23/08/2024
FRIDAY NUGGETS!!!
While I beg to differ, still standing to be corrected Good relationships can be found....
Good things don't come easy but opportunities and fate might just swing them your way. They could come as a result of mutual friends, interest, common experience etc. Now this is where the work starts...
You have a good thing going, do you maintain it or abuse it...
It's one thing to know and discern (this is good, useful, great, beneficial) and then be able to (nuture, maintain and sustain it), the white man said; When the purpose of a thing is not defined or not known, abuse is inevitable.
Stay with me
Once your able to discern, Hmmm
,This is a good man/woman
and I believe we are compatible...Once this is established, maintaining and strengthening it is the next phase and this requires EFFORT (emphasis on effort). You have to just be Intentional and this varies in lots of ways;
1. Effective communication
2. Resolving Conflicts
3. Showing appreciation
4. Supporting each other
5. Showing loyalty and allegiance
6. Healthy compromise too
And so many other ways that are peculiar to personalities
In essence what I'm trying to say is... You can be Lucky or Blessed to Be in a Relationship with a Good Person just like you..It's enduring quality is dependent on the ongoing actions and intentional works put in by both parties
N.B: It's not even healthy to read this and try to do the work on your own, it's a joint effort while this write up resonates with you, a healthy and intentional step is to show your partner, explain to them, reason with them on how possibly both of you can be intentional and make your relationship work so it stands the test of time
The Good Book says "Can two work except they agree???"
You know the answer
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