30/04/2025
THINGS YOU SHOULD STOP DOING IN THE NAME OF âLOVEâ
(If you donât stop now, youâll cry later.)
Letâs be real â many people are not in love. Theyâre in bo***ge.
Theyâre calling it âloveâ but what theyâre doing is slowly killing their own destiny, peace, and self-respect.
Here are things you must STOP doing â immediately:
1. STOP FINANCING SOMEONE WHO'S NOT BUILDING WITH YOU.
Youâre sending money every week to someone who brings NOTHING to your table.
Youâre not a lover â youâre an unpaid sponsor.
2. STOP BEGGING FOR LOVE.
If you have to constantly convince them to love, respect, or stay with you â
Theyâve already left mentally. Youâre just holding on to pain.
3. STOP LOSING FRIENDSHIPS FOR A PARTNER.
Cutting off everyone because your partner is insecure?
Thatâs not love. Thatâs isolation. And when they leave, youâll have no one left.
4. STOP TAKING DISRESPECT AND CALLING IT âUNDERSTANDING.â
They insult you. Cheat. Use you.
And you say ânobodyâs perfect.â
Bro/Sis â thatâs not love. Thatâs stupidity wrapped in denial.
5. STOP CHANGING WHO YOU ARE TO BE LOVED.
Youâre now pretending to be what they like â
New voice, new habits, fake vibes.
Whatâs the point of being loved for who youâre not?
6. STOP PRIORITIZING A RELATIONSHIP OVER YOUR FUTURE.
Missing opportunities, dropping goals, ignoring growth just to âmake it work.â
When youâre broke, that same person will leave you for someone who didnât make that mistake.
7. STOP HAVING UNPROTECTED S*X IN THE NAME OF LOVE.
They say âIf you love me, no condomâŚâ
Next thing â pregnancy, STDs, emotional damage.
Protect your life. Love doesnât mean risk.
8. STOP SHARING ALL YOUR SECRETS WITH PEOPLE YOUâRE SLEEPING WITH.
S*x is not trust.
Some people are using your vulnerability to collect data for your downfall.
9. STOP TOLERATING ONE-SIDED EFFORTS.
Youâre doing everything. Calling. Sacrificing. Apologizing.
Theyâre doing the bare minimum.
Thatâs not love â thatâs performance.
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