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Sharing real-life gists on motherhood, life abroad, and self-growth ,with warmth, wit, and a little sass.

11/12/2025

Learn to go off the habit of overcommitting, saying yes when you mean no.
An unaligned yes steals energy from what truly matters.
Enjoy your day

Special Public Announcement.😂I’m a very loyal somebody.Please don’t come and be fighting my friend in my presence and ex...
10/12/2025

Special Public Announcement.😂

I’m a very loyal somebody.

Please don’t come and be fighting my friend in my presence and expect me to join you to drag them.

Mba. Impossible. You will wait tire.

In fact, you go begin wonder if I swallowed dictionary of loyalty.

The moment I smell that kind of rat, I quietly carry my bag of righteousness and waka.

And just know ,I will deliver full report to my friend:
Who said what, where, when and with which mouth.
Because me? I no do gossip ambush.

If my friend is wrong, trust me, I’ll correct her…
But not in your front. Never.

Na inside house, with door locked and fan on, we go settle our matter.

So please, don’t bring gossip near me.

I’m not your “dragging partner.”

I’m a premium loyalist with fast–tracking gist delivery.
Avoid me if your heart no pure

Men of this great federation, abeg gather here for roll call.Why is it that in your mind it is only women that came to t...
10/12/2025

Men of this great federation, abeg gather here for roll call.
Why is it that in your mind it is only women that came to this life with the “birth control” manual?

You nko… why you no take your own morning after pill?

Oh wait… you no even know where to buy am because your gender no dey collect assignment.

You no use condom.
You no pull out properly.
You no get plan.
But you get mouth to ask, “Babe are you safe?”
My brother, are you safe?

And as if that one no reach, you’re busy sending your wife on hormonal Olympics every month.

Have you even checked the side effects of those pills she is swallowing like vitamin C?

Mood swings, headaches, weight changes, body doing press up anyhow… and you just dey there saying “it’s not that deep.”

If counting cycle was a course, many of you for still fail.

Simple “Babe is in her unsafe zone let me behave myself and use condom”
You people will still choose violence.

Meanwhile vasectomy is there minding its business, safe, simple and reversible for many men
But una go act like they are about to remove your entire destiny.

Me I no like what I hate o.
Just dey here jejely and one small gist triggered me.

Anyway, message of the day:
Family planning is teamwork
Everybody should contribute
Not only madam.

Make love sweet, not stressful.
God bless all women for their patience
And God touch the heads of our brothers.

09/12/2025

Single Ladies!
Start treating you like a princess in 2026, buy flowers for yourself, take yourself on trips and if that young man doesn’t understand you like flowers, then he is not the right man for you. Set standards for yourself.

09/12/2025

There’s nothing that soothes a tired soul like the sound of the Scottish bagpipes 💕

Some things you’re calling “big flex”… my dear, it’s somebody’s everyday life.Calm down. Breathe. No need to shout “cho ...
09/12/2025

Some things you’re calling “big flex”… my dear, it’s somebody’s everyday life.
Calm down. Breathe. No need to shout “cho cho cho” up and down like siren.

Zuo Ike.
Be humble, I cholu ka ekpele ghara ịrụ ọrụ n’isi gị?
Pride has embarrassed better people o.

Truth is, everybody is running their own race.
What looks like magic to you is another person’s normal Tuesday.

Instead of choking yourself with comparison, face your lane and cook your destiny well.
When your own time land, people go shock.

So relax. Grind. Pray. Grow.
And remember, God does not do photocopy; your blessing has your name on it.

Hehehehe my people, gather here make I report somebody.My daughter met us this evening with extra ordinary boldness, tol...
08/12/2025

Hehehehe my people, gather here make I report somebody.

My daughter met us this evening with extra ordinary boldness, told us to check our messages .

Next thing, she’s sending a message to me and her father asking for “iPad 11th Gen (A16)”. No “mummy how was work ”, no “how is your spirit today?”, just straight to the point like landlord giving quit notice.

The audacity ehn.
The courage.
The confidence.
The effrontery.
😂😂😂

So I told her, “Nne, come here. Before you inherit what you did not labour for, sit down and write a personal statement.

Explain why you need this luxury in your life right now.

Not tomorrow. Not future tense. Now. And please, ‘because my classmate has it’ is not a reason.

That one is peer pressure wearing designer.”

Where I come from, you don’t just wake up and acquire certain things until your pocket can say ‘I’m ready’.

In our own days, if you even mentioned something like that, your mother will ask you if you’re the one sponsoring your childhood.

As I’m talking to you, madam is carrying face like somebody that borrowed pride from the neighbor.

I just looked at her and said, “Iru Nkem, agaburo oku. Don’t burn my peace with this your technology ambition.”

But let me tell you the truth: this whole thing was a golden teachable moment.

Sometimes these children need to understand value, needs versus wants, and the difference between working for something and stretching hand like federal allocation.

Life is not ‘tap to buy’. You must learn the discipline behind desire.

The whole scene was too funny maka chi, I keep wondering what was going on in her head.

The girl was looking at me like I’m the one standing between her and her destiny.

Let her write the statement first.
We will read it like visa application.

The Spirit does not move Chinwe in this kind of matter.

After 12 hour shift , I’ll invest it in IPad Eekwa. Nne wait when you start earning money, you buy it for yourself.

Umuaka enwero Egwu.

08/12/2025

If there’s anything to run away from in 2026! It’s a mediocre mindset

It’s Monday again.How many times do you open your eyes on a Monday morning and actually ask yourself, “What impact am I ...
08/12/2025

It’s Monday again.

How many times do you open your eyes on a Monday morning and actually ask yourself, “What impact am I going to make today?”

Or do you just jump out of bed, wear your clothes, and drift through the day like nothing dey happen?

Is your plan just to show up at work, nod your head, say “yes sir, yes ma,” and repeat the same thing next week?

Think about it.
Our parents struggled. Many of them left this world without the chance to build the kind of foundation they wished they could.

Are you really okay with repeating the same cycle? Are you comfortable leaving this life without creating something strong enough to carry your own children?

If you woke up today without a sense of direction, consider this your reminder:
Choose a purpose.
Choose growth.
Choose something that will outlive you.

Let today count.
Make this Monday different.


07/12/2025

If God exalts a child! Why not give it to the child!
Change your mindset

07/12/2025

Many of us know what to do, but the problem we have is application.

07/12/2025

Welfare disempowers you!
It makes you a never do well.

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