03/07/2025
GOOD MEN NEVER FIND GOOD WOMEN!
📌This is Myth of Mismatched Goodness: You Attract What You Are...
It's a common lament: "Good men never find good women," or vice-versa. But let's be clear, that sentiment is a myth. It's a convenient excuse, an external blame, that avoids a fundamental truth about relationships: you attract what you project. Yes!
📌Your Vibe Attracts Your Tribe!
The kind of energy and qualities you put out into the world are what you'll get back, especially in relationships.
Think of it like this: You can't expect a magnet that only attracts rust to suddenly pull in pure gold.
In the same way, if you want a partner who is kind, honest, patient, and genuinely loving, you need to become those things yourself first.
Your true self, your actions, and your character act like a beacon, drawing people with similar energies and values towards you. So, if you want to find a "good" partner, focus on being a "good" person.
📌It's a Two-Way Street, Always! Not onesided.
This principle isn't exclusive to one gender or the other. It applies equally to men seeking good women and women seeking good men.
Relationships are a reflection. If you bring chaos, insecurity, or negativity to the table, don't be surprised when you find yourself consistently encountering partners who mirror those traits.
How can you be Devil and expect an angel.
📌The Work Starts With You!
So, before you articulate your ideal partner's qualities, take a honest look in the mirror. Are you embodying those same virtues? Are you working on becoming the kind of person you genuinely want to spend your life with?
Personal growth and self-improvement aren't just about making you better; they are the most powerful tools you possess for attracting the fulfilling, healthy relationship you truly deserve. The journey to a good partnership begins with becoming a good partner yourself.
Be the person that you want to attract!
Hope this helps.
Good morning!
Viva's Varieties
Vivian Chidifine Gideon
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