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Marriage Is Not for the Rebellious, Argumentative, or Nagging WomanLet’s stop pretending.Men don’t get married for emoti...
02/06/2025

Marriage Is Not for the Rebellious, Argumentative, or Nagging Woman

Let’s stop pretending.

Men don’t get married for emotional rollercoasters, mental debates, or war-room discussions.

Men marry for peace.

Not just comfort. Peace.
Not just kids. Peace.
Not just s*x. Peace.

And here’s the brutal truth:

You can be beautiful.
You can be brilliant.
You can be a boss.

But if every conversation feels like combat?

He’ll never come home happy.

Let’s break it down:

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1. Men Aren’t Looking for a Debate Partner

He’s had a long day.

Deadlines. Traffic. Pressure.
And the moment he walks through that door?

Boom.

– “Why didn’t you text back fast enough?”
– “Why didn’t you take my suggestion?”
– “Why do you always do things your way?”

Now he’s defending himself—at home.

He didn’t marry you to be cross-examined.

He married you because he thought you were his safe place.

Turns out, you’re the courtroom.

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2. Every Argument Is a Brick in the Wall

Yes, men want smart women.
Yes, men want strong women.

But nobody wants to be corrected 24/7.

Every time you question his every move…
Every time you challenge every word…
Every time you correct like a mother, not a partner?

He doesn’t hear “maturity.”

He hears: You don’t respect me.

And once a man loses respect in his own home?

He either goes silent… or disappears altogether.

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3. Nagging Isn’t Communication. It’s Noise.

There’s a reason ancient proverbs say:

“It’s better to live on the roof than inside with a nagging woman.”

Let that sink in:

He’d rather face the rain than your mouth.

Men are not perfect.
But men do remember tone. Pressure. Humiliation.

The man who once ran home to you?

Will now take detours… just to breathe.

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4. If You Want to Lead, Marry Yourself

Some women weren’t raised to partner.

They were raised to compete.

Everything is a challenge.
Every suggestion is an attack.
Every disagreement is a power struggle.

But a man doesn’t want to wrestle every day.

He doesn’t need a boss.
He doesn’t need a critic.
He doesn’t need a mirror.

He needs a woman who lets him lead with peace and purpose—not paranoia.

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5. Marriage Is a Surrender. Not a Strategy.

Ladies, hear this:

Marriage is not a TED Talk.
It’s not a feminist campaign.
It’s not a trial run for dominance.

It’s a daily surrender of ego for partnership.

If you’re still armed with childhood trauma,
If every man reminds you of your absent father,
If every disagreement triggers survival mode…

You’re not ready.

Because the man you claim to love?

He’s not your enemy.
He’s not your opponent.
He’s not your project.

He’s your partner.

And if peace isn’t part of your offering?

Don’t be surprised when he chooses silence over conversation… and distance over dinner.

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Final Word: Men Don’t Leave Because You’re Strong. They Leave Because You’re Loud.

The modern woman can do everything:
– Earn money
– Raise kids
– Lead teams
– Win arguments

But ask yourself:

Can you preserve peace?

Can you follow without resistance?
Can you trust his instincts without a lecture?
Can you express pain without projecting disrespect?

Because marriage is not for the rebellious, argumentative, or nagging woman.

It’s for the woman who knows how to speak… without stabbing.
How to disagree… without disgrace.
How to love… without leading a revolution.

Don’t fight the man who’s fighting for you.

Drop the sword.
Build the peace.
Become the home.

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Please use this picture to teach both your son's and daughter's.

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To your son: If you work hard in life, you will attract every type of women all because of money, even in your old age.
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You Can’t Build a Legacy With a Woman Who Thinks Sacrifice Is AbuseLet’s be clear:Modern love is upside down.The man sac...
21/05/2025

You Can’t Build a Legacy With a Woman Who Thinks Sacrifice Is Abuse

Let’s be clear:

Modern love is upside down.

The man sacrifices? He’s “controlling.”

