Marriage and relationship world

06/09/2025

BEFRIEND YOUR SPOUSE
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‎The best way to enjoy marriage is to make your spouse your friend and lover. Many treat themselves like strangers because they lack the ability to befriend each other. There's no true love without a sense of friendship.
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‎Nurturing a strong friendship in marriage is crucial for a happy and lasting relationship. When you prioritize friendship, you create a deep emotional connection with your partner, built on mutual respect, trust, and open communication.
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‎To cultivate this friendship, make time to laugh together, whether it's watching a comedy show, reading a humorous book, or sharing funny moments from your day. Laughter helps ease tension and brings people closer. Trying to always prove that you are the man (head) will never lead to good marriage.
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‎Playing together is very essential. Engage in activities you both enjoy and promote intimacy, like playing games, sports, or cooking. This playfulness keeps the relationship fresh, spicy, and exciting. Taking regular walks or going on hikes together can be a great way to connect and talk while enjoying nature. It is very important to have a heart-to-heart discussion with your partner always. And can only be possible if you befriend each other, not being lording or bossy.
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‎Emotional intimacy is vital in a marital friendship. Communicate openly with each other, sharing your thoughts, dreams, and feelings. Practice active listening and show genuine interest in your partner's life builds strong connection. Be each other's biggest support system, celebrating successes and offering comfort during difficult times. Express gratitude and admiration for each other, and make everyday moments special by turning daily routines into opportunities for connection.
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‎Engaging in shared interests can also help strengthen your bond. Explore new hobbies or activities together, creating shared memories and experiences makes the beauty of relationship attractive. Trust is the foundation of any successful relationship. Foster trust by being honest and loyal, sharing your feelings and thoughts openly, and maintaining confidentiality when needed.
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‎By prioritizing friendship in your marriage, you can build a strong and lasting relationship. Make time for each other, communicate openly, and show appreciation for one another. With effort and dedication, you can nurture a deep and meaningful connection that will bring joy and fulfillment to your life together. Marriage is not a battle ground, it is a platform for mutual and emotional connection to raise a better generation.
Married At First Sight Relationships and Dating Marriage and relationship world
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06/09/2025

THE POWER OF I AM SORRY....
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‎"I am sorry" a short sentence, but powerful word.
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‎Proverbs 15:1
‎GNT: A gentle answer quiets anger, but a harsh one stirs it up.
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‎MSG: A gentle response defuses anger, but a sharp tongue kindles a temper-fire.
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‎Proverbs 25:15
‎NLT: Patience can persuade a prince, and soft speech can crush strong opposition.
‎MSG: Patient persistence pierces through indifference;
‎gentle speech breaks down rigid defenses.
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‎If you wish to live long, and be successful in your marriage and in your relationship with others, don't joke with this short powerful word, "I am sorry."
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‎ Do you know how many people, marriages that had gone to early grave, become miserable because they neglected the therapeutic power of -I am sorry?
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‎The scriptures quoted above profoundly expressed the powerful spirit soft answers/responses (I am sorry) carries to defuse and quench 🧯 the flames of anger and defeat the devil 👿 in an angry 😡 person.
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‎The word "sorry" can stop a war, prevent relationships and marriages going broken, prevent children from suffering and experiencing a broken 💔 and divided home.l
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‎To say sorry when you are wrong is not weakness, it depict maturity, acknowledgement of fault, and a sign of remorse. But saying sorry even when you are not wrong, shows a heart ❤️ of love and peace, and a sign of braveheart because only the weak proves a point to show that they're strong.
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‎Most of the troubles in most homes are heightened because wives are too big to say "I am sorry" to their husbands and you can trust the ego of husbands in saying same to their wives. Defending to prove a point on irrelevant things especially in marriage, is a show of immaturity.
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‎Quarrel lingers between friends because no party wants to say, I am sorry." The word sorry does not take anything from you, rather, it adds up to your sense and show of maturity. It is pride and I submissiveness that make one say, "why should I be the first to apologize or say I am sorry." Some words and actions like; beating your chest and utter the ego phrase, "a whole me!" to your partner shows how irresponsible and arrogant you are. Every responsible person defend their partner not fight them.
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‎If the word "I am sorry" is so hard for you to say, then be ready never to enjoy the joy and happiness marriage gives. No marriage succeed without conscious effort and true commitment to it. You don't wish it, you practically exercise the winning attitude to have it work.
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‎Seeing someone who call for peace, accept their faults, and tenders apologies whether they're wrong or not in the midst of a rift as a weaker person; one who is not man enough, one who is foolish is a low mental ideology.
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‎Anyone who call for peace is actually the strong and bravest person. They're firefighter 🔥. They don't fight you for what you did, they fight what caused the attitude by forgiving, apologizing to calm the atmosphere.
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‎Do not allow the Africa nature where saying I am sorry is tougher than forcing a donkey to pass through a needle hole. I pity people who highly upholds traditions to rule their homes. Nobody rules his home actually enjoys marriage. 90% of traditional laws is in favour of men. Conversely, it enslaves women to live in marital bo***ge. A marriage where rights and choices are not freely expressed by one gender is not a good marriage.
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‎Almost everyone is a victim of this discussion. Some people have lost valuable assets, money and even lives because of this cheap and affordable word, "I am sorry." It simply cost only a breath of speech then things fall back to normal and even better, but pride will never allow some to let it out.
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‎Have you ever wondered why domestic violence is less pronounced in the western world? It is simply because they understand the efficacy of "I am sorry." it potency of softening the heart of the grieved.
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‎Husbands say it to their wives and even children whenever they err, wives and children do the same and life goes on fine. But in Africa, it's like birthright.
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‎Friends, this is simply a piece to encourage us to cultivate a habit of saying "I am sorry" to make our relationship /marriage better and beautiful to look upon. It is very affordable, not difficult as you think or see it. It just need selflessness and humility to do.
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‎Learn how to say "I AM SORRY" most importantly when you are wrong. And even if you are right, just be selfless to say it to destroy the strength of bitterness. IT CAN HEAL A WHOLE LOT OF INTERNAL INJURY 🤕 AND SOOTHE A LOT OF WAR AHEAD.
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‎ "sorry and thank you" are short sentences but powerful words that avert judgement, kill resentment, motivate and cheer the heart.
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‎If this message offends you in any ways, I am sorry.
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‎BE HUMBLE AND ALWAYS SAY “I AM SORRY”👌🏾
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03/09/2025

