Kimasi The Life Coach

02/11/2025

BBN writes:

This is a must read!

It’s time to conquer limiting belief system!

Our subconscious mind has been infiltrated with limiting belief system stemming from our different experiences since we were born. When our parents said stop that, don’t do this, or when we failed in school and people laughed at us it created some limiting belief system in us.

Some experiences came strongly like an abusive teacher, an abuse boss or spouse who acted in such a way that it settled in your subconscious mind that you are useless, or indeed can’t go far or you are not beautiful. It sits in your subconscious mind!

People with limiting belief system think small, do small things and are always afraid to move to the next level!

As a man thinketh so is he! The thinketh or thinks here is what is settled in your subconscious mind. You need to start to destroy that limiting belief system intentionally ndi mavuvu by living right, being in the right company, right church, watching right and get the right information by reading uplifting books, watching uplifting YouTube’s and start to see yourself differently!

Our Society loves to see people operating at mediocre level so you conform. Tell yourself that you will not conform to that mediocrity! But will rise to great heights.

As you feed yourself with uplifting messages your subconscious mind starts to shift and the limiting belief system begins to go! The universe starts to respond to your belief system. Thus good relationships, wealth, good health and great mental state begin to drift towards you. You start to become the best version of yourself. You need to be intentional about this.

Please note that Malawi, Zambia, Zimbabwe, South Africa or Nigeria is not the universe, there is a bigger and greater universe you can tap into. Stop limiting yourself by what you see in your environment . A man by the name Legson Didimu Kaira crushed the limiting belief system by believing that against all odds he would study in the USA which he achieved after walking all the way to Khartoum from Malawi. David in the Bible though he was young had conquered limiting belief system after killing lions, bears and other wild animals and was ready to conquer the uncircumcised philistine Goliath!

Don’t be limited by what you see, the world is bigger than your company or country and it has enough for all of us!

Start to believe right, be in the right company, read right and act with clarity of thought and determination and without fear!

As a man thinketh so is he!

18/07/2025

Powerful reflection by Benedicto Bena Nkhoma- Inspirational and Motivational💪

Just do it!

There is no red carpet or guard of honor on your way to the top! It’s always a rough road to the top! Growing up I used to get a lot of discouragements that it’s not possible to make it from the getto!

At work it was a different vibe, when I was pursuing my studies to charter as an accountant, self sponsorship of an MBA you could hear people asking what does he want to become? People have done this before! To the extent that sometimes you could not be recognized for your performance just for the bosses to validate that you are a no body!

Fast forward I started sharing about investing in shares and all and some said is he the only one who invests in shares. After each public speaking engagement I would get not constructive criticisms but just some times petty criticisms just to discourage me. But I have aways told myself that I just have to do it if it doesn’t harm others.

This world will always try to put a ceiling on what you can achieve! Dont listen to them if they try to do that. When David wanted to face off Goliath his brothers and other people discouraged him. Even when Samuel was about to anoint Saul’s successor David was never counted as a potential successor.

People will always put you where they feel you need to be placed! Dont listen to their limiting belief system on your life. We all have different assignments in our lives. Others are junior champions, others local while others are heavy weight! Know thyself and just do it! They will find you when you get there!

You don’t need people’s validation to get to where God wants to be. In any case most of the people are already jealousy of success beyond beyond! Don’t settle for less it’s crowded down there that’s why there is too much back biting and back stubbing!

Just do it!

23/06/2025

You work 8 hours to live 4.
You work 6 days to enjoy 1.
You work 8 hours to eat in 15 minutes.
You work 8 hours to sleep 5.
You work all year just to take a week or two vacation.
You work all your life to retire in old age,
And contemplate only your last breaths.
Eventually you realize that life is nothing but a parody of yourself practicing for your own oblivion.
We have become so accustomed to material and social slavery that we no longer see the chains.

Life is a short journey, live it! Collect memories, not material things!

