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15/07/2025

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Marriage isn't something you can do just to please people.

Marriage is beyond ticking the society's box or fulfilling culture and tradition.

Don't just choose anybody.

Peace ✌️

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06/07/2025

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Marriage isn't something you can do just to please people.

Marriage is beyond ticking the society's box or fulfilling culture and tradition.

Don't just choose anybody.

Peace ✌️

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22/06/2025

"Dear Ladies, if you're clocking 40 years old and yet no husband is coming, Look for a guy you love and let him knack you and impregnate you. You need a child that will look after you at old age. Don't let anyone deceive you, Marriage is sweet with right person yes but it's not everybody that will get married. You can still be single with your own child and still be happy and fulfill your purpose here on earth. Stop waiting for something that may never happen. I'm only trying to make common sense"😊


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25/05/2025

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22/05/2025

AVOID THIS TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP

1. You should avoid a relationship that is based on s*x alone. It has no future. If all you do is to sleep with each other instead of discussing things that will benefit your life then that relationship is a waste of time and destiny. That relationship has no direction, purpose or aim. Its a waste of time.

2. Avoid any relationship that doesn't add any positive impact on your life. A relationship must make you feel better.

3. Run away from any relationship that gives you more sorrows than joy. You can't be crying always because you've love for someone that doesn't appreciate. Run away from any relationship that makes you cry or gives you more tears and cry than laughter.

4. Do not stay in a relationship where you love someone but the person makes you unhappy many times. You're forcing them to love you in return.

5. When you see signs that a relationship can't work, don't try to make it work. IT JUST CAN'T WORK.
You can't be the only one in holding a relationship to stand.
There is no need remaining in such relationship. Flee from it.

6. Avoid any relationship where you find yourself struggling to love your partner. Loving someone is effortless.

7. Most importantly and above all. Avoid any relationship that will keeps you far away from God.

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20/05/2025

The joy of motherhood, cooking for your children, bathing them, feeding them, clothing them, playing with them, being patient with them and many more,I pray for all the proud mother's in the house,may we reap the fruit of our labour, for the awaiting mother's may this year never pass you by, you shall experience the joy of motherhood Amen

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19/05/2025

If Marriage Is Not for You

1. No One Is Perfect
Whoever you marry will have flaws. No perfect human has ever existed. If you only focus on your partner's flaws, you'll never appreciate their qualities.
If you can’t overcome this habit, marriage is not for you.

2. The Past Is the Past
Everyone has a past filled with both good and bad experiences. If you keep digging into your spouse's past, you'll lose the happiness of your present marriage.
If you can’t let go of this habit, marriage is not for you.

3. Marriage Comes with Challenges
Every marriage faces daily challenges. It is neither a bed of roses nor a battlefield. Whether it’s a love marriage or an arranged one, difficulties will always exist. The problem isn’t the type of marriage—it’s simply part of life. True marital love means solving these problems together, not blaming each other.
If you have a habit of blaming your partner for every issue, marriage is not for you.

4. Comparisons Kill Happiness
Every marriage is unique. Do not compare your relationship to others. No marriage is a failure; each is successful in its own way. Assuming others are happier while believing your marriage is miserable will only bring dissatisfaction.
If you can’t break this toxic habit, marriage is not for you.

5. Marriage Requires Change
Choosing marriage means committing to eliminating habits and thoughts that harm it, such as:

Ignorance

Recklessness

Lack of discipline

Gossiping

Jealousy

Trusting outsiders over your spouse

Laziness

Disrespect

Lack of love

Harsh words

Betrayal

Avoiding communication

If you can’t let go of these bad habits, marriage is not for you.

6. No Ready-Made Perfect Marriage
There is no such thing as a perfect or ready-made marriage. There is no shortcut to marital happiness. A strong marriage is built on mutual respect, trust, love, and continuous effort. It is like a tree that needs regular care to grow—neglect it, and it will wither and die.
If you are careless and unwilling to nurture a relationship, marriage is not for you.

7. Financial Stability Matters
Marriage and financial stability go hand in hand. You must establish a source of income before getting married. Marrying without financial security is reckless. However, once you have financial stability, don’t worry excessively about whether it will be enough—marriage always involves financial risks. It’s wise to marry someone with a similar financial and social background, as drastic differences can create issues.
If you're not ready to take financial responsibility, marriage is not for you.

8. Love Is the Foundation
A loveless marriage becomes nothing more than a habit, eventually turning into ownership and servitude. Such relationships feel like contracts, and contractual marriages often resemble business transactions. In extreme cases, they become exploitative. Just because a couple stays together doesn’t mean they’re happy—divorce often begins in the heart long before it reaches the courts.
If you lack the ability to love, marriage is not for you.

9. Let Go of Past Loves
Before getting married, you must leave all past romantic attachments behind. Holding onto memories of a past lover while being married is a form of betrayal.
If you can’t break this habit, marriage is not for you.

10. Marriage Is for the Prepared
Marriage completes life—but only if you’re truly ready. Otherwise, don’t ruin someone else’s life.

