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My Emotional stories, Federal Housing, Abuja (2026)

20/06/2026

There’s this man who has been chasing me for a long time. He’s older, probably in his fifties, while I’m twenty-nine years old. The age doesn’t really matter to me, but the way this man talks does. He will call me and go on and on about the things happening in his life, the projects he’s working on, the travels ahead of him, and the money he’s expecting from people.

I don’t like that about him. The fact that he only calls to talk about himself and also brag about the things he has because, let’s be honest, I don’t know why he keeps telling me about the money he’s about to receive. But after going on and on and on, he would then send me some MoMo.

So whenever he calls, I try to avoid his calls, but when I remember there will be MoMo at the end, I pick up and listen.

Yesterday he called. After talking for several minutes, he said bye-bye, and I did the same. I thought he had cut the line.

I said, “That’s all you know how to do. You’ll call and brag, then later send me small money while talking about all the big money you’re expecting.”

Then I went, “Chiwwww.”

I checked my phone, and he was still on the line.

I quickly cut the call. I know he heard me, and I’m so embarrassed. If it had to end, it shouldn’t end this way. The money he sent also helped me take care of a few things. I could buy lunch or take an Uber. Now I’m going to miss all that.

How do I fix this situation?

Should I call and apologize? But what if he didn’t hear me and I end up reporting myself instead? Please help. Guilt is eating me alive.

20/06/2026

I needed money to pay my rent. All my savings had gone into my mom's medical care and, as her only daughter, I had nowhere else to turn for help. When my rent was about to expire, I started looking around for a soft loan. Friends promised but failed me. Eventually, I put in a loan application at work.

On Monday morning at work, my boss called me into her office and asked what I needed the money for. It's part of the process to justify the loan, considering the amount involved. I told her everything and how desperately I needed the money. She said, "This isn't much money for a girl like you to struggle for. Let me see what I can do."

She went into her drawer, gave me half of the amount, and said, "Come for the rest tomorrow. And no, it's not a loan. It's from my heart."

I fell on my knees immediately and started thanking her. She said she'd always liked me and had been looking for the right time to prove it. I took that innocently until I went to her house for the rest of the money.

She pulled me close and tried to kiss me. I was so shocked I thought it was a dream. She said she loved me. She said she could give me more if I allowed myself. She ran her fingers through my hair, all the while staring into my eyes. I asked her to give me time to think about it.

She brought me meals from home. We spent time in her office talking. We went out for lunch together, but she still held on to the remaining half of the money until, finally, I allowed her access to the depths of my body. She apologized afterward for using money as bait and said there was no other way she could have gotten me to understand how she felt.

Since that encounter, she hasn't made another move on me again. I've paid my rent. She even gives me money for the care of my mom. I should be happy, but currently, I'm the one yearning for it. It feels like she planted a seed in me that day, and now the seed is growing very fast.

I keep putting myself in check. I tell myself I don't like women. I convince myself I'm not that kind of girl, but the feeling doesn't go away.

All of a sudden, she has become a desire I can't let go of, even though I want to. What do I do? I don't want it to happen a second time, but every fiber of my being is pulling me in that direction. Does it mean I always liked women and just didn't know it until she awakened something in me?

I'm confused. I need help.

©️Silent Beads

19/06/2026

I was with him all evening. This guy didn't look at me once. He was busy playing video games, chatting and laughing with people he couldn't see while I sat there lonely, even though he could see me.

Then it started raining and because I was bored, I lay on my side and dozed off.

A few minutes later, I felt his hands all over me, trying to start a game that would end with us shedding our clothes. I felt disrespected. You won't ignore me and only come to me because it's raining.

I pushed him off me.

He tried again and again but each time, I pushed him off.

He got angry and said, "If you're not ready, then leave my house so I'll know I'm alone."

I tried telling him what he did wrong but he ignored me and pointed at the door for me to get out while it was raining.

When I told him he should wait for the rain to subside, he shouted at me, "What do I care? What are you here for? Just walk out and let me know I'm alone here."

