26/06/2025
REAL TALK with GiftBenson Dew
SILENT TOPICS, LOUD TRUTH
ERECTIONS
How do you feel when you hear the word "er****on" 😮🙄
"Let’s Talk: Er****ons, Silence & the Confusion of Our Young Ones...
⚠️ Parents, let’s talk: Who’s teaching your son about er****ons?
Many young boys first experience an er****on with confusion, fear, or shame — because no one explained it.
Some think it’s sin. Trust some over religious people, they wouldn't mind start deliverance on your head to cast out that de😱Mon 😳
Others hide it and ask Google... or even friends who may end up adding more feel in the fire🙆
Leading many to take the wrong turn🚶
👉🏾 Er****ons are natural, yes ma/ sir... You can not be holier than God who made it so😄
I understand without knowledge and guidance, they become a trap:
🔸 Shame
🔸 P**n addiction
🔸 Premature s*x
🔸 Identity crisis
This is why I AM HERE to tell you this for free 😂
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🌱 Dear parents, don’t wait for your son to ask.
👉 Teach early.
👉Teach wisely.
👉Teach clean.
To every teen reading this:
Your body is not evil. Please stop binding and casting what is not existing🤗
NOW LISTEN
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📘 What Is an Er****on?
An er****on is when the male organ (pen ) becomes hard, stiff, and rises.
It happens because blood flows quickly into the tissues inside the pen , making it enlarge and stand upright.
🧠 Why Does It Happen? (Causes)
Er****ons are normal and can happen:
1. Without any reason — especially in teenagers (body is still developing)
2. When a boy feels attracted to someone (emotionally or s*xually)
3. During sleep or in the morning (called "morning wood")
4. From touching or rubbing the area (even by accident)
5. During puberty — when hormones are very active
It is NOT a sign that someone is sinful or bad. It is a natural body reaction.
🙏 What Should a Teen Do When It Happens..
✅ 1. Don’t panic or feel ashamed
It’s a part of growing up. Almost every boy experiences it —
sometimes daily. It doesn’t mean you’ve sinned. Don't bother to do fasting, relax‼️ it is normal🥰
✅ 2. Don’t act on it through ma********on or s*x
The world may say, “Just release it.” But self-control is powerful💪
Not everything that feels normal is meant to be acted on. ( You are not ashwohh🤦)
God gives you a body, but He expects you to rule over it. ( You want to rule everyone around you, but your common body is rulling over you😱)
✅ 3. Shift your mind
Move your attention.
Read, pray, take a walk, focus on schoolwork.
An er****on usually goes away on its own after a while especially when it knows you no send am😅
✅ 4. Wear proper clothes
Loose boxers or thin trousers may make it more noticeable or frequent. It is not a sin😮
Oga/Madam ,teach your boys to dress modestly even at home not just how to sweep and mop 🥴
✅ 5. Talk to someone mature and safe
A godly mentor, teacher, or parent can help.
Silence is where shame grows.
🕊️ Spiritual Truth for every Youth:
> “I discipline my body like an athlete, training it to do what it should.” – 1 Corinthians 9:27
Your body is not your master. You Are..💪
If you are following this page, you are on the right path.
As a teacher and mentor, I believe this generation must be taught fruit_ not just left to Google it.
Teen, your body is not eviiil🙄, you just need wisdom to master it.
🎤 I’ll keep teaching real truth with grace.
If you want more, drop a “YES” in the comments.
Watch out for the next episode of REAL TALK with Silent Topics, Loud Truth. "Every Thursday"
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