He plans for the future? He’s “rigid.”

He denies today’s pleasure to build tomorrow’s wealth?

She calls him “boring,” “trauma-bound,” or “emotionally unavailable.”

But ask her to match that discipline?

Suddenly it’s abuse.

Let’s break it down:



1. If You Say “No”—She Hears “Neglect”

You want to save? She wants to spend.

You suggest delaying the trip? She says, “You don’t love me.”

You say: “Let’s invest instead of flex.”

She posts: “Healing in silence because I’m not being prioritized.”

But what she calls neglect?

Is just a man refusing to go broke to fund her comfort.



2. You Provide Stability—She Misses Chaos

You bring peace. Routine. Security.

But her body’s addicted to emotional caffeine.

She doesn’t know how to love without panic.

So she’ll provoke fights just to “feel something.”

And then say you’ve changed.

No—you matured.

She just misses the circus.



3. You Offer Vision—She Wants Validation

You’re thinking 10 years ahead.

She’s thinking about dinner dates and Instagram captions.

You present a roadmap?

She scrolls for a richer man who already built the destination.

Today’s woman doesn’t want a partner to grow with.

She wants a lifestyle to walk into.



4. She Wants Rewards—But Refuses the Risk

You took the hits.

The late nights.

The silent seasons.

The skipped luxuries.

Now that it’s paying off?

She shows up with a wig and Wi-Fi—and calls herself “deserving.”

But where was she when you were doubted?

Where was she when you were broke?

The woman who won’t sacrifice with you will sabotage you when it matters.



5. Real Love Requires Delay—But She’s in a Hurry

Delayed gratification builds empires.

But she wants: – The wedding, not the work. – The luxury, not the loyalty. – The lifestyle, not the labor.

She thinks she’s being oppressed.

But truth is?

She just hates process.



Final Word: A Woman Who Sees Sacrifice as Abuse Will Destroy Your Vision

She’ll label your patience as poverty.

Your structure as suppression.

Your silence as stonewalling.

And by the time she realizes the weight you were carrying?

She’ll be watching you succeed—with someone who respected the price.

So choose wisely.

Because love is not just about who excites you.

It’s about who endures with you.

And if she can't suffer now?

She doesn't deserve the soft life later.

Dear friends, Normalize hyping your friends, encouraging each other, telling each other how good they are at what they d...
18/05/2025

Dear friends,
Normalize hyping your friends, encouraging each other, telling each other how good they are at what they do, telling each other you can do better.

Telling each other I’m so proud of you.

Let’s do better please.

TYPES OF DATES EVERY COUPLE SHOULD TRY1. DANCE DATE Find a place where good music is played or dance is taught and go th...
29/04/2025

TYPES OF DATES EVERY
COUPLE SHOULD TRY

1. DANCE DATE

Find a place where good music is played or dance is taught and go there as a couple. Salsa, lingala, afro, twist, benga; go to a place where you will sweat, groove and get down.

2. ALL NAKED DATE

This is a date when you stay naked all day all night with your partner in the room if you have children in the house, or the house if it is just the two of you alone.

3. ELEGANT DATE

Go all out. Gentleman, ask her out to an expensive, classy venue. Give her a chance to dress up. She will feel special, smiling as you romance her; she wearing her fashionable dress.

4. PICNIC DATE

There is something special and free about the outdoors. Pack up some food and drinks and a lesson, find a spot and have fun.

5. IMPROMPTU DATE

Dates don't have to be pre-planned. Be spontaneous sometimes, drop everything and go somewhere as a couple for some quality time.

6. MOVIE DATE

Go to the cinema. Movies bring out emotions. Always make your movie date the latest movies. Movies that are adventurous, and romantic and serve both interests and passions.

7. DOUBLE DATE

Go out on a date with another couple close to you. This will give you a chance to celebrate love and talk from couple to couple. Your love will grow stronger.