I picked up my bag and began walking out. He was surprised. Maybe he thought I was going to beg. I stepped out into the pouring rain, knocked on a neighbour's door, borrowed an umbrella and left.

I saw his call while waiting for a taxi. I saw his call again while I was in the taxi going home. I saw his call when I got home. He texted, “You would rather walk through the rain than show me love? That shows how dead our relationship is."

I didn't mind him.

The next day, I answered his call and told him I would be a fool to consider being in a relationship with him. Since then, I haven't had peace because of his persistent calls. He's apologizing and telling me he was frustrated because he had lost all the games he was playing.

That even made me more livid but he won't stop asking for a second chance to make things right.

Would you give such a person a second chance?

18/06/2026

There was one time my Aunt who happens to be my Daddy's younger sister and was leaving with us provoked me.

She asked me to wash plates and I wasn't feeling like washing it at that particular time she wanted me to do it. I was going to wash it later and she saw it as disobedience so she beat me up and in the process I bluntly told her that her mates are all married and she is here in my father's house eating and pooping up and down.

I said that out of anger.

I didn't know how badly my words hurt her until I over heard her crying bitterly in her room praying to God to give her a husband so that she can have her own home.

Although I felt bad and was supposed to apologize to her but my ego didn't let me go to her so I acted like nothing happened.

That year, that my Aunt got married to a very rich man and was happy in her marriage.

I was twelve (12) years old when I said that to my aunt but now, I'm thirty- three (33) years old and I'm not yet married.

I've cried to God for forgiveness but nothing is happening.

That my aunty dièd early this year otherwise I would have gone to ask her for forgiveness.

I've tried all I could yet no man wants to marry me.

Am I being punished because of what I said to my Aunt that year or something else is wrong with me?

Please I need your advice

17/06/2026

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17/06/2026

Dear Philip,

I think this is the best time for me to respond to the message you sent me on the night of 11th August 2020. The day I received the message, you remember I texted back to ask if indeed that message was for me. You responded, “Who else would I send such a message to?”

Sadly, I wasn’t even aware that we were dating.

We met on a Facebook group. I wrote a comment and a few minutes later, you came to write your comment under mine. It was funny and I liked the way you put your words together. That’s where we started interacting. Minutes later you sent me a friend request and I accepted because why not? From that day on, you commented on everything I wrote on my wall and we had healthy conversations.

I was sleeping one evening when you sent me a message, “I like your personality and would like to know you more. Why don’t you give me your number so I can call you sometime?” I didn’t hesitate. I gave you my number and that same night you called. I must admit, you know how to keep a conversation going. You made me laugh and convinced me that you're a lively person. That’s why I agreed to meet you in person. I was impressed with your online personality, so much so that I was eager to meet you offline to see what you were made of.

We met, we ate, we drank, and called it a night. A week later, I showed you where I live and you came bearing a gift. On my birthday in June this year, you took me out to dinner, where you introduced me to someone as your girlfriend. I laughed, thinking it was one of your usual jokes. Honestly, I didn’t even think about it enough to ask questions. To me, we were friends caught up in a fun web.

That night I saw the look in your eyes and knew what was on your mind. It felt like you had something to tell me. You looked buoyant, like a boy in love. I waited to hear what you had to say but you didn’t say anything till the night ended and we went home. That was the closest we ever got romantically. You never proposed and I never accepted. “Maybe he’s not sure of me,” I said to myself, but if you had proposed, I can imagine myself saying no to you because you appeared too good to be true.

After that night, your messages didn’t come as they used to. You didn’t call as often as you did and you didn’t come looking for me like you used to. I thought you were busy. Or something had come up that needed your attention. But when the silence got too loud, I sent you a message, “Hey Philip, are we fighting or are you too busy to check up on me these days? Anyway, I hope you’re good. Stay blessed.”

I sent the message on 9th August. You read it and didn’t respond. My message was left lonely and uncared for in your inbox. I saw the blue tick and asked myself, “Is there something wrong with this guy?” On the 10th of August, I called your phone. Two consecutive times I called your line but you didn’t pick up. I decided I wasn’t ever going to contact you again until you did.

