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Solomon Anwana Eteka, Oron, Akwa Ibom (2025)

04/07/2025

Never beg a man to be a father to his own child. Don’t plead for him to call, chase him to show up, or remind him of the moments that should matter.

If he can walk away from his own flesh and blood—if he can close his eyes at night knowing his child is growing up without his love, guidance, or presence—that’s his failure, not yours.

You didn’t make that child alone, yet here you are, doing what mothers have always done: stepping up, showing up, and holding everything together with love and strength. Yes, it hurts.

It hurts when your child asks questions you shouldn’t have to answer. It hurts to pretend they don’t feel the absence of someone who should’ve been there. But forcing a man to care won’t make him a father—it’ll only drain you and leave your child with more questions than answers.

A real father isn’t defined by DNA. He’s defined by his actions—by showing up when it’s hard, choosing his child every single day, and loving without conditions. If he can’t do that, let him go.

Life has a way of revealing the truth. One day, your child will see it too. They’ll know who stayed and who walked away. Who loved them through effort, and who only offered empty words.

And when that day comes, you won’t need to explain a thing. His absence will have already told the whole story. Karma may move slowly, but it never forgets. And there’s no regret deeper than a child realizing they weren’t worth the effort to the one person who should’ve given them everything.

So don’t force what isn’t there.
Stand firm in the love you’re already giving.
Because your child doesn’t need a man who had to be dragged into their life...

They need the mother who chose to stay.
And that’s exactly who you are.

A letter to the love of my life ☺️❤️

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But anyways....

Be guided
Joy Patrick

04/07/2025

If you delete it to avoid it being seen, then you don't deserve that PARTNER.

04/07/2025

The World Most Jealous Woman

Imagine being so jealous, you make your partner take a lie detector test every time they walk through the door.

That’s the reality Debbi Wood created earning her the title of “the world’s most jealous woman.”

Living in England, Debbi insisted her husband, Steve, take a polygraph test every single time he came home. Whether he had been out running errands or just popping down to the shop for groceries, no outing was too short to escape suspicion.

But it didn’t stop there.

She also checked his emails, phone, bank statements, and even banned him from watching television commercials that featured women. She placed content filters on his devices and monitored nearly every aspect of his digital and physical life. The control was relentless.

Eventually, Debbi was diagnosed with Othello Syndrome, a rare psychological condition marked by delusional and extreme jealousy. She was also managing bipolar disorder and body dysmorphic disorder, all of which added layers of complexity to her behavior. Treatment began in 2013, but the emotional rollercoaster had already left its mark.

Remarkably, Steve stayed. Despite the inconclusive polygraph results often caused by stress, not dishonesty he continued to call Debbi his soulmate. And in 2014, the couple tied the knot, proving that even in the most controlling and chaotic love stories, commitment can still find a way.

Their relationship raised serious eyebrows around the world, offering a dramatic look at how mental health, trust issues, and love can collide in ways most of us could hardly imagine.

Moral lesson : These kind of relationship fit Nigerian men. 😒😒

But anyways.....

Be guided

04/07/2025

Dear Women, Don’t Let This Be Your Story,

I came across a post that said:

"Get yourself a woman who will cook, clean, and do your laundry while you hustle… then when you finally make it in life, leave her and get a woman you truly deserve."

let me be honest with you, this mindset is toxic, and it's ruining so many women silently.

Ladies,

🚫 Don’t play wife in a girlfriend role.
🚫 Don’t sacrifice your peace, time, and energy for a man who only sees you as a helper, not a partner.
🚫 Don’t build a man up only for him to leave you behind when he “makes it.”

Your value is not in how well you clean or cook. Your value is in who you are, your heart, your dreams, your voice, your presence.

✅ Pay attention to how he talks about the future.
✅ Ask yourself if you’re building with him, or just being used as a bridge.
✅ Don’t be afraid to set boundaries and say: “I deserve more than this.”

If a man can’t respect you while he’s building, he doesn’t deserve you when he’s made it.

And to the men:
If a woman holds you down in your struggle, don’t discard her in your success. That’s betrayal, not growth.

Build with someone. Win together. That’s how real love works.

Not the other way

But anyways.......

Be guided

03/07/2025

Every Man Must Read

Lets talk . I've noticed that guys often overlook the signs when a lady is not interested. They get caught up in their own feelings and ignore the obvious.
When the lady is consistently saying "I'm busy" without making time for you, it's not about being busy – it's about priorities. Don't you get it ? if someone truly wants to spend time with you, they'll make it happen. If Dangote can make time for his family, surely she can make time for you if she really want to.

And if dates get cancelled without a reschedule, it's not about schedules it's about interest. These signs aren't subtle; they're loud and clear. Take the hint and move on.
Don't waste your time on someone who's not making time for you. You deserve better. Life's too short to chase someone who doesn't see your worth.

Go for who likes you back, simple as that. It's not rocket science. When someone's interested, they'll show you. They'll make time, they'll follow through on plans, and they'll communicate openly. Don't settle for anything less.

