Everything Me-Joy Sather

28/05/2025

👶💛 My 3rd grandbaby is almost here! 💛👶
Just a few more weeks… maybe even sooner! ⏳🎉

Whether you know my daughter or not, I’m putting this out there from the heart 💓— because any little bit of help right now would mean everything.

👨‍👩‍👧 They’re doing the best they can, but life’s been heavy…
💸 Barely surviving on two incomes, and that’s about to drop to one.
😞 The stress is real. The pressure is nonstop.
And with baby on the way, it’s overwhelming. 🍼🫂

If you'd love to be a blessing to their family and this precious new soul, now’s the moment 💫

You can:
🛍️ Grab something off their Amazon baby registry
🧷 Donate to the diaper fund
🎁 Send an e-gift card (both are at the bottom of the registry)
📦 Or just send love & prayers — it all matters. 💛🙏

Here’s the link to check it all out:
👉 https://www.amazon.com/baby-reg/rose-gabriel-july-2025-nampa/8J86MEXSO86C 👈

✨ If you can’t help directly, feel free to copy & repost this — it might reach someone who can.

Thank you for the love, kindness, and support 💕👣🫶
Every little gesture helps a family breathe easier right now.

11/05/2025

26/12/2024

THE HEALING POWER OF ANGER

For much of my life, I repressed my anger.

I never allowed myself to truly feel it, express it, or share with anyone that I was angry, upset, or anything less than “okay.”

I was a “good boy.”

I was a “nice boy.”

(Except really, I was an angry boy.)

I had been taught—and this was my trauma—that anger was bad, shameful, unspiritual, and a sign of weakness. On top of that, I felt a narcissistic need to protect an image of myself as kind, caring, compassionate, and very, very spiritual, free from any hint of anger.

Science is now showing that people-pleasing, anger-repression, and stuffing down all the life inside of us is incredibly harmful to our health, contributing to and exacerbating a myriad of illnesses and chronic conditions.

When we repress our anger, we repress our life force, our passion, our sexuality, our discernment, our fire. We throw the baby out with the bathwater in our pursuit to be “nice.”

“Nice” is a lie, in that sense.

It was both terrifying and liberating to start allowing myself to feel and express anger in healthy ways. Saying “no” when I meant no, becoming okay with upsetting, disappointing, and even angering people, setting healthy and fierce boundaries, and allowing myself to fully grieve the past.

Giving that inner child full permission to grieve and cry and truth-tell his way into love. Being my authentic self.

I stopped acting out of guilt and shame and allowed myself to walk away from people and situations that didn't serve me or align with my highest ideals.

I stopped allowing anger to control me.

I stopped trying to save everyone and pretending to be the “nice guy.” I let go of the need to be seen as compassionate, spiritual, and kind.

None of that is my business. How people see me.

I stopped caring what people thought of me. This was the most liberating thing of all.

This journey through the healing portal of anger has been deeply liberating and has unlocked so much energy.

Anger is good, you see. Anger is healthy. Anger is not unspiritual, harmful, unhealthy or bad when you finally find out how to unlock and harness its awesome power.

Anger will heal you to the core if you let it, and will unlock the true mysteries of compassion.

Jeff Foster (www.lifewithoutacentre.com)

25/12/2024

Merry Christmas, y’all!

May your day be as chill and authentic as you are. Whether you’re rocking out in your PJs, feasting like a king, or just soaking in the quiet vibes, do it your way. Stay you, stay weird, and let the world catch up. Much love, and f**k all the holiday stress—just enjoy it for what it is.