Only to wake up on the 11th of August 2020 to read this message from you:

“Dear Lucy,

It hurts my heart to say this to you but I can’t continue any longer. This short while that we’ve been together, you’ve shown me the deepest love I haven’t found in any woman. It made me happy and it made me want you more, but I can’t continue this relationship with you again. You’ve been a wonderful girlfriend and I appreciate it, but we have to break up before things get out of hand.”

I read the message over and over again, trying to figure out where it fit in the scheme of things. “I can’t continue this relationship with you again...” Which relationship? “You’ve been a wonderful girlfriend...” To whom, you? How could you date someone who wasn’t aware you were dating her? I needed clarification and you said, “Who else would I send such a message to.”

Let me tell you what I did after reading your message…

I pretended I was heartbroken. I cried myself to sleep and woke up at dawn to post on my status, “Love is not fair. How could he leave just like that.” I went to the same bar we went to the following day and ordered the same drink we drank. I drank too much until I got intoxicated and began to vomit. A stranger brought me home that night. I refused to pick up calls from my friends because I knew they were going to console me. I refused to be consoled. Your kind of heartbreak cuts deeper than a sharp knife. I didn’t eat for three days. I lost some weight and my face became a drawing board of tears.

How else could I act out a heartbreak that didn’t exist?

When you break up with a girl who wasn’t aware you were dating her, she also pretends that it hurt so she could act as though she’s brokenhearted.

Your ex,

Lucy11th August 2026

16/06/2026

My wife’s younger brother came to stay with us for a while, and that "while" became forever. He’s an SHS graduate looking for a job. I expected a lot from a twenty-six-year-old man, but this guy walked around the house aimlessly, ate, and slept.

I had a taxi that I had parked because the driver working with it wasn’t bringing in any money. My wife suggested we work on the car and respray it so her brother could use it for Uber, which I did. The agreement was that he would make daily sales to my wife, and we would pay him at the end of the month.

He did the work seriously for one week and then started coming home empty-handed. By the time we realized, he was using the car as his personal vehicle. He would tell my wife he didn’t feel like going to work, only to take the car out and come back late in the evening, telling us he had gone to visit a friend.

For over five months, that’s all he did without bringing in a dime to either me or my wife. Then the car broke down. We needed close to 200,000 to fix it. When my wife told me, I asked her to leave the car where it was parked. After all, I wasn’t getting anything from it.

A week later, this guy came to tell me he wanted to start working again, so I should fix the car for him. I’ve never been that angry in my life. My wife was there. I looked at her, and she looked back at me. I told him, “No, you’re not going to work again. You’re going to pack your things and leave this house tomorrow, and I mean it.”

He was shocked that I was angry and kept asking my wife what he had said wrong. I left them and went into the room. When my wife joined me, I asked her, “Is he packing?”

She retorted, “Are you serious?”

I told her, “If I see him around tomorrow, I will do the packing for him.”

The next day, he was still around. I told him I needed my room, so if he didn’t move, I would lock the door. He thought I was making an empty threat. I locked the door, and that evening he slept in the hall. The following morning, I started removing his things.

He’s gone now, but my wife thinks I handled him in a very harsh way, so she believes she has every reason to be angry with me and give me the cold shoulder. I told her, “If you want to follow your brother, tell me. Because you’re my wife, I will help you pack and drive you to your parents’ house myself.”

She still hasn’t recovered from the way I treated her brother. I hear her talking to her parents about it, but I don’t care what they say. That guy had no business staying in my house. Or do you think I was too brutal?
©️Silent Beads

12/06/2026

My ex-girlfriend's father is threatening me with curses. He said if I don't pay 5,000,000 five million) before leaving his daughter, my life will never be the same again. I told him I'm not going to pay a dime. I called his bluff and told him to do his worst. He said he's given me just one month. Anything that happens to me after that one month, I should take as a gift from him.

