07/09/2025
How to Enter into Your Queen Era
First, measure your words. Learn to hold back. Suppressing the urge to overshare is a skill you have to master. Most women speak endlessly and reveal everything on their minds.
Everyone can read them like a book, and no one respects them. As for you, tame your tongue.
Tap into the power of silence. The less you say, the more serious you appear. People think you have more to say even if you don't.
When you're in a group of women and people drift into sharing personal stuff, listen attentively and even indulge them in their stories. But when it comes to you, reveal nothing. Be vague. Circle the attention back to them.
Only after the encounter will they realise that they don't know anything about you. They'll get curious and slightly confused about who you are.
That is the power of mystery.
'He who guards his mouth preserves his life, but he who opens wide his lips shall have destruction.' (Proverbs 13:3)
Secondly, discipline is divine. When you're known to move with intention rather than impulse, your entry causes a stir.
It makes you radiate with poise and power.
To acquire self-discipline, invest in your growth ruthlessly. Read, write, and memorise things as if your future depends on it because it does.
Sharpen your mind like a weapon. The world has no response for a woman who is both physically and mentally far-seeing.
When you seem to know where you're going, people will orbit you. Many people have no direction in life and follow others who seem to have it.
Direction and discipline suggest destiny. And there's nothing more seductive than destiny. You appear to have a star or bright future. Everyone wants to associate with someone who has a star, who seems destined to prosper.
In the same breath, the third step is to set unshakable standards.
Other women set low standards because they don't want to offend or be rejected.
It makes sense for them. They have very little to lose. They only have their natural body to present. That's why when a man says he has to test-drive her, she goes along with it because her entire identity is wrapped in her body.
Not you.
You are a walking embodiment of divine energy.
The amount of learning you've undergone—the years of mentorship, the mental transformation, your spiritual journey, the depth of your soul, and the intensity of your love—all testify to the truth that you're more than a physical being.
Those looking for just a piece of meat they can sample by tasting should keep walking.
You're a divine being, a kingmaker, a builder of empires.
Other women fear having class so that they won't be seen as judgmental. But you, class is your second nature.
You need a man who has a certain degree of decorum before you can engage. If a man has no taste in the higher matters of life, like financial conquest and building an intergenerational empire, he's not on your level.
You don't even argue or try to show him the sense. The moment he tries getting you to sleep with him, that's the last time he'll ever stand in front of you.
Queens do not tolerate s*x pests. They have more serious business to transact.
Walking away is a statement of class. You know you deserve better, and you don't mind waiting till you find it.
You're a queen, and your worth is not negotiable. You will know when you meet a king.
Kings negotiate for a treaty. Small boys look for treats.
Kings are trying to forge an empire. Boys are trying to snack.
Should the queen disembark her royal carriage to dish snacks to some stray boys posing as suitors? God forbid!
Fourth, own your money, own your freedom.
If life is a war, bills are bullets, and money is your shield. Your bank account is your arsenal. Your skills are your arrows.
Other women outsource their security to a man by looking for a rich man who can provide everything.
No sensible kingdom can outsource its security. The queen secures her treasury as a matter of survival in this war-torn world, financially speaking.
Even when she marries her king, she's involved in ensuring that the treasury increases, not depletes.
All virtuous women are money makers. The problem with many is that they don't understand life and how money is a shield. They allow just anyone in their castles because of emotional decisions, and they get plundered.
As for you, you know the price you paid to build your financial tower. You also know how many men have no financial plan except conquering an unsuspecting lady and taking over her fortress.
You understand that money is energy, and when people appeal to your emotions or love, they often just want to access your money.
Money guarantees your safety in that no relationship or system can cage you. Money gives you the power to say no to things that insult your soul.
Lastly, become soft and mysterious. Many women think that by becoming tough, they'll protect themselves. But toughness is too obvious.
It draws no attention and elicits no curiosity. You're just like men. No polarity, no magnetism, no power. You're easy to overlook.
Instead, become girly, attractive, and slightly confusing.
Outwardly, you're charming, warm, and excitable. Your eyes spark, and your face lights up when you laugh.
Your voice is soft and soothing.
But when a man gets to know you deeper, they realise that you also possess high standards and you have a grand vision for a glorious tomorrow. You don't just want marriage. You want a fusion of visions.
Neither are you interested in lukewarm love and low-energy connections driven by a scarcity mindset. For you, love should be a daring adventure or nothing.
In short, many women have surrendered to being devalued by this world. They're s*xually objectified and turned into beasts of burden.
The only counter is to become a queen. It's to elevate into royalty where you're treated with honour without asking twice.
It's first a mental switch and then a lifestyle transformation. Once you do it, the world has no option but to adjust.
(©️ Benjamin Zulu Global)
