29/03/2026
My husband suggested something very strange… and I don’t know whether to agree or refuse.
He wants us to get officially divorced in front of a marriage registrar, but continue living together as normal…
The reason is so I can receive my late father’s pension, which would be no less than 9,000 pounds per month.
He keeps telling me: “I don’t actually intend to divorce you… we’re just doing it for the pension, and intentions matter.”
He also says no one will ever know, because everyone already sees us as married and nothing will change in our daily life.
Honestly, our financial situation is extremely bad…
We can barely afford food for our kids, clothes, or even medicine.
And 9,000 pounds a month could really solve many of our problems.
But at the same time… I feel like this might be wrong, and I’m afraid of the consequences.
I’m torn between helping my family survive… or refusing the idea completely.
If you were in my place… would you agree or refuse?
👍 Agree for the kids
❤️ Refuse no matter what
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