16/11/2025
I never knew what it truly meant to be fulfilled as a man until I got married. Marriage didn’t just change my life…it completed something deep inside me.
For years, I was afraid of women. Afraid of choosing wrong. Afraid of walking into something that would destroy my destiny and my salvation. The moment you mentioned marriage around me, I rejected it instantly like someone trying to push me into danger.
But deep in my heart, I prayed a bold prayer to God:
“Lord, if I marry wrongly, it will affect my soul. Don’t let me choose by myself. Lead me to Your perfect will.”
During our youth night vigils, everyone already knew my usual prayer point. Anytime I handled the pulpit to lead prayers, I would cry out:
“Oh Lord, any agent assigned to destroy my life or my salvation in the name of a wife, Holy Ghost fire!”
And truly…God heard me.
I almost made a terrible mistake not once, but twice. I even went to the marriage committee two times. The second sister and I had already done medical tests. The next step was an introduction. Everything looked like it was moving forward…but God stepped into the matter.
She invited me to come visit her at her place. Immediately, my spirit was troubled. I knew that if I went, something would happen…something that would pull me into sin and confusion. I had even bought new clothes and new shoes—I didn’t have control of myself anymore. Emotions were louder than sense. But I kept praying.
Then God intervened.
A misunderstanding rose between us, and just like that, everything ended. At that time, I didn’t understand. But today, I know it was God rescuing me from a lifetime mistake.
If you trust God completely, He will lead you to the person He prepared for you from the beginning. Don’t rush. Don’t force anything. Don’t walk into a marriage that will break you.
Pray. Search. Wait. God will guide your steps.
One day, we will share our full testimony in a video for the world to see.
Thank you for reading. God bless you.
AmaxeJane love you deeply… but Jesus loves you even more.