If you're struggling to navigate relationships, I'm here to chat. Let's break it down, let's talk it through.
Your time is valuable; don't waste it on someone who doesn't value you back.
You deserve someone who'll prioritize you, someone who'll show up for you consistently.

But anyways....

Be guided

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03/07/2025

“15 Simple rules every man should know:

1. Anger is your number one enemy, let it come and go but do not let it control you.Feel it but don't let it rule you.

2. You don't need people or material things to be happy. They are there to multiply the happiness you have.People and things should add, not define, your joy.

3. Your haters are your biggest advertisers, use them accordingly.Let them talk, and rise higher.

4. Family consist not of only blood. Loyalty defines true brotherhood.

5. Brothers do not fight or quarrel for more than 24 hours. Womæn do that, not men.Settle issues quickly and maturely.

6. Learning how to fight and defend yourself is a must.

7. There's no better therapy house than the gym.Build your body, clear your mind.

8. Watch what you eat, avoid sugar, eat a whole lot of protein.

9. Go for a woman of value, where s*x and money is not the first thing she thinks of when you say commitment.

10. If she doesn't accept, her sister will, her cousin will, her best friend will. Take your chances.Rejection isn’t the end; confidence wins.

11. One source of income is a No No. at Least 3.Don’t rely on one stream.

12. Love your mother, protect and take care of her. Respect and love your father, make sure to make him proud!

13. Never call another man "dear"! Don't be g*y.Keep it solid.

14. Being g*y as a man is stupid, you left b***s and a$$ for a thick stone hard butt. Don’t trade strength for confusion.

15. Never forget to Pray everyday, morning and night. For a man with God is a man with all.A man with God walks with purpose.

But anyways....

Be guided
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03/07/2025

12 THINGS YOU MUST NEVER BE AS A FATHER
A call to men who were made to lead, love, and leave a good legacy.

Fatherhood is not just a role — it's a divine responsibility.
Every child is watching, learning, and shaping their future based on the man(father) you are today.

So here are 12 things you must NEVER become — not just for your sake, but for theirs.

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1. A LIAR
Your words are seeds. Don’t plant deception.
When your children catch you lying — and they will — they’ll lose trust in your voice and may repeat your mistakes. Speak truth, even when it costs you something.

2. AN ABSENT MAN
Presence matters more than presents.
Don’t just pay the bills — be in the moments. Be the voice that prays with them, the hands that guide them, and the heart that listens. Never delegate your role as a father... stop giving their mothers gifts, money to give to them.

3. A DRUNK
If alcohol owns your peace, it’ll destroy your home.
You can’t build strong children with shaky hands and a blurred mind. Walk in clarity, live in dignity.

4. A CHEAT
Honor your marriage.
Infidelity is a bomb that explodes generations. Be faithful not just in public, but in your thoughts, in your texts, and behind closed doors. Be a covenant keeper.

5. A TYRANT
Fathers are not bosses — they’re builders.
Don’t bark orders and expect loyalty. Lead with humility. Earn their respect by showing them grace, not fear.

6. A BULLY
You’re not raising robots. Don’t demand blind obedience through threats or fear.
Apologize when you're wrong. Discipline with love, not with fists or fury.

7. A WIFE-BEATER
Nothing justifies violence against your wife — nothing.
Even if the kids don’t see it, they’ll feel it. Your daughter will normalize it. Your son will repeat it. Be a protector, never a predator.

8. A MONSTER
If your children hide when they hear you at the door, something is broken.
Be the kind of father whose presence brings peace, not panic. You were made to comfort, not to control.

9. AN ABUSER
Child labor, hunger, humiliation — these are silent scars.
Don’t destroy your children’s spirit by neglect or abuse. They’re not burdens. They’re blessings.

10. A MOLESTER
This should never even need to be said — but it must.
Any man who violates his own child is no father at all. It’s evil. It’s criminal. And it is punishable before God and man.

11. IRRESPONSIBLE
You can't claim the title of "father" and abandon your post.
If your wife is doing it all while you chase comfort, you're not a partner — you're a weight. Provide. Protect. Participate.

12. A BAD EXAMPLE
Your kids will copy what you do before they obey what you say.
If you curse, they’ll curse. If you pray, they’ll pray. If you lie, they’ll lie. Be what you want them to become.

13. THE DIVINE CALL OF FATHERHOOD

Fatherhood is more than DNA — it’s a divine assignment.
God trusted you with a soul. That means He believes you can lead, love, and leave a mark.
If you've failed before, rise again. Let grace shape you into the man your children deserve.

💬 FINAL WORD: LEGACY IS BUILT IN SILENCE AND SEEN IN GENERATIONS

Being a father is not about perfection — it’s about presence, purpose, and progress.
The world may never clap for your quiet sacrifices, but heaven records every moment you chose love over anger, patience over power, and truth over convenience.

Your children may not remember every word you said —
but they’ll never forget the man you were.

So stand tall.
Lead well.
Love deep.

Because the legacy you leave…
is already watching you live.

But anyways.....

Be guided
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