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JulianasBlog, Anambra (2025)

03/10/2025

Don't trust people who are the victim in every story they tell.

It's only a matter of time, you will see their true nature.

02/10/2025

👉 It’s not every testimony or good news that one should share publicly. You know why? Let me break it down 👇

1️⃣ Unnecessary Assumptions 🤔
Sometimes when you share your joy, people may start drawing conclusions that were never there. A simple testimony of progress might suddenly be seen as you "showing off" or "trying to prove a point."

2️⃣ Silent Pain in Others 💔
Not everyone is in the same season of life as you. You might share something out of pure excitement 🎉, but to someone else who is still struggling in that area, it might hurt deeply 😔. It’s not that they hate you, but life has dealt with them differently and your joy can unknowingly remind them of their pain.

3️⃣ Misunderstanding & Twisting of Words 🌀
The truth is, people don’t always hear what you’re saying. They hear what their hearts interpret. You may testify out of gratitude 🙏, but to some, it could be misread as pride, arrogance, or even mockery. The way it can be misunderstood may shock you 😲.

4️⃣ Some Will Even Twist It Further 🗣️➡️🪢
Yes! Some people will go as far as twisting your testimony to suit their own assumptions in your absence. They’ll reframe your joy into a story that fits their own narrative. And when it gets back to you, you may not even recognize what you originally said 😩.

5️⃣ But Here’s the Big Question ❓
Why should I keep back a testimony I prayed, cried, fasted, and waited for? 😭✨ Why should I hide what God has done simply because some people might misunderstand it? 🤷‍♀️

And the answer is this: it’s not really about hiding, it’s about wisdom and timing. There are testimonies you can share, but also testimonies you can guard until the right moment — with the right people. 🌱🕊️

🌺 In all, we learn every day 🌺.

Life is teaching us balance — when to speak 🗣️ and when to stay silent 🤐, when to celebrate publicly 🎊 and when to celebrate privately 🙏.

💡 Remember: Your testimony is powerful, but not every ear deserves to hear it. Some victories are meant to be enjoyed in silence, with peace in your heart and gratitude to God. ✨🙌

28/09/2025

✨ Some friends are seasonal ✨

Not every friendship is meant to last forever. Some people come into your life for a season, and when that season is over, you have to learn to let go. 🌿

If you keep holding on to those whose time in your life has ended, it may only bring you pain. Why? Because not everyone can withstand the great things God is about to do in your life. 🚀

Sometimes, when your light begins to shine brighter, it can breed jealousy, envy, or even hatred in the hearts of those who once called you “friend.”

So don’t feel guilty when certain friendships fade away. It’s not always a loss—it’s growth. 🌸 Some friendships are simply not meant to last forever. Trust God’s plan and embrace the people He aligns with your destiny.🎆

12/09/2025

As usual, once I’m done reading, I enter TikTok to learn one or two before going to bed. Yesterday, I watched someone narrate what happened to a mutual friend’s life.

Elder sister got married, but she was enduring serious domestic vawulence. It became unbearable. Younger sister, who had married into peace, encouraged her to leave and even offered her home for her and her children.

They welcomed her, treated her nicely. After a year, younger sister told her:
“Sister, we love you but my marriage is still young. We’ll rent you an apartment and start a business for you so you can stand on your feet.”

Elder sister agreed o. Said “no problem.”

But secretly? She went diabolical. She vowed they will never throw her out. She said her sister and her husband must train her children till university level, that they must do everything for them.

Unfortunately, whatever she did worked. The younger sister suddenly fell sick. Years passed, she never recovered. Even on her sick bed she kept pleading with her husband:
“Please take care of my children, they’re everything to me.”

Six years later, she dyed

Guess what? The husband truly took over. He raised those children like his own. Called them “my children.” Sent them abroad. Never remarried. Stayed single.

Fast-forward 23 years. April this year. The man suddenly woke up one morning asking for his wife. Asking what the elder sister was doing in his house. Like his senses just returned.

It was his best friend that narrated the whole gist from beginning to end.

Meanwhile, madam elder sister has been living in his house for 23 years. Children she brought? Done with university, trained abroad by this man!

Your enemies are not always outside. Sometimes they sit across your dining table.

And my own question is this: if she had power, why didn’t she use it to change her violent husband? Why use it to destroy her own sister’s life?

Mind how you help people ohhhhhh

One act of kindness cost her life and her marriage and still kept another man’s life caged. Nna ehn. People dey oh

12/09/2025

THERE'S A NEW ABDUCTION / K!DNAP FORMAT IN UYO, AKWA IBOM STATE.

Dear ladies, be very careful and vigilant.

Because the average Nigerian man is a misogynist.

Scratch that..

The truth is that we still live in a society that's deeply sexist and misogynistic, on both an individual and a systemic level.

I still can't comprehend how a woman would be in danger, screaming for possible help...

With proofs that she's ignorant of what's happening to her, and all the men could do is smirk or scoff at her.

I'm still crying and shaking from the event of this morning.

I left my house early this morning to run a "quick errand".

Not far from my house... But around my vicinity.

