The Rural Mindset and impact to the society

15/10/2024

Just because you're right doesn't make the other person wrong, you just haven't seen life from their position.
Reason from their highest or lowest perspective and you will come to accept their thoughts peacefully.

12/09/2024

12/09/2024

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18/08/2024

Men who misplace priorities intentionally only to pick them later 🤔

Many men tend to withdraw or refuse to fulfill their responsibilities each time they have misunderstandings with their wives. Your children remain your children regardless of the differences you have with their mother. It’s foolish for some men to stop providing family allowances, for example, every time there’s a disagreement.

Who are you punishing—your wife or your kids? Running away from your responsibilities, especially those concerning your children, will leave a lasting impression on them, making them see you as a bad father. Most of them may not realize that it was because of their mother that you sometimes exhibited such negative behavior. Even if they do understand, they will still hold it against you when they mature.

Taking care of your children and your family as a whole is an obligation, regardless of the misunderstandings you have with your wife.

To make matters worse, some husbands or fathers ensure they are not on good terms with their wives during critical times when parents should come together to discuss the future of their kids. For instance, during the back-to-school period, they create problems to avoid the responsibility of registering their children and paying their fees, leaving all the struggles to the mother.

Only later do they look for ways to resolve the issue when the wife has already worked tirelessly to prepare the kids for school resumption.

A husband remains a husband as far as responsibilities are concerned, regardless of any misunderstandings with his wife. Don’t intentionally run from your responsibilities toward your children, pretending it’s because of your wife—that’s a lie. Even if you have disagreements, you still have the right and obligation to take care of your family during those difficult times.
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04/07/2024

A man walks into a butchery just before closing time and asks the butcher "Do you still have chicken?"

The butcher opens his deep freezer, takes out the only chicken left, and puts it on the scale. It weighs 1.5 kg. The manr looks at the chicken and the scale, then asks, "Do you have one that's a bit bigger than this one?"

The butcher puts the chicken back into the freezer and then takes it out again. This time, he craftily keeps his thumb on the scale pan, making it show 2 kg.

"That's wonderful," says the man. "I'll take both chickens, please!"

In a situation like this, you realize that your integrity and your reputation are on the line. Your wisdom becomes foolishness, and your cunning ways become stupidity.

As I write this I wonder whether the butcher has got the first chicken or his head is still inside the deep freezer, looking for the chicken. 🤔🤔

Remember: always tell the truth, and you will be free! A good name is better than riches. Live to express yourself truthfully, not to impress others. 💖💖

Dear friends, demonstrate your integrity, honesty, and accountability. 👏🏽👏🏽
May God help us!

08/06/2024

BREAK THE CYCLE -LET IT END WITH YOU

If you come from a family of drunkards, let that cycle end with you. Don't allow alcoholism pass through you to the next generation.

If you come from a family of drop outs, no one gets to finish school or go to University; end that cycle and reach the highest level in study, prove that even your family tree can produce an intellectual.

If your relative's marriages never last, your parent's marriage was a disappointment; end that cycle, when you get married have a marriage built to last.

If you are a man and your father used to beat up your mother; end that cycle, be the opposite of your dad and love your wife like a real man should.

If you come from a tribal family where decisions are made through tribal lenses; end the cycle, show your family that love knows no tribe.

If the family you come from has been living in poverty; end that cycle, make money, lift your family to wealth.

If members of your family are largely known for mediocrity or shameful acts; end that cycle, be excellent and successful, bring pride to your family name.

If people from your family are known to be mean,cold and tempered; end that cycle, work on being friendly, warm and approachable.

If your family has been involved in witchcraft, su***de, curses and ungodliness; end that cycle, introduce God in your family tree, declare that as for me and my house we will serve the Lord!

You don't have to carry forward the shortcomings in your family down the lineage to the next generation. Love your family but learn from their mistakes. You don't have a say in determining the family you are born in to, but you can determine who you become and the kind of future and family you will have. Your decisions affect generations to come.

Cut the cycle,,, End the Cycle.

12/01/2024

Don't Judge!! Not Unless You're Sure!!!

A doctor entered the hospital in hurry after being called in for an urgent surgery. He answered the call asap, changed his clothes & went directly to the surgery block.

He found the boy’s father pacing in the hall waiting for the doctor.
On seeing him, the dad yelled: “Why did you take all this time to come? Don’t you know that my son’s life is in danger? Don’t you have any sense
of responsibility?”
The doctor smiled & said: “I am sorry, I wasn’t
in the hospital & I came as fast as I could after
receiving the call…… And now, I wish you’d calm
down so that I can do my work”

“Calm down?! What if your son was in this room right now, would you calm down? If your own son dies now what will you do??” said the father angrily.

The doctor smiled again & replied: “I will say what Job said in the Holy Book
“From dust we came & to dust we return, blessed be the name of God”. Doctors cannot prolong lives. Go & intercede for your son, we will do our best by God’s grace”
“Giving advises when we’re not concerned is so easy” Murmured the father.

