29/05/2025
In the beginning, as Sally Field embarked on her Hollywood journey, she was not only chasing her career dreams but also stepping into a new chapter in her personal life. At 19, full of youthful ambition, she married Steven Craig, a man outside the film industry who offered her steady support as she navigated the ups and downs of fame. The two met before Sally became a household name, during a time when she was just another young woman striving to make her mark in a highly competitive industry. Sally often spoke fondly of Steven as her unwavering source of stability while her career began to take flight.
Their wedding in 1968 came as Sally's fame was beginning to grow, particularly with her role as Gidget on television. Sally often reflected on these early years with a sense of warmth, acknowledging how challenging it was to balance a young marriage with the increasing demands of her newfound stardom. "There’s something beautiful about being young and in love, thinking that you can conquer anything together," she once said. It was a time of optimism and shared dreams, with both Sally and Steven believing that love could withstand any pressure life might throw their way.
As her career gained momentum, with standout roles in The Flying Nun and Sybil, the pressures of fame began to intensify. Sally found herself constantly juggling long hours on set with her responsibilities as a wife, a balancing act that began to take a toll. Her days were filled with rehearsals, filming, and public appearances, leaving her physically and emotionally drained when she returned home.
For Steven, the rising fame of his wife presented a different kind of challenge. He stood by her as her career skyrocketed, but as her stardom grew, he found his role in their life increasingly unclear. Sally later reflected on how fame often strained personal relationships, acknowledging the difficulty of balancing her personal happiness with her professional dreams. "You think you can hold on to everything you love, but sometimes, life has a way of making you choose," she said. Together, they had two sons, Peter and Eli, born in 1969 and 1972, and despite the strains of her fame, Sally cherished her role as a mother, always making time for her children. "Nothing grounds you like being a mother. It makes you remember what’s truly important," she said, finding joy in raising them with Steven.
However, as the years passed, the pressures of Hollywood began to show cracks in their marriage. By the mid-1970s, as Sally’s career reached its peak, the demands of her work grew more intense. Her personal identity became increasingly intertwined with her public image, and the simpler life she once shared with Steven seemed more distant. It wasn’t that love had faded, but rather they were growing in different directions. Steven, who had once been her anchor, began to yearn for a quieter, more stable life, while Sally felt drawn to dive deeper into her acting career. "Sometimes, you love someone, but you can’t hold them in a place they no longer belong," she later remarked, hinting at the sadness of their separation.
Their divorce in 1975 marked the end of an era, a time filled with love, sacrifice, and shared dreams. At just 29, Sally continued to thrive in Hollywood, but the end of her marriage gave her a deeper understanding of the complexities of love and ambition. In later interviews, she would reflect on her marriage to Steven as one of the most significant relationships of her life, one that taught her about love, compromise, and the cost of chasing one's dreams. "Steven taught me so much about being true to myself," she said, acknowledging how their time together helped shape her personal growth.
Though both Sally and Steven moved forward after their separation, the memories of their time together stayed with her. In her autobiography, Sally reflected on their years together with bittersweet nostalgia, remembering how Steven had been her rock during the chaotic early days of her career. She described their relationship as one marked by mutual respect and care, despite life pulling them in different directions. Their story was not one of bitterness but of two people who loved each other deeply but ultimately had to go their separate ways. They remained dedicated co-parents, raising their sons together despite their divorce.
Sally went on to have other significant relationships, including one with Burt Reynolds, but her time with Steven Craig remained an important chapter in her life. The years they spent together helped shape her understanding of love, commitment, and the sacrifices made in the pursuit of ambition. "He was my first love, my partner when I was still discovering who I was," she once said. The memory of their young love and the life they built together stayed with her, a constant reminder of a love that could no longer be held onto, but would never be forgotten.