I met his daughter when she was in nursing training. Right from the onset, it was clear she needed help in life, judging from the stories she told me about her school fees and how her dad struggled before he could afford them. I promised I was going to help in any way I could. And then we started a relationship.

A few months after moving in with me, she got pregnant. Before she told me about it, her father already knew and had advised her to keep the pregnancy no matter what I would say. That was when the problem started. Now I’m leaving his daughter and he said, and we I quote in his words..

“I’m collecting 5,000,000 as push money for everything my daughter has done for you. Pay up, Else, wait for the visitation of the gods.

Do you think I should be scared of my life and make the payment or he is just ranting?

Please advise me

12/06/2026

I'm twenty seven years old and ready to marry.

There is this particular guy in my area who has been asking me out. But I haven't given him answer.

Last two weeks he asked me out and I did not agree but because he kept trying and trying, I decided to give him a chance.

On this particular day that he bothered me with his give me a chance talk, I told him let's meet out.

We schedule a day and time. When we finally got to the venue, and bought some things, it was time to pay, can you imagine what this guy did?

He indirectly switched off his phone and started asking me if I had power bank so he can power his phone to make payment. In my mind (I was like wow first outing and you're already trying to avoid bill)

I told him I didn't have a power bank because I didn't come along with mine. Instead of him to asked the waiters to help him power his phone so he can make transfer,

This guy looked me straight to the face and asked me to make transfer for the things we ordered that he was going to transfer it back to me once he charge his phone.

I didn't like embarrassment so I did the transfer.

On our way back home, I beg the driver to help power his phone and I was now like oya do the money because the driver accepted and charged his phone

Na so ehim transfer my money put 500 on top
I just put hand for my handbag give am ehim 500 wey e put then he was like I dash you.

I told him no worries he should keep his 500 because I nologer have interest in him. Infact I'm never going to be his girlfriend or anything he was asking for. If I wanted to be his girlfriend before or earlier, I've changed my mind..

The next thing, this guy opened his mouth and told me that I'm ungrateful and that no man will marry me.

Please Did I do anything wrong? Is it true that no man will marry me because I rejècted him?

Please keep me ANONYMOUS.

I'm in the comments section

11/06/2026

Chukwebuka my cousin started dating this fine girl about five months ago.

His ex girlfriend got married a month after they broke up and it really broke him but he managed to pickup himself back together and started dating this new girl.

As they are both in their late twenties, he had some expectations that they should build each other, you know. He likes her so much, but she likes asking for money too much.

He have helped her on several occasions to solve her problems, but it seems the problems never end, like the mercies of God, new every morning. Today, he is buying her sanitary pads, tomorrow it is shawarma because she is craving it, and the next day it is airtime so she can call him back. It feels like there is always something she needs, something that cannot wait, something that must come from my cousins pocket.

He was hoping things would reduce when she got a job, but even after getting employed, she still expects him to continue covering many of her expenses, almost as if he is some kind of sugar daddy. She collects her salary and somehow it never stretches to cover her own small needs, so the calls still come to him.

It is not that Chukwebuka is stingy. In fact, he is currently trying to rebuild his life and start a new business after losing his previous ones, and he have explained this to the girl several times. But she does not seem concerned about his situation or the challenges he is facing, and that is what stings more than the spending itself.

Recently, he have been thinking about letting her go so he can focus fully on his business. But he doesn't know how to do it, and again, he keeps having this feeling that it was after he broke up with his ex that she got married.

The question that bothers him more is that... Is modern dating really built around finances, around a man proving himself by how much he can provide before love even gets a chance to breathe? Because she keeps telling him that he was supposed to always provide her needs because he is a man.

My cousin have told her repeatedly to be a little patient and allow his business to become stable before he can start spending freely again, but she does not seem interested in waiting at all. Her business is to ask, and ask, and ask.

So is it that some women cannot wait anymore, that love is not for the poor, or that they simply cannot take care of themselves anymore? I am genuinely asking because I need to know if my cousin is the one who is asking for too much by asking her to wait.
Or he is the only man that is not being man enough to always provide for his woman or there is something wrong with the girl

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