Live present ❤️✨

21/06/2025

I blocked my multimillionaire friend on WhatsApp late last year because I noticed I was mentally becoming a slave to her.

She would call me anytime she needed my help, and I would render it to her without thinking twice, but when I needed her help, she would either not pick up or reply to her messages, or her number would not go through.

At times, she read my chats and won't reply.

This happened for a while; when I complained, she would apologise.

Last year, we spoke about something important, and she had to do her part to fulfil the deal; I kept calling and sending messages, but she ignored them. I knew she was back to it again, I cancelled the deal and blocked her on all communication channels.

She was obviously using me and trampling on my intelligence, I later realised she had enslaved me mentally, maybe because she is richer or something.

I blocked her.

I was at work last week when a number called and I picked, it was her, I recognised her voice immediately.

"Why did you block me everywhere? What have I done to you? She asked and that got me pi**ed off more because I felt she was still trying to play on my intelligence.

I told her to figure it out and call me to talk about it and not trying to play smart on me. I said and dropped the call.

She called back hours later and started apologising and giving unreasonable excuses, she pleaded that I unblock her which I did.

She called yesterday to propose a deal and I declined immediately.

She was shocked.

She requested to see me physically and I told her i dont have the time, she should look for someone else.

"I guess that's why you called after 8 months of not communicating,you are back to your old ways, guess what, once beaten thrice shy, I am done taking sh*to from you, let's just be a casual good morning and good night friend"

She didn't believe I could be that blunt. Her message came in again this morning trying to convince me that she's a changed person but the son of a snake is still snake and it is still dangerous.

That is who she is, she can't change and that personality is not good for my mental health and dignity.

If they are not giving you the same energy you are giving them, let them go you will be fine because if you don't, you will be mentally enslaved and there is nothing to be in it for you at the end of the day.

Don't let anyone enslave your mentality because they are richer than you, you deserve the best.

You matter too.

Humility is not stupidity.

11/06/2025

Who knows you best?….

She was drowning.
And nobody noticed…
Nobody, except her.

It was June 2022, at the World Championships in Budapest.
Anita Álvarez, an American artistic swimmer with Mexican roots, was performing a flawless routine.
But when her performance ended… she didn’t come up for air.

She had lost consciousness.
Her body floated for a few seconds, then began to sink.
Slowly. All the way to the bottom of the pool.

The audience didn’t notice. Neither did the judges.
Everyone was clapping.

But her coach, Andrea Fuentes, noticed.
She knew Anita—knew exactly how long it took her to surface.
She felt in her heart that something was wrong.

Without thinking twice, she dove in.
Fully dressed. Shoes and all.

She swam straight down, grabbed Anita by the waist,
and brought her back up.
She saved her life.

Think about it….

Who knows you well enough to notice when you’re not okay, even if you’re still smiling?
Who would dive in for you without hesitation when you no longer have the strength to come up for air?

And more importantly…

Would you be that person for someone else?
Are you present enough in your loved ones’ lives to sense the moment they start to sink?
Or are you just another spectator, clapping, not realizing that inside, they’re fading?

In this life, we all need someone who doesn’t just see us—
but truly notices us.
Someone who knows when we’re about to give up,
and has the courage to jump in and save us.

23/05/2025

Getting married is not a casual decision. It is something intentional and full of purpose. If it was about looking handsome alone, I wouldn't still be married today. Back when I was in Nollywood, some of the most beautiful actresses came my way. They offered money, some even begged me to marry them. But deep down, I knew what my heart truly desired. I didn't want something quick or shallow; I wanted a real wife, a lifelong partner.

Marriage is beautiful, but it's definitely not child's play. It takes serious preparation, real patience, and a mature heart. It's about being ready in every way possible—emotionally, financially, mentally, and spiritually. Believe me, it won’t always be smooth or easy, but if you stay focused, committed, and patient, marriage will give you something deeper and more meaningful than anything else.

~ Ramsey Noah