23/09/2025
Good morning. Please post and hide my id. From my inbox
I started chatting with a very sweet and lovely guy here on facebook as at last year. Things were going very lovely and we even exchanged our whatsapp numbers. We were always showering each other lots of love and attention, it was a dream come true. We have been dating online for 6 months now but we haven't seen each other face to face yet.
Though we have been making plans for to see each other soon. He said he just needed to get enough money before he finally travels to come and see me. But i began to notice he usually posts things that hints at ladies who feel men should provide for them or give them money are useless (all these type of posts) and each time i ask him why he posts stuffs like that, he would say it's just a joke or a post and he doesn't really mean it. He also post some sexual stuffs (like couples being romantic and caption it as "this could be you and i but i don't have this or that".
You know, making it look a bit funny) and when i asked him why he would post something like that on his status instead of at least sending it to me or being specific with the caption about doing such with who he is in a relationship with, he said it's just a post and that he is sorry for it. Now, i have noticed he doesn't text me as much as before. I would reply his text quickly only for him to leave my text hanging for a whole day or sometimes for 9 hours meanwhile he is posting on facebook.
At first he said he was busy with work (fashion designing) from monday to friday but even on weekends, he still does the same thing. I don't keep his text hanging for so long even when i delay to reply his text for 10 or 20 minutes maybe because i went to cook, he will get a little upset and start thinking that i'm talking to another guy. I'm just so tired and confused right now. please advice me.