8. COMPASSION DATE

There are many people in society to bless. You and your partner, find a children's home, an elderly home, a hospital or someone in need and together go spend time with them. God will bless your love.

9. CANDLE-LIGHT DINNER DATE

There is something romantic about looking into each other's eyes in dim candlelight. Make it special. Romance is sweet.

10. SPECIAL MOMENT DATE

This is when you celebrate big as a couple a special moment like Birthday, Anniversary, Graduation or Promotion. Never forget these moments.

11. MAKE-UP DATE

If things between you two haven't been going well. Make an effort to save your love by planning a good date. A date provides a good setting to allow you two to talk and get back to deep love.

12. LUNCH DATE

Since you work at different jobs, sometimes meet up and have a couple's lunch for an hour or so.

13. OLD LOVE DATE

Dates are not for young love only. Sadly, as lovers stay in a relationship/marriage, the dates become fewer as they go through the motions. No matter how long you've been together, step outside your everyday responsibilities and go on a date to rekindle and sustain the excitement.

14. SPORTS DATE

Is your favourite football club, rugby team, basketball team, or golfer playing? Is it the safari rally, or athletics? Go out for dates as a couple where you can scream, cheer and go wild. You two will connect more.

15. FRIENDS DATE

Have a barbeque, hook up with friends, throw a party. Organize something as a couple where your love will be celebrated in the presence of close friends.

16. TRAVEL DATE

Pack your bags and travel. Break the monotony and as a couple drive, fly, and sail to a place you've never been. Experience new attractions together. Your love will never be boring this way.

17. STAY AT HOME DATE

Lock yourself in the house. Not to work or do chores. But to switch off everything including phones and concentrate on each other. Cook together, eat together, bathe together, and make memories for two.

18. SLEEP DATE

Is a dating experience that draws inspiration from sleeping on the same Pillow. No s*x is involved, just either cuddling or sleeping. And if it eventually leads to s*x, all is well and good.

19. SHOPPING DATE

This can be a great first date if done right. Most if not all women like going shopping for clothes, and some men also love looking good, so, go on a fashion show and try something on, visit boutiques even if it’s window shopping.

20. LOVE DATE

Is a date based on an appointment to meet someone or go out with someone, especially someone with whom you are having, or may soon have a romantic relationship.

21. RELATIONSHIP DATE

Is a trial period in which two people explore whether to take the relationship further towards a more permanent relationship; in this sense, they will be physically together in public as opposed to the earlier period in which they do everything in secret.

22. INNER CHILD DATE

Doing things together that were such a staple to your childhood. Amusement parks, bounce houses, arcades, throw in some Saturday cartoons with a bowl of cereal.

23. SALOON DATE

This is a great date for couples. Going to the salon together to have his Hair Cut or her Hair fixed. This will help you to appreciate the efforts your spouse is making to look good for you. It’s more fun when the Wife can do the haircut for her husband right in the comfort of their home.

24. NAILS STUDIO DATE

This is strictly for a Man who has patience and is willing to pay the price of seeing his Lady looking good. Going to the Nail studio saloon with your Wife will make her appreciate you more and allow you to witness the beautiful side of her you haven’t seen before.

25. LOVE DATE

Is a date where you both sit all alone naked in your bedroom or in the hotel room on a holiday to talk about your love life. You discuss the things you are doing right, the things you need to improve on and the things you need to let go in your marriage.

26. S*X DATE

Is a date where you talk about your s*x life, and this includes what you want and don’t want while having s*x. It’s the moment you discuss the difference between lo******ng and having s*x and decide which one you want to have.

27. BEDTIME DATE

This is a date when couples set a time to be in bed the Night every day without clothes or phones. Both of them will go to bed naked and their phones will either be in silence or in the living room.

28. READING DATE

This is a date when couples will pick a book either per week or monthly to read together, analyze what they read and ask each other questions about what they understand about the book and how they are going to apply it to their lives.