Love people, even if you choose not to marry.



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17/05/2025

To some Girls
She doesn't have any job but she's using an iPhone, taking pictures on different beautiful environments and lodges.

You don't need a prophet to tell you that she's a dangerøus bed to bed veteran midfielder just like N Kante.

Her body count is higher than the population of china and Indian put together.

Her pu$$y has more traffic than, Lagos and Onitsha traffic put together.

Your assignment is to add to her body count and run.

Pipe and swipe.

Ej*****te and Evaporate.

Hit and run.

Pump and dump.

For earth is hard.

Remember you can't save her.
Only her can do Dat



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14/05/2025

A man can sleep with you today and marry someone else tomorrow—someone he never touched.

Men compartmentalize.
They separate pleasure from purpose.

They will mess you up s*xually and still reserve their best for the woman they admire.

Are you listening?

Use your head.
Or be used.

5. If You Must, Do It From Control — Not Desperation

Are you headstrong? A coconut head? Like me? 🙂

Fine.

But if you're going to love, use your brain first. Then your heart.

Don’t fall into that “I just followed my heart” trap.

Your heart can be manipulated.
Lied to.
Deceived.

Stop thinking:

❌ “He’s poor and orphaned—I pity him.”
❌ “He’s fine—my kids will be cute.”
❌ “He fasts and prays—he’s surely a good man.”
❌ “He gives me money—he must love me.”

These things are not enough.

6. The Painful Truths You Don’t See Online

- That woman who married rich, but can’t even buy data for herself?

- That girl who married for pity and now raises kids alone because he checked out?

- The one who married a spiritual man who’s financially irresponsible?

- Or the one who married for looks and now cries in silence?

What you see is not always what it is.

You must love with logic.

7. Love With Your Brain

This is the blueprint:

✅ Get clear on your life purpose and who fits into it.

✅ Don’t have s*x—it fogs your clarity and blinds you.

✅ Set and enforce your standards.

✅ Ask: Is he good for my soul? Not just How does he make me feel?

8. But At The End… You’ll Still Do What You Want

And that’s okay.

We all must learn.

I just hope you learn before the pain, not through it.

May we find and keep the right person. One who honors us deeply.

Credit :Inulayewa George

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14/05/2025

Dear parents....
Raising children is one of the most important jobs we have in life. Our children are not just ours,they are gifts from God, and He has trusted us to take care of them..

The way we raise them today will shape their future,and ours too.....

It's not enough to just give them food, clothes, and a good education. Those things are important, but they don’t last forever.

What matters most is what we put into their hearts.

Teach your children about God.

Read the Bible with them, show them love, and correct them with wisdom and kindness.

A child who grows up without guidance can feel lost later in life.

That confusion can cause pain,not just for them, but also for us and others.

If we don’t plant good values and godly character when they are young, we might struggle later with disobedience and regret.

The Bible says, “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it” (Proverbs 22:6). This is not just good advice,it’s a promise from God....

Parents, God will one day ask us how we raised our children...

Let’s take this seriously. We are shaping their hearts, their future, and even the future of the world.

May our children grow up not to cause us pain, but to honor us and live in a way that pleases God....

Let’s pray:
Heavenly Father, please give every parent the wisdom, patience, and strength to raise their children in Your way. Help us to stay focused and faithful. Let our homes be places where children learn to live for You. May they grow up to bless their generation. In Jesus’ name, Amen...

If this message encouraged you, share it with another parent.

Let’s raise a generation we can be proud of,and the ones God can use in a powerful ways.

Hope this is helpful...

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13/05/2025

LET THEM GO!

If some folks want to walk out of your life - let them go! Especially if you have done all that needed to be done to be the best man or woman to them and they still want to go...let them go!

Whatever they are running after allow them to follow after and by the time they meet their waterloo it would have been too late to come right back into your life.

Some people come into your life for a lifetime and some for a season, you just have to know which is which and you will surely mess up if you have to mix up folks with seasonal intentions with those of lifetime expectations.

We have some people who got married to people who they were suppose to be with for just a season and wonder why they have so much hell in their lives.

This is someone that is suppose to come into your life and teach you somethings just for a season but, you didn't know and you just fell in love, got married and now you wander why you have no peace everywhere you go.

Here this: put everybody that come into your life into categories:
1. Some are like the LEAVES ON A TREE, extremely unstable in all ways and when season changes they wither, dead and gone out of your life.

Most people in the the world are just like them. They are there to take from the tree and nothing good to give in return.

You need not get mad at them because that is who they are and they never going to change.

2. The second category are the BRANCH OF A TREE though they look strong yet you need to be careful with them because the moment you step on them they will break off and leave you to stand in the cold out there on your own.

3. If you find two or three people in your life that are like ROOT UNDER A TREE you are blessed. They are the kind of people who are going no where.

They are not worried about being seen nor worried about anyone knowing what help they are in your life, but will always be there for you.

Though letting go of some people won't be that easy but will BE the moment you learn how to love yourself.

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