27/07/2025
From my inbox Amara Fortune
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I need advise from my elders here. So i have been married for just 4years with 1child. Before i got married/ after i got married things where perfect until last year when my husband stopped working based on the reason that i was earning more than him and he needed something that wil give him more than what i earn, since then i started doing everything involves money, its been 1year since he stopped working
so 3months ago my husband left his phone on the table and went to get the groceries i bought from my car, the phone rang 3times and i avoided it and answered it a 4th time only to hear a lady saying so you don't want to send child support! People of God i had to freez that very moment when the woman continued shoulding saying she could not take care of the child alone when they enjoyed together, just then my husband entered and i had put the phone on loud, my husband dropped the boxes, knelt down and cried bi-tterly saying it was just 1 stand and she came telling him she was pregnant and the child is 1year now, what's more p-ainful is that my husband has been supporting this woman with my own money from the time she was pregnant upto 2months ago when he thought it was unh-uman of him to treat me with this hu-rt, so he has not sent a dime to her that was why she called shouting.
I need advise on what to do because I feel leaving will cause my young daughter p-ain as she is more close to her dad than me, such that she prefers dad taking her to school and pick ups, eats his food than mine including getting ready for school. As it is now i packed out of his room and now sleeping in another room, he comes to my doorstep every night after putting our daughter to bed and cry his eyes out saying he is sorry, yesterday i cried my heart out when my daughter woke up and found him lying on the floor crying and she started shouting at me crying saying am wicked and i make her dad cry every night. Please what do i do, i established him an online business which he does from home and also helps with house chores, we do not have a maid but he does everything before i get back from work including our baby's uniform, i love him alot and thus why even after stopping work not for once did i disrespect him. Notify me when you post