05/09/2025
DEAF AWARENESS 101: UNDERSTANDING DEAF PEOPLE'S REACTIONS
Two weeks ago, I had the privilege of facilitating at Clifford University located at Ihie in Abia State during the Children's Convention, organised by Prof. (Mrs.) Yetunde and her team of Children's Ministry. I was impressed by the intelligence and sharpness of the children, all under 14 years old.
The event was engaging, with discussions centred around Deaf people and communication.
When I asked the children if they loved Deaf people and why, their responses were illuminating and thought-provoking. Some said no, citing reasons such as:
1. They can't survive in society.
2. They always have hot tampered
3. They're always sad and moody.
What's striking is that these children are barely below 14 years old. I was amazed and encouraged to hear teenagers express their thoughts about Deaf people and their reactions, as I typically expect such discussions from adults. Their candid perspectives were both amazing and insightful.
Their answers prompted me to offer some clarifying points. I emphasized that Deaf people are human beings with feelings and reactions, just like everyone else. Their responses depend on the circumstances and approaches from those around them, whether at home, school, or in society.
I pointed out that both Deaf and hearing individuals can exhibit good or bad behavior, actions, and character traits, shaped by their personal choices, experiences, and social influences as human beings can react or decide to demonstrate! No big difference!
As I write this, I'd like to underscore that Deaf individuals often face discrimination and stigma due to a lack of understanding and empathy.
For instance, denying Deaf children access to education by their parents, who feel that it's not worth the investment, can have lasting consequences. As they grow up, they may face significant challenges, feel disadvantaged compared to their hearing peers, and experience emotions like frustration, inadequacy, regret, and sadness.
Also, when Deaf children are sent away by their parents to work as househelpers, they're denied the love, care, and support they need to develop and thrive.
On the other hand, effective communication is crucial for building strong relationships between Deaf and hearing individuals in order to have a great understanding.
Another example on communication barriers os that when parents prioritize listening to their hearing children over their Deaf children, it can lead to misunderstandings and feelings of marginalization.
Deaf individuals may struggle to express themselves in predominantly hearing settings, leading to frustration and anger that can manifest in various ways, including fighting, etc.
To foster inclusivity, peace, happiness, and understanding, it's essential to prioritize balanced communication and fairness in our interactions, ensuring that every voice is heard and valued.
The negative mindsets, as highlighted, negatively impacts Deaf individuals and hinder their ability to thrive physically, emotionally, mentally, financially, and psychologically.
THE MORAL LESSON:
We need to cultivate empathy and self-awareness to treat everyone with dignity and equality, acknowledging our shared humanity. By understanding the underlying reasons behind people's reactions and feelings, we can foster a more compassionate and inclusive environment. By doing so, we can build a more inclusive and compassionate society. Also, remember to prioritize total communication (oral, writing, typing, gesture, signing, etc) to drive impactful change and make a real difference.
Enjoy Deaf Awareness Month!
Yours truly,
El-dad Monu.
