT’S THAT THING IN YOUR TROUSERS”

Let’s stop lying to ourselves.

Not every problem in your life is spiritual.
Some are s*xual. And the enemy is not from your village…
He’s between your legs.

Let’s talk like men.

1. Most men are not broke because of lack of opportunity — they’re broke because of lack of s*xual discipline.

You keep praying for financial breakthrough but every time money enters your hand, you carry it to impress a woman.

Hotel bills

Airtime and data

Gifts she didn’t earn

Transport for girls that won’t stay

Feeding a woman who isn’t your wife

Then you’ll kneel at night and say, “God bless me again.”
For what? To waste it again?

Some of you don’t need more money — you need more control.

2. Lust is the enemy of legacy.

You cannot build a future with your zip always open.

You chase goals for one week

Then chase women for 3 months

You fast for destiny

Then fall into fornication by weekend

You save N200k

Then spend N180k on a girl who says “you’re stingy”

How can you win like that?

You’re fighting generational curses but can’t fight erections.
My brother, the battle is internal.

3. S*x is not a hobby — it’s an exchange of power.

Read your Bible. Samson didn’t die because he wasn’t strong.

He died because he couldn’t control his s*xual appetite.

Every time you “release,” something leaves you:

Focus

Drive

Masculine energy

Spiritual sensitivity

Creative fire

Some of you are not tired — you’re s*xually drained.
No motivation. No ambition. No edge. Just empty because of endless “releasing.”

4. Women are not the problem — your lack of self-control is.

Let’s not blame women.

A woman can flirt, seduce, and tempt — but if you can’t say “No,” the problem is you.

You see a girl shake waist online: you follow her

You see a random babe say “hi”: you start planning hookup

One girl smiles at you: you lose focus for 2 weeks

Bro, you are not under attack.
You are under urges. And urges will finish your destiny if you don’t master them.

5. S*xual sin doesn’t just affect your body — it weakens your spirit.

That’s why after s*x with the wrong person:

You can’t pray

You avoid purpose

You feel empty

Your confidence drops

Your clarity disappears

It’s not magic.
It’s because you gave away power in exchange for 15 minutes of pleasure.

And in many cases, you’re the only one who truly lost.

6. Some men have slept with their destiny and called it “vibes.”

You slept with:

Your distraction

Your Delilah

Your delay

Your downfall

Not every woman is meant for your bed.
Some are planted to derail you permanently.

The devil doesn’t need to kill you.
He just needs to keep you distracted with curves, cleavage, and compliments.
You’ll destroy yourself quietly.

7. The strongest man is not the loudest — he’s the one who can control himself.

The world says:
“Enjoy yourself.”
“Normalize s*x.”
“Do you.”
But look around: where has that gotten most men?

Broke

Confused

Addicted

Rejected

Destroyed

Your power as a man is in your discipline.
Your edge is in your ability to say “Not now.”
Your greatness begins the day you conquer your zip.

FINAL WORD

Dear brother,

You’ve fasted, you’ve prayed, you’ve worked hard — but the real demon is not outside.

It’s inside.

Until you learn to master your s*xual urges, you’ll keep resetting your destiny with your own hands.

This generation of men must rise.

We need men who are focused, masculine, purpose-driven — not weak, h***y, and distracted.

Zip up. Grow up. Rise up.

The future is waiting — don’t trade it for 5 minutes of pleasure and a lifetime of regret.

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26/05/2025

Fathers, Stop Training the Dog Better Than Your Own Son

Let’s get uncomfortable.

You talk softly to your dog. You give it commands with patience. You correct it without rage. You reward good behavior.

But when it comes to your son?

You bark. You shout. You belittle.

All in the name of “tough love.”

Let’s call it what it is: you’re more patient with a German Shepherd than the boy carrying your name.

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1. The Dog Gets Walked. Your Son Gets Walked Over

You schedule time for the dog. Morning walks. Evening routines. Playtime.

But your son?

He gets silence. Stress. Or worse—your leftovers.

Then you wonder why he’s distant.

Why he flinches when you raise your voice.

Why is he angry… just like you.

He’s not broken. He’s trained—to survive your absence.

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2. You Reward the Dog for Trying. You Punish the Son for Failing

Your dog sits half-right and you say “Good boy!”

Your son brings home a B+ and you say “Is that the best you can do?”

You speak life into your pet… and death into your child’s confidence.

You didn’t build a son. You dismantled a man in the making.

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3. You’re Patient With the Dog. But Impatient With the One Who’ll Inherit Your Legacy

The dog’s not going to lead your family. The dog’s not going to pass on your name. The dog’s not going to put flowers on your grave.

Your son will.

Unless you break him first—with your rage, your coldness, and your emotional absence.

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4. Discipline Without Affection Is Abuse Wearing a Father’s Face

You tell yourself “I’m just hard on him so he’ll be strong.”

No.

You’re hard on him because no one taught you tenderness.

You’re raising a soldier without a country—tough on the outside, hollow inside.

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5. He Won’t Learn What You Say. He’ll Copy What You Do

You taught the dog to sit—by showing it how.

But your son?

He learns manhood by watching you.

He watches how you speak to his mother. How you handle stress. How you handle failure. How you treat people who can’t do anything for you.

You want to raise a son who loves deeply, leads boldly, and lives responsibly?

Then live it first.

Don’t just teach him values—embody them.

—

6. What He Needs Isn’t a Drill Sergeant—It’s a Guide

He doesn’t need:
– A man who shouts louder.
– A man who punishes without reason.
– A man who disappears when he fails.

He needs:
– Correction with clarity.
– Leadership with love.
– Discipline with dignity.

Be that man.

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Final Word: If You Can Train a Dog With Gentleness, You Can Raise a Son With Honor

Because at the end of your life…

The leash won’t matter.
The tricks won’t matter.
The obedience school won’t matter.

What will matter?

Whether the son you raised still wants to sit at your table.

You don’t need a chain.

You need a bond.

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