30/06/2025
Once a mistake is made twice, it becomes stewpidity. Honestly some single mothers need to do better.
You gave birth for someone as a teenager. The guy abandoned you and the baby. Your poor widowed mother was taking care of you and your baby.
Along the line, another young guy came into your life. He Made his intentions known to you and your mother that if it’s Gods willing, that he would like to marry you .
The mother being a prophetess saw that the guy truly have good intentions for her daughter and gave her full support. The guy later rented another house for the girls mother because he said the area she is living with the girl and her grandson is too rough.
The girls mothers thanked the guy and spoke to her daughter to be good to the guy.
The guy took you to his parents and introduced you to them officially. Later the guy rented a house and told you to be living there while he visits often because of his work pending when everything will normalize.
The guy gave you 250k to get curtains, food stuffs and other petty petty things needed at home for your own comfort for the time being.
If the guy visits and said why haven’t you bought this and that? I gave you the money the last time na. She will say she used the money to get this and that for her child.
Meanwhile, anytime the guy visits and leaves, she will go and visit her baby daddy and that one will fawk her to his fill.
This was going on until she took in for her baby daddy. The new guy ended things with her. He told her to go and meet her baby daddy since she still want him. When rent expires and she couldn’t pay, she moved in with her mother.
Her mother later passed and then she terminated the pregnancy because her baby daddy no get house or anything. Na just to fawk and beat her that one dey do.
Now her baby daddy don abandoned her too. Now she is dating one Okada guy in her area. This same Okada guy was the one that the guy that rented a house for her was paying him weekly to be taking her to her nursing school.
Na that one she dey follow now. Now na like Olosho she be. She dey date and fawk any guy available just for she to fend for herself and her child.
Some single mothers are like this. They will say they want their children to have one father so even while they are married and in another man house and that one is taking care of them and the child they gave birth to before he met them; they will still leave their husbands house and be going to their baby daddy and sleeping with them.
Some will even get pregnant and pin the child on their husband. They will be using the man’s money to raise the children they and their youseless baby daddy are giving birth to.
Even normal relationships self, single mothers most times still go back to their baby daddy and be sleeping with them while there is a new man in their life now that is trying for them.
Out of 100 single mothers, it is only few that are not still cheating on their current boyfriend or husband with their baby daddy and then when you see most single guys saying they will never marry a single mothers, they will start barking as if they are the ones that made you a single mother.
Being a single mother now adays is not 100% a mistake. Girls now adays dey open eyes go get belle for man wey you know say him no get house. You are a teenager and you are dating a teenager or you are 20 year old and you are dating a 23 year old guy that is still living with his parents.
Because that one dey do small small yahoo and dey buy you shawarma or him manage buy you iPhone, you go get belle for am and your mother will indulge you. She will accept you and the pregnancy. You go born for her house and she go dey feed you and the pikin.
When God want come give you another chance, He will now bring another guy your way and instead of you to put your past mistake behind you and look at the future with this new guy, you go still go dey fawk your baby daddy.
The new guy will be spending on you and within few months of him in your life, you have regain your confidence and beauty and then once your baby daddy sees this, he will start messaging you and since you are a goat without sense, you will start fawking him too and then when the new guy finds out and dump your sorry ass, you will start crying fowl and blaming your village people for your stewpidity.
Being a single mother is not a death sentence. God always give people second chances to amend their ways and learn from their past mistake but most single mothers don’t learn from their past mistakes and that is why most guys will always say they can never marry a single mother.
Some single guys will prefer to marry a widow with 3 children than a young single mother that her baby daddy is still alive.
A guy that is not the one that deflowered you and he is not the first person you put your womb in use for looked past all that, married you in an honoring way and the least thing that you are supposed to give to him in return which is love and loyalty to him as your husband, you cannot.
You still dey go meet your baby daddy dey collect preeq. If your baby daddy was that good why him no marry you after him give you belle.
Why you no stay with am make him dey feed you with preeq and use preeq train the pikin wey you born for am since na preeq be your problem for this life.
Honestly I don’t blame guys that don’t like anything serious with single mothers. Some of them character stinks to high heaven.