23/08/2025
TRAPPED - FINDING YOUR WAY OUT OF DARK PLACES [PART 2 ] || REV KESIENA ESIRI
Episode 6.
Why will Christians be thinking that they will be found in such a compromised situation at the return of the Lord? It's because people have refused to admit that they have a problem. And this is why we keep saying, you can't sway away your salvation. You can't sway away your salvation, giving people a false sense of security that has led to people sleeping deeper and deeper into the boils of dark places.
So, people are addicted to p**n, addicted to all kinds of sexually explicit content, and right now their hands are in chains, they are yokes on their necks, they are fetters on their feet, and they do not know how to get out. I'm saying to you, the first step to walking out of dark places, finding your way out of dark places, is that a light must dawn on you where you say to yourself, "I have a problem and I need help."
Young lady, it's not normal to be sleeping around. Using your body as a tool for making money is an abomination. It is an abomination. Some Christian, so-called Christian sisters have even begun to my life—sleeping with other people's husbands—and they carry their Bibles and walk into church on Sunday and say they are having fellowship with a God who is holy.
It is a plague. There's a pandemic, and we need to be honest enough to say people are sick and they need help. They need help. Pastors need to begin to get serious about being able to address same-sex attraction, address ma********on issues, address fornication issues. They must get serious. It's not normal. It's not normal.
The Bible says every one of us must know how to possess our vessels in sanctification and honor, for this is the will of God. It is the will of God. God will not say it is His will if He has not provided capacity for us to be able to meet His will.
The reason He communicates His will is because He knows that He has given us the tools to be able to live in absolute obedience to His will. He would not have told Adam, "Don't eat of the fruit that is in the midst of the garden," if He did not know that Adam had the capacity to obey Him. The Bible says He will not put on us more than we can bear.
So, if you are struggling and you are a blood-bought, blood-washed, Holy Ghost-filled believer, you need to be able to admit first there is a problem and say, "I need help. I need help."
And you see what I found out when I struggled—because I, I, I’m passionate about these things because I have experienced this struggle myself. I looked at my first p**nographic magazine when I was 12 years, 10 years old, and I know how long it took for me to be able to get out of that cycle. I stopped watching p**n, but the images lingered in my mind for a long time before I got to the point where all the images were taken away.
If God can do it for me, He can do it for you. He can do it for you. But you see, I had to come to a place where I told myself, “I’m sick. I need help. I need help. I need help.” I was like you—fasting, praying, fasting, praying, fasting, praying—trying to do everything within my power to break free. And now I found out that no matter how hard you try in your own strength, you cannot win that battle.
And that’s what I’m going to be talking about when we come in episode 3. Because remember, I’ve just begun to speak about the first step—how you can walk out of the darkness of addiction. The first step is to admit that you have a problem. You have a problem.
In subsequent episodes, I’m now going to show you how to take advantage of the indwelling presence of the Holy Spirit to live above the addiction. Because that’s part of why the Lord gave us the Holy Ghost. He said, “And you shall receive power after the Holy Ghost has come upon you.” I found out—find out—I found out that many Christians, when they read that scripture, the power they are only thinking about is the power of signs and wonders to perform miracles and all of that. But the Holy Spirit coming upon us also gives us the power to live above sin, the power to walk out of our dark places, and live in the brightness of His light.
So, dear brother, dear sister, you who are watching, have you admitted that you have a problem? Have you come to the place where you have called fornication what it is? It is a sin. It’s still a sin.
Let me read one last scripture as I attempt to bring this episode two to a close—something you can meditate on while you look forward. Ephesians chapter 5, let’s begin at verse 3. It says:
“But fornication, and all uncleanness or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints; neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not convenient; but rather giving of thanks. For this ye know, that no fornicator, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God. Let no man deceive you with vain words: for because of these things cometh the wrath of God upon the children of disobedience. Be not ye therefore partakers with them. For ye were sometimes darkness, but now are ye light in the Lord: walk as children of light.”
So, therefore, if you’re a child of the light, sexual addiction should not be named within your space. But since now you have fallen within that vicious cycle, how do you break free? First step: admit I have a problem and I need help.
You, young preacher—you are chatting with young ladies, members in your church, members in your fellowship—and you are destroying them with sexual immorality, and yet you will not sit down and admit that you have a problem. If you cannot control your sexual appetite, what you need is not public ministry. You don’t need a microphone. You need to sit down and be discipled. Sit down and ensure that that seed of that immoral appetite is uprooted from your vessel, and your vessel is made pure.
Oh, in those days, I used to read and I used to see how people would break down before the Lord and confess their sins and say, “I have a problem, help me,” even publicly. But nowadays, people are covering ma********on with tongues. They come from their boyfriend’s house to minister in the choir. People’s wives go to church to sleep with their pastors. The Christian space has become a den of sexual immorality.
And I’m saying to us, the first step to our healing as a people, as a generation, is that people must not be afraid anymore to say, “I have a problem and I need help.” That is the first step to walking out of your dark place.
If you’d like to pray and ask God for help, I’d like you to bow your heads and just speak to the Lord:
“Lord, I pray that you help my brothers and my sisters, that as we journey in this series, the yoke of addictions will be broken off people’s lives, and people will be set free.”
𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐄𝐧𝐝.
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