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The Mysterious Library of Lost SoulsIn the heart of the city, hidden behind a nondescript door, lay the mysterious Libra...
02/05/2025

The Mysterious Library of Lost Souls

In the heart of the city, hidden behind a nondescript door, lay the mysterious Library of Lost Souls. The building seemed to shift and change, like a living entity, and its walls whispered secrets to those who dared to listen.

One stormy night, I stumbled upon the library while seeking refuge from the rain. As I pushed open the creaky door, a warm golden light enveloped me, and I felt an otherworldly pull.

Inside, the library was a labyrinth of shelves, stretching far into the darkness. Tomes bound in human skin seemed to writhe and twist, emitting a faint hum. I wandered deeper, my fingers trailing over the spines, feeling the strange energy emanating from the books.
Suddenly, a figure materialized beside me. It was the Librarian, an androgynous being with eyes that burned like stars.

"Welcome, Olubunmi," the Librarian whispered. "I have been waiting for you. You see, this library contains not just books, but the stories of the dead. The tales of those who lived, loved, and lost."
I shivered as I explored the shelves, I discovered that each book was a portal to a different soul's story. I read of a soldier who died in battle, a mother who lost her child, and a lover who was betrayed.

But with each story, I felt a piece of my soul slipping away. I realized that the library was not just a collection of tales, but a web of interconnected lives, and that I was becoming a part of it.

The Librarian's eyes gleamed with a knowing light. "You see, Olubunmi, the stories we tell are not just our own, but those of the souls who have come before us. And by reading them, we become a part of their narrative."

As I prepared to leave, the Librarian handed me a book bound in my own skin. "This is your story, Olubunmi," the Librarian whispered. "Will you read it, and become a part of the library's eternal tale?"

I hesitated, feeling the weight of the book in my hands. And as I looked up at the Librarian, I knew that I had a choice to make: to read my own story, and become a part of the library's mysterious mosaic, or to walk away, and leave the secrets of the Library of Lost Souls forever unspoken.

The storm outside had passed, but the one within me had just begun!

Would you join me to read your own story and become a part of the library's mysterious mosaic, or to walk away together, and leave the secrets of the Library of Lost Souls forever unspoken.

Over to you !!!

16/02/2025

Don't get Caught up in The Overachiever's Hamster's Wheel

The Overachiever's Hamster WheelHave you ever feel like you are running a race you can never win?  Pushing yourself hard...
10/02/2025

The Overachiever's Hamster Wheel

Have you ever feel like you are running a race you can never win? Pushing yourself harder, achieving more, only to feel… empty? Like the applause fades, the trophies gather dust, and that nagging feeling of inadequacy creeps back in?

You might be an overachiever. And while society often celebrates this drive, what if I told you that constant striving could be a sign of something deeper? Something more painful.

Today, we would explore the complex relationship between overachieving and low self-worth. It is something I have wrestled with myself, and something I see in so many people around me.

What if I tell you that the relentless pursuit of external validation can actually be a way to avoid facing our own internal struggles.

The uncomfortable truth is that can achievement ever truly fill the void of low self-worth?

This is not about bashing ambition. It is not about saying achievement is bad. It is about understanding the why behind the drive. It is about asking ourselves the tough questions.

Am I chasing success for the joy of it, for the intrinsic satisfaction, or am I desperately trying to prove my worth to myself, and to the world? Am I trying to earn my value?

Think about the messages we receive from a young age. Be successful. Do well in school. Get the good job. Make lots of money. It is all about external markers of success, isn't it? And if we don't achieve those things, or even if we do but still feel empty, it is easy to internalize that as a personal failing. We start to believe that we are not good enough.

For many overachievers, this starts early. Maybe it's about seeking approval from parents or teachers. Maybe it's about feeling the pressure to outperform siblings or peers. Whatever the root, the message becomes ingrained: "My worth depends on what I achieve."

I remember… asking a friend why is he desiring all the life goals he penned down, and he said to ne, don't you know that if you don’t have money, the society will look down on you…...

The problem is, this kind of external validation is fleeting. It is like trying to fill a leaky bucket. You might feel a temporary high after a big win, but it never lasts. The insecurity always creeps back in. Because the real work, the work of building genuine self-worth, happens internally.

So, what can we do? How do we break free from this cycle of overachiever's hamster wheel and start the journey towards genuine self-acceptance?

Because true worth isn't earned through achievements, it is something we already possess.

It is inherent!

Well, it is a journey, not a destination. And it starts with self-compassion.

Treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding you would offer a friend.

Acknowledge your struggles. Recognize that everyone makes mistakes. You are not perfect, and that's okay. In fact, it is more than okay. It is what makes you human.

Another important step is to challenge those negative self-talk patterns. When you hear that voice in your head saying you are not good enough, or you need to do more to prove your worth, challenge it. Ask yourself, "Is this really true? What evidence do I have to support this belief?" Often, you will find that there isn't much evidence at all.

Let me leave you with this: You are enough. Right here, right now, as you are. You don’t need to prove your worth to anyone—not to the world, not to your family, not even to yourself. Your worth is inherent. It is not dependent on your achievements. You are worthy, not because of what you do, but simply because of who you are.

Please note that, breaking free from the overachiever’s hamster wheel isn’t easy. It takes courage to step up, to silence the voices that tell you to keep running, and to start believing in your worth—not because of what you do, but because of who you are.

So, I challenge you today: Take one small step toward self-compassion. Challenge that voice in your head that says you’re not enough. And if you need help, reach out. You don’t have to do this alone.

If this piece resonated with you, if it made you think, or even just pause for a moment, I need you to just hit that like button, subscribe to this podcast, and share it with someone who needs to hear this message.

Because the truth is, we are all in this together. And the more we talk about these struggles, the more we can help each other break free from the cycles that hold us back.

Thank you for being here. Thank you for showing up. And remember: You are worthy, not because of what you achieve, but because you exist.

Now go out there and own that truth. Until next time, take care of yourself—you deserve it.

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