The surgery took some hours after which the doctor went out happy, “Thank goodness!, your son is saved!” and without waiting for the father’s reply he carried on his way running. “If you have any questions, ask the nurse!!” “Why is he so arrogant? He couldn’t wait some minutes so that I ask about my son’s state” Commented the father when seeing the nurse minutes after the doctor left.

The nurse answered, tears coming down her face: ''His son died yesterday in a road accident, he was at the burial when we called him for your son’s surgery. And now that he saved your son’s life, he left running to finish his son’s burial.

MORAL : "Never judge anyone….. because you never know how their life is & what they’re going through.

The mindset 🤔

19/12/2023

REVIVE YOURSELF, COMMAND YOUR THOUGHTS.
1. Always remember that there is nobody on this earth that does not have problems. You are not the only one that has problems.
2. Challenges is part of life. It is only a dead man that has no challenges.
3. There is no problem that has no solution. There are solutions to the pains you are passing through.
4. The way you picture yourself in your mind can affect your happiness. Picture yourself as a valuable and beautiful person. Avoid low self esteem and inferiority complex.
5. Do not mind about what people say about you. Some people are sadists. They can just say somethings just to make you feel sad.
6. Make friends with reasonable people who make you happy. Do not make friends with people who make jest of you or laugh at you over your challenges.
7. At your leisure time, keep yourself busy with your favorite activities.
8. Do not allow anyone to intimidate you with money and material things. A poor man today can become rich tomorrow. Change is constant.
9. No matter what you are passing through today, do not give up. As long as there is life, there is hope.
10. Be very prayerful. Pray without ceasing. Prayer is a catalyst that can speed up your blessings to come to you on time.
11. Be courageous to go for what you want. Life is all about risk. If you don't take a risk, you will not get the desires of your heart.

Never change your originality for the sake of others. Because no one can play your role better than you.
You are the best. So be yourself...

YOUR THOUGHTS ARE YOUR STEERING!

05/12/2023

Matthew 6:34 is “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”

Be worried about what you were to do and you did not do because of time limit in today's life.

We came empty handed and we shall go empty handed no matter how much wealth we accumulate,the only thing that shall remain as a souvenir is the legacy we leave behind.

Wealth is good for a time, wealth without wisdom is dangerous,but above all the greatest wealth is good health.

Touch as many needy lives as you are capable of and you will never cry foul on your deathbed for a wasted lifetime.
You will die in peace having fought a good fight almost like Apostle Paul and you shall focus on the Spiritual crown and medal and not the stuff you will be leaving behind inform of wealth or mess.

As we focus on the year ahead book a date with your destiny because existence has no continuity until you die for those who may know.
Post- existence is relative to pre- existence, and the foundation that a structure is laid on together with the quality of materials used will always determine the strength and durability of the said.

Our existence is basically Spiritual and nothing else, the body is just housing the spirit of life.
That's why when the Spirit of life is taken away the body remains useless and helpless.

Our spirit is only lifted when we satisfy the need of the less fortunate people who may not may pay us back. Excuse me ,I'm not talking about helping the nowadays common professional street beggars but, I'm talking about isolated various cases or situations of needs..

A need may not necessarily be financial.
Wisdom is wealth, you should know where to apply what, in someone's life.

Put your best foot forward in the remaining days considering this forth coming year as another chance to make up for anything before the spirit of life is gone.

Blessed New Year in Focus.

04/10/2023

OCEAN OF WISDOM

A poor man always think the rich man made his wealth out of luck.

And the rich man believes the poor is poor because he is lazy.

A young lady who married very early thinks ladies who are finding it hard to get married have bad character.

A man who just graduated and get a job immediately thinks he is smarter than others.

While a woman who just got married and start giving birth sees "barren" women as people who lived a wayward life.

If only the poor knew the price the rich paid to get to top and if only the rich knows the battles, challenges that the poor is going through, none will ever form a theory about each other.

If the poor can't appreciate the rich man's success let him mind his business if it is easy to be rich he wouldn't have been poor.

And if the rich won't help the poor grow at least they should not kill the spirit of a struggling man.

If only you know what people endure or fight behind the scene you will always thank God for your life. Until you walk in people's shoes, You will never know how hard the journey is.

Let's be tolerant for a better society. 🙏🏻💖

04/10/2023

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14/09/2023

SOME FACTS ABOUT WOMEN.

Is this true ladies?

1- When a woman is angry, over half of what she says-she doesn't mean...

2- The most difficult time for a woman is when she is away from the man she truly loves.

3- A woman is not like 'detol advert', if you don't take care of her... Others will.

4- It takes time for a woman to trust a man, its hard to change when she does, but if you mess-up, you might just forget it.

5- A woman is such a school you will never graduate from.

6- Your wedding certificate with her is not a "driving licence", its just a "Learners permit"

7- She can be very bitter now, and a very sweet angel later on, it all lies in your approach.

8- A woman hardly forget things, she remembers hurts more, avoid making her hurt.

9- A woman can be highly secretive... Most times when they prove hard to men, they go to their closet and friends to cry.

10- All women Love to be begged. men often miss out on this........

11- All women have a unique character like salt, their presence might not be noticed but their absence makes all things tasteless.
True ?

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