29. COOKING DATE

This particular date is actually for Men only. It’s a date that the man will choose a particular weekend in a month to cook for the wife and do the dishes. If the wife chooses to help with the dishes it’s fine but the cooking is on the man alone.

30. DRESS DATE

This is a date when the husband will dress just like his wife and the wife will dress just like her husband in the house or in their compound if they have their own house. They can take pictures for the fun of it, though it does not necessary. It’s an all-day date.

31. KISS DATE

This is a date when you kiss your partner on any part of his or her body all day without his/her being aware of what part of his or her body you are going to kiss.

32. WALK DATE

Make time to just take a walk as you bond. Walk for long as you hold hands, laugh, and bump shoulder to shoulder. You need no money for this.

33. HONEST DATE

This date is a bit hard and if you are not a person who enjoys people telling you the ugly side of you; please don’t try it. It can ruin your relationship or marriage. This date is when you and your partner tell each other what you like and don’t like about each other and what you are willing and ready to do to change it. Whatever you say to each other must never be used against each other and everything must be said and done in love.

34. FLOWER DATE

Send a flower and a romantic message to your partner occasionally. Do it as a man, do it as a woman. Make it a culture; a habit both of you are willing to nurture.

35. PRANK DATE

Choose a day to prank your spouse. But please, know the state of your spouse’s health and how beautiful his or her heart is before you do this so that a prank won’t lead to something else.

36. GIFT DATE

Get your spouse a surprise gift. It could be something he/she had wanted to have but couldn’t do for one reason or the other. Or something you think will be good and nice for him/her to have.

I’ve summarised the 48 Laws of Power for you! You can have an idea of what the book is really about. The book teaches mo...
24/04/2025

I’ve summarised the 48 Laws of Power for you!


You can have an idea of what the book is really about. The book teaches more on the art of manipulation and psychology.

People have reservations about the book. But as a leader, why should you remain naive?



BE WISE AS SERPENT!


1. Never Outshine the Master

Let your superiors feel superior.
If you’re too good, they’ll feel threatened. Always make your boss look good.




2. Never Put Too Much Trust in Friends

Friends can betray you; hire based on skill. People close to you may act emotionally. Choose loyalty and competence.



3. Conceal Your Intentions

Hide your goals. Move in silence. If others know your plans, they may try to block them. Stay mysterious.




4. Always Say Less Than Necessary

Words reveal too much. Power lies in silence. People can't attack what they don’t understand. Speak wisely and briefly.



5. So Much Depends on Reputation

Guard your name like a crown. A good name opens doors. A bad one shuts them forever.



6. Court Attention at All Costs

Visibility builds influence. The more people see you, the more they remember you. Don’t be invisible.



7. Get Others to Do the Work, Take the Credit

Let others sweat. You shine. Use other people’s time and talent to win bigger with less effort.



8. Make People Come to You

Be the prize, not the pursuer. If they chase you, you’re in control. Don’t beg—attract.



9. Win Through Actions, Never Arguments

Prove it. Don’t debate it. Talking convinces few. Results convince everyone.



10. Infection: Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky

Negativity spreads. Protect your vibe. Bad energy can ruin your momentum. Keep positive company.



11. Make People Depend on You

The more they need you, the more power you hold. If they can’t do it without you, they’ll never leave you behind.



12. Use Honesty as a Weapon

A small truth builds trust. One honest moment can mask your deeper intentions.



13. Appeal to Self-Interest, Not Mercy

People help when they benefit. Don’t beg—show them what’s in it for them.



14. Pose as a Friend, Work as a Spy

Watch quietly. Learn deeply. People tell secrets when they feel safe. Listen more.




15. Crush Your Enemy Totally

Don’t give room for revenge. Leave no chance for a comeback. End the threat completely.



16. Use Absence to Increase Respect

Too much presence weakens impact. Be missed. Your value grows when you’re not always around.



17. Keep Others in Suspense

Be unpredictable. Keep them guessing. People fear what they can’t predict. Don’t be too obvious.



