24/11/2025
A lot of women assume they “lose consistency” because the hard moments show up.
No lie…
the hard moments were always going to show up.
What actually throws you is the expectation that things should feel smoother than they do.
You’re not weak.
You’re not failing.
You’re not doing it wrong.
You’re just running into the part no one ever talks about:
that tiny moment where the struggle appears, and your brain instantly labels it as a signal to stop…instead of a signal to keep going.
It isn’t about forcing yourself through it or pretending the struggle doesn’t exist. It’s about recognizing that struggle doesn’t always mean “stop.” Sometimes it just means “this is the part where it feels a little heavier.”
That shift alone makes the whole process feel different.
You don’t have to love the hard parts.
You just have to stop assuming they’re proof something’s wrong.
The part that knocks you off track is usually just the part you didn’t plan on.
You can & should expect hard to hit. And once you expect it?
It loses its power. Because you will learn to swivel on regardless.