23/11/2025
My people, I want to share something someone told me today…
She said she’s confused, heartbroken, and doesn’t even know who to talk to again. She begged me to post this so she can hear from you all.
According to her, two years ago she brought a young house help to stay with them. She treated the girl like her own—fed her well, bought her clothes, even put her in a small school so the girl would not feel less of a human being. She never imagined that kindness could turn into her biggest pain.
She noticed small small changes… the girl suddenly became too close to her husband. Laughing unnecessarily, entering their bedroom to “clean,” sitting beside him in the parlor. When she complained, her husband called her insecure. She swallowed it for the sake of peace.
Before she knew it, the girl had completely taken over the home. Her husband started avoiding her, insulting her, and spending on the girl like she was the real wife. People in the compound started talking. Her own home became a battlefield.
One day everything scattered. Her husband was arrested for a business deal that went terribly wrong—the same business he entered because of pressure from the same house help. Now the girl has disappeared, leaving him to face the consequences alone.
Today, he is in prison sending messages, begging his wife to forgive him, to help him, to bring a lawyer, to stand by him after everything.
But she told me, “How do I forgive a man who threw me away for someone I brought into my home? How do I help a person who watched me cry every night and still chose someone else?”
She said she’s tired. She doesn’t know if helping him is the right thing or if she should move on with her life and protect her peace.
So I’m sharing it here like she requested…
What do you think she should do?
Should she forgive him and help him—or walk away and heal?
My Facebook family, please advise her.
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