18. Don’t Build Fortresses to Protect Yourself
Isolation is dangerous.
Stay in touch with people and information. Fortresses become prisons.



19. Know Who You’re Dealing With
Not everyone forgives. Read the room.
Some people fight back. Learn their nature before you act.



20. Don’t Commit to Anyone
Stay free. Loyalty limits options.
Be needed by many, owned by none.



21. Play the Fool to Catch the Wise
Appear weaker than you are.
People reveal more when they underestimate you.



22. Surrender When You Must
Losing a battle can win the war.
Step back temporarily if it helps you rise later.



23. Concentrate Your Forces

Focus energy for maximum impact. Don’t spread yourself thin. Go deep, not wide.


24. Play the Perfect Courtier

Charm is a survival skill. Be diplomatic, respectful, and polished in high places.


25. Recreate Yourself

Be whoever the moment demands. You’re not stuck. Reinvent yourself as needed.


26. Keep Your Hands Clean

Stay above blame. Let others take the fall. Use others to do the dirty work while you stay spotless.


27. Create a Cult-Like Following

Give people something to believe in. People want meaning. Be the source of it.


28. Enter Boldly

Timid moves get ignored. People respect confidence—even when you fake it.


29. Plan to the End
Know where you're going. Don’t just act. Think about the consequences and plan ahead.


30. Make It Look Effortless

Mastery should look easy. Don’t show the struggle. Let the results speak.


31. Control the Options

Let them choose—but make all the options serve you. Frame the situation so whatever they pick, you win.


32. Play to Fantasies

People want dreams, not reality. Sell hope. Sell magic. Sell escape.

33. Find the Weak Spot

Everyone has one. Use it. Power comes from knowing where to press.

34. Be Royal in Your Own Way

Carry yourself with pride. Confidence and elegance attract respect—even without a title.

35. Master the Art of Timing

Don’t be early or late. Be right. Good timing is often better than strength.


36. Ignore What You Can’t Have

Desire fades when you act like you don’t care. What you ignore loses power over you.

37. Create Drama and Mystery

People love a show. Give them one. Big moves and visuals leave lasting impressions.


38. Blend In When Necessary

Fit in to survive. Don’t always stand out. Sometimes, silence is strategy.


39. Stir the Waters

Confuse the situation. Take control. Uncertainty puts you in charge. Make them uneasy.



40. Reject the Free Lunch

Nothing is ever truly free. Free things usually come with a price. Be wise.

41. Avoid the Shadows of Giants

Be original, not a copy. Create your own legacy. Don’t live in someone else’s.


42. Strike the Leader First

Cut the head, scatter the body. To break a group, take out its leader.


43. Win Hearts and Minds

Control through love, not fear. People follow those they admire. Be that person.


44. Mirror Others

Reflect their behaviour. Gain control. People trust what feels familiar.


45. Don’t Push Change Too Fast

People resist sudden shifts. Go slow. Let change feel like their idea.


46. Don’t Appear Too Perfect

Too much success sparks envy. Show a flaw or two. Stay relatable.


47. Don’t Overdo It

Stop when you’ve won. Going too far can ruin everything. Know when to end.


48. Be Formless

Flow like water. Adapt fast. Rigidity breaks. Flexibility survives.

Wisdom Teacher

03/04/2025

S*X AND SUCCESS DON’T MIX – WHY UNDISCIPLINED MEN NEVER BECOME GREAT

Some men dream of success.
Some men work for success.
Some men destroy their success before it even starts.

And guess what? For many men, the biggest distraction is S*X.

A man who chases pleasure over purpose will always be left behind.
A man who controls his desires will always be ahead.

Success requires discipline.
S*xual indulgence destroys discipline.

If you can’t control your lust, you will never control your future.

BRUTAL THREAD:

1. POWERFUL MEN AVOID S*XUAL DISTRACTIONS, WEAK MEN CAN’T SAY NO

Every great man in history had one thing in common: They had discipline.