As I was about stepping out, electricity was restored and decided to just plug my phone cuz, why not?

Especially in this era of PHED's 132KV power outage daily sermons.

I told myself I wouldn't be needing my phone; after all, it was just a "quick errand",

One I had planned to simply dashed out and back within an hour or not more than 1hr 30mins max.

So I left.

Concluded the first errand, and en route to the last one.

Along the way, I realised I needed a sanitary towel urgently, and walking to grab one from a pharmacy along Aka Road.

A car was ahead of me, a camry with tinted glasses parked (as indicated by the tail light).

As I was approaching, the driver excused me.

Me: Hi, good morning

Guy: good morning, please I'm trying to locate Ikot udobong.

Me : Sorry, I don't know.

Him: you're not from here?

Me: No.

Guy: I like you... Can I have your number?

Me: from where to where? For person wife?

I hissed and walked away briskly.

I hadn't even walked 10 steps, when I felt a sudden grab on my arm.

😳😳😳😳

Guy wetin happen? What's the issue?

This guy switched on me, raised his voice.

Saying, after all he invested in me, I think I'd just walk out from the relationship?

How he paid my fees, now I have graduated and don't want to marry him again.

😳😳😳 HOW?

Do you know me before?

How? When? Where did all these tales come from?

First off, I guaduated since 2007... That's 18yrs ago. And I've been married since 2011.

This guy was dragging me back to force me into his car.

I was SHOUTING at the top of my voice, LEAVE ME ALONE ... I DON'T KNOW YOU.

The next thing, an elderly lady came to the scene, and said...

"Yes o, this is how they do, I know her type, a man will suffer to train them finish, them go wan break up, if you check now, she don get another man"

Before you know, Keke men started gathering.

This guy was speaking ibibio, yelling, still grabbing my arm.

Telling them how we woke up together this morning, left the house together and we had a little misunderstanding along the way, and I stormed out of the car.

How he trained me in school, he has done introduction and now, I'm saying I no do again.

😳😳😳😳 I shock. Guy, Wetin be this one like this?

I know you from Adam? I kept asking him.

I was trying to explain myself in English, saying I don't know this man ooo, as I only understood ibibio but can't communicate fluently in it.

Keke men had parked and were saying this na husband and wife matter, make una go settle am for house.

This lunatic of a guy was now telling me, he will beat me and strip me naked.

I remembered Ibom Air and Commy and started crying.

Praying for God to send swift intervention and help.

As soon as I said, God please help me, one guy pulled over...

Seemed he was going to work from how he dressed.

Asked what's going on. I narrated the story. He spoke igbo to me, and I said I don't understand.

The igbo guy said it could be a case of mistaken identity...

This lunatic planning to kidnap me said nooo.

And still repeated we left his house together this morning and I started misbehaving on the road.

That was when he asked the guy...

Igbo man : You said she's your woman?

Guy: Yes. Na my wife - to - be.

Igbo man : wetin be her name?

Guy : which kind question be this? So I no sabi my woman name?

Igbo man : wetin be her name?

Guy : Imaobong Peter

Igbo man to me : Is that your name?

No Sir.

I opened my purse and gave him my IDs: driver's license, my business card, even expired ATM card I had to confirm my name.

The igbo man told him to let me go, that my name is not Imaobong Peter.

Next, he switched on the guy, accusing him that oh... So you're the new guy.

See me that was just walking to go buy sanitary pad 😭😭😭

This mad guy insisted that the igbo man was wasting his time...

That I must follow him home.

He had support from his people, the Keke men, speaking dialect, being so condescending, calling me all sort of names, with the woman still claiming how she knows young girls my type.

At this point, I was holding on to the igbo man, cuz my safety was now dependent on him.

I was crying and screaming he should help me dial my husband's number.

From no where... My messiah landed.

This guy that eventually rescued me is the younger brother to my customer, who sells yam in Akpan Andem market.

They took turns to sit in the stall, and when his brother isn't around, he sells to me.

He was going to the market and saw a small gathering, he came.

As soon as he saw me, he said...

Ah... Aunty na you? Nsido (wetin happen), you no drive today?

As I began telling him, he screamed...

Utoto ke do oooo ooo...( na scammer / 419 he be oooo)

I know this aunty, na my customer, I know her husband, pikin and car sef.

In fact, make I call her husband make e come,

As soon as the kidnapper guy heard that, he let me go, and hurriedly entered his car and drove off.

The woman too... His ardent supporter, disappeared all off a sudden.

That's how this guy began narrating that this is the in thing now,

That just last week or so, this same thing happened to a girl he knows, on this same Aka Road.

I am grateful to him, the igbo man...and to God for the swift intervention.

I don't know what would have happened to me.

Considering how Nigerians blame victims for everything...

They would have cooked and twisted the story for engagements and monetization.

Estelle DeSouza
11: 09: 2025

11/09/2025

My neighbor in my former compound just died and it's causing chaos.

Mid-last year, his wife walked out of their marriage with her children.

Their problem started the day his wife found out that he's been spending on a lady he was doing brother and sister in Christ with. At first, she didn't think their relationship was that deep. The young lady would even visit them sometimes and she'd give her a warm welcome, not knowing that she was part of her midnight tears.

