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This  poor spider tumbled into a glass cup by accident and could not escape.In an attempt to escape its predicament, or ...
18/05/2025

This poor spider tumbled into a glass cup by accident and could not escape.

In an attempt to escape its predicament, or should I say “solve the problem, “ the spider decided to use its resources.

But no matter how hard he tried to weave and spin his web to escape from the cup... the more difficult it became... the more draining it became. Till it died.

This post went viral on Reddit … I think last week … I took this screenshot …. Kept looking at it and got sunk