Alexander the Great conquered the world by 30—he didn’t waste time chasing women.

Elon Musk works 100 hours a week—he doesn’t waste time texting girls.

Muhammad Ali refused s*x before fights—he knew discipline was power.

But look at many men today:

Wasting hours daily on p**n and ma********on.

Spending their last money just to impress women.

Crying over a girl instead of building their future.

No great man was ever a slave to lust.

2. S*X DRAINS YOUR ENERGY, FOCUS, AND DRIVE

Every time you release, you are losing more than just a few seconds of pleasure.

You are losing:

Testosterone (your natural energy for success).

Motivation (your hunger to win).

Mental clarity (your ability to stay focused).

That’s why after s*x, many men feel weak and lazy.

Now imagine:

Doing this every day.

Wasting hours texting, chasing, and begging women.

Spending money just to get a few minutes of pleasure.

That’s why broke men chase s*x, and rich men chase success.

3. EVERY MINUTE SPENT CHASING WOMEN IS A MINUTE LOST BUILDING YOUR FUTURE

Look at your daily habits.

How much time do you spend scrolling through women’s pictures?

How much time do you waste flirting and simping in DMs?

How much time do you spend watching p**n and draining your strength?

Now imagine using that time to:

Learn a high-income skill.

Work on your business or career.

Go to the gym and improve your body.

If you focused on building, you wouldn’t need to chase—women would come to you.

4. HISTORY PROVES THAT S*XUAL WEAKNESS DESTROYS GREAT MEN

Ask yourself: What destroyed the strongest men in history?

Not war. Not enemies. Not poverty.
It was s*xual weakness.

Samson lost his power because of Delilah.

King Solomon was the wisest man, but women led him to destruction.

Tiger Woods lost millions in endorsements due to a s*x scandal.

Bill Clinton’s career was almost ruined by a woman.

A man without discipline is a man waiting for destruction.

5. WOMEN DON’T RESPECT MEN WHO CAN’T CONTROL THEMSELVES

You think a woman respects a man who chases her all day?
You think she values a man who is always available and begging?

No.

A woman respects men who have:

Purpose.

Self-control.

A bigger mission in life.

When you focus on your purpose, women will focus on you.

6. P**N, MA********ON & CASUAL S*X ARE MAKING MEN WEAKER

The modern man is weak, lazy, and broke because he is addicted to cheap pleasure.

P**n kills your brain.

Ma********on destroys your energy.

Casual s*x makes you undisciplined.

That’s why so many men are:

Unmotivated.

Struggling financially.

Depressed and directionless.

If you want to be great, you must cut off s*xual distractions.

7. A MAN WHO CAN’T CONTROL HIS URGES CAN’T CONTROL HIS DESTINY

You say you want to be rich, powerful, and successful.

But you can’t even:

Go a week without s*x or p**n.

Focus on work without being distracted by women.

Stop simping and chasing after every woman you see.

If you can’t master your own body, how can you master the world?

8. SUCCESSFUL MEN CONTROL S*X, BROKE MEN ARE CONTROLLED BY S*X

S*x is a tool.

The weak use it for pleasure.

The strong use it for power.

A successful man controls when and how he engages in s*x.
A broke man lets s*x control him.

That’s why the world is run by disciplined men, not by men who chase pleasure.

9. WOMEN COME AND GO, BUT SUCCESS STAYS

A man can have 100 women today, and they can all leave tomorrow.

But if you have money, power, and status, even more women will come.

That’s why powerful men never lack women.
And that’s why weak men are always chasing.

10. DISCIPLINE FIRST, PLEASURE LATER

There is nothing wrong with s*x.

But if you put pleasure before purpose, you will always struggle.
If you master self-control, you will always be ahead.

The choice is yours.

BOTTOM LINE:

If you want to be great, wealthy, and powerful, learn to control your lust.

Because in the end…

Men who control their desires, control their future.
Men who chase pleasure, lose everything

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