Their oldest child was in basic three and the man kept giving excuses upon excuses about why he couldn't pay the kid's school fees. She felt she understood his type of business and took his words. She borrowed money to pay the school fees against leaving the boy at home till the next term he suggested.

Things kept going from not having money for school fees to not having money for their feeding. She kept doing everything to support the man, even borrowed and he'd still not ask her how she managed to pay the bills. He started showing an I don't care attitude. This got her worried and she became too inquisitive, she wanted to know where rain followed to enter the horn of a moving train. She went through his phone in his absence and found so many debit alerts with the same recipient.

It was the sister in Christ that the money was sent to. Even the day he said he didn't have money for their son's school fees, he sent the lady her school fees about 120k.

This broke the woman and just like the Tiktok woman, she shouted Oga I cannot bear this again, marriage is not a do or die. How can you be suffering with someone and the person would be enjoying with another person, it wasn't fair. All efforts to get her to stay didn't work, she left and told him to go and marry the lady.

Little did she know that the man had intentions of marrying the lady. But like life, the Lady had her plans too and that didn't include the man.

He woke up one day and saw posts of people congratulating the lady as the latest bri

11/09/2025

When you marry and go through sh*it in your marriage, and stay quiet, you are celebrated as a good woman.

When you kpai, they jump out and ask why you didnt talk.

Even my own relatives, both from my side and my husband's side, till tomorrow are celebrating all the married women going through sh*i*t and keeping quiet.

It's the normal thing in Igbo land. A woman who cries out too much about her husband’s wrong doings is a bad wife.

They brag about how all snakes have tummy pain and just lie on their belly, quiet.

They brag about how dogs eat s**t, clean their mouth and keep quiet.

But when you die there, the world will ask why you kept quiet.

Even till last week, a relative still complained of another woman who is crying out about her husband.

We are all deaf till she kpai.

Igbos and pretence in marriage eh.
5&6.

Igbos worship a crying, sad, devastated married woman who is quiet and pretending.

08/09/2025

Never be so thirsty that you drink from every cup. Learn to control your thirst or you will eventually drink poison!

pure fact👌

08/09/2025

Sometimes‼️‼️

we should actually cultivate the habit of praying to have misunderstandings with the people we call friends. Sounds strange, right? 🤔 But the truth is, it’s in the middle of a disagreement that the true heart of a person is revealed.

Many times, it’s during those heated moments that masks fall off—you get to see whether the “friendship” was built on genuine love, respect, and understanding, or if it was only standing because of what they benefited from you.

💡 Misunderstandings test loyalty.
💡 Misunderstandings expose hidden envy.
💡 Misunderstandings separate the real from the fake.

So don’t fear it when it comes. Instead, embrace it as a divine filter. Sometimes, God allows certain quarrels just to show you the people who never truly wished you well.

At the end of the day, a true friend will disagree, argue, but never betray you. Fake ones? Misunderstanding will always expose them.

✨ Pray for clarity, even if it comes through conflict.

08/09/2025

A story went viral where a woman entered an Uber, fell in love with the driver, and married him. Nigerian men hailed her like she had done the most noble thing on earth. For one whole week, we didn’t hear word. They used her as an example to shade women who said “I can’t marry down.”

I have asked this question before, when will I ever hear a good story of a rich woman marrying a broke guy and it ended in peace? Or a ready made woman marrying an average man and it ended in happily ever after

Anyway this same woman trended 2days ago and yesterday cos of her de:ath.

She gave him loans. She gave him her mother’s jeep. She poured her heart and soul into that marriage. She was loyal, submissive, some will even say she was a “mumu.” And what did she get in return? Cheating. Abvse. Emotional torture. Mental tra:uma.

They found her diary and if you read it you’d weep. She fought to make it work until it ended her life .

Marriage of 9months ended her life.

To see good men that can accommodate your financial success is rare..

Most men CANNOT stand a woman richer than them. It bruises their ego. Especially in Africa where archaic mentality still reigns.

STOP finding love below your level.
Stop thinking suffering love stories will give you a fairytale ending.
If you can’t find a man doing better than you, remain single.

Like I always say, every choice you make has its consequences. She made that choice to stay where she wasn’t loved and the consequences was for her life to go.

You that is reading this and you’re in an abvsive relationship with your partner, you have made a decision to stay, just know that your decision has consequences. As you can see I didn’t specify gender meaning I’m talking to ALL.

One day is one day it’s either you lose your life or your senses or your existence.

I have NEVER seen anyone dye cos they are single. It is always married men and women and people in relationship. Even soldiers at warr have not recorded such deaths like marriage has recorded.

Very rare to see a man that will genuinely marry you and not be threatened by your growth.

My dear, don’t gamble your destiny trying to prove that “love conquers all.”

Not every man is a Femi.

May her soul find rest

06/09/2025

When two people break up, the toxic ex often creates a narrative that paints them as the victim. Meanwhile, the real victim just wants to be left alone to finally have the peace they never had in the relationship.

06/09/2025

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