Don’t keep reminding your partner at every slightest opportunity what he or she did in the past. Love is not a museum of past mistakes but a garden of fresh beginnings - water it daily with forgiveness, patience, and gentle word. And then wait to see its magic power manifest in your relationship.

03/09/2025

In marriage, you reap an abundant harvest of love and connection when you sow seeds of kindness and care. Just like a garden, your relationship blossoms when nurtured with patience, respect, and quality time.

Every word and action has the power to cultivate a deeper sense of trust, joy, and intimacy. By making conscious choices and adopting daily habits like gratitude and affection, you can create a robust and resilient bond.

Remember, a loving relationship is a reflection of the effort and care you invest in it. With dedication and commitment, you can reap a harvest of love that continues to grow and flourish over time.

What you invest in relationship/marriage is actually what you get back in the process of time through patience.
Relationships and Dating Married At First Sight

23/08/2025

SOME KEY THINGS YOU SHOULD PAY ATTENTION TO BEFORE COMMITTING YOURSELF TO SOMEONE FOR MARRIAGE

1. HOW THEY HANDLE CORRECTION.

Marriage will require a lot of learning, unlearning and relearning. If the person is not teachable, marriage will be a challenge. Having a partner who does not accept correction will be difficult to live with and progress in the marriage.

2. HOW THEY ACT WHEN THEY DON'T GET WHAT THEY WANT.

If someone cannot handle disappointments, or they always want things to go their way, that will be a difficult spouse.

3. HOW THEY ACT AROUND THE OPPOSITE GENDER.

They are in a relationship but act & behave like they are single & open. Someone who gets overly excited around the opposite gender sometimes to the point of forgetting you even exist or wants to entertain and please others, will bring you unnecessary trouble.

4. HOW THEY ACT WHEN ANGRY.

Anger is a normal human emotion, but how you control it or how it controls you will determine if you're ready for marriage or you need serious help. Does the person become insulting, violent, threatening and rude when angry; or do they control their temper? Marriage will bring some reasons to be angry here and there; can they handle it?

5. HOW THEY ACT WHEN THE CONVERSATION IS ABOUT S*X.

If they get uncomfortable when the conversation is about s*x or they get overly lustful; your marriage will have trouble. Marriage should be with someone open about s*x conversations and also someone who sees it as something special in marriage.

6. HOW THEY ACT WHEN THE CONVERSATION IS NOT ABOUT S*X.

Does the person tune off or show no interest when you talk about other topics? That person is only interested in s*x, not a long term bond with you. Be careful!

7. HOW THEY ACT WHEN YOU CAN'T GIVE TIME.

If there are moments you can't answer the persons phone call because you're in a meeting, function or can't reply immediately to their messages but you get back to them when you're done, does the person understand; or become controlling and insecure, wanting to micromanage your time?

You are not safe with such person. A reasonable person should understand there are other parts and roles in your life that need your attention.

8. HOW THEY ACT WHEN YOU TALK ABOUT GOD.

If the person avoids discussions about God, they will not raise with you the Godly family you are praying for. No marriage can enjoy the blessings that comes with marriage if they take away the one who instituted marriage out of the equation.

9. HOW THEY ACT WHEN YOU GO THROUGH A TOUGH MOMENT.

When you are having a bad day, when you are in trouble, does the person console you, comfort and encourage you; or do they avoid your tough moments? Are they emotionally unavailable and belittle your feelings. A good spouse /partner cares.

10. HOW THEY ACT AROUND PEOPLE WITH MORE MONEY THAN YOU HAVE.

There are partners who only wants to be with you when it is rosy & all sunshine. When the going gets tough, they run away and look for a new spark. If the person treats people based on their financial status, be careful. You could be about to get married to an opportunist. A good partner stays, contribute, and build with you.

Be careful not to become a victim of what you fear.

21/08/2025

THE BITTER BUT POTENT MEDICINE 💊 💉.

The true gospel of Christ is not sweet to the ears. It's heavy on the heart, but it's what liberate the soul.

That is why it inch the ears of many, and sounds bitter on the heart of those who can't bear it and gets them offended.

It does not come to please anybody, but to teach and reveal to humanity the reality of life and the kingdom of God.

Don't blame some people who are void of revelation of the gospel to talk shallow and speak ill of the body of Christ.

The gospel is too strong for children to understand. Only be careful of the empty minds who talked about the gospel as though they know and understand it.

The reality of the gospel of Christ is not in eloquence, not in grammars, not in constructed sentences, but in revelation and manifestation of its fruits.

God bless the true believers.

21/08/2025

Word for the day: always learn to carry a winning attitude irrespective of the circumstances of things!

19/08/2025

Some scriptures and verses looks like a lie until you've been given the revelation, and have faith to transform the word to become flesh and manifest.

The word of God is sweet. All you truly need is the spirit of revelation, understanding and faith to have it come alive and manifest.

"The word I speak unto you, they're spirit, and they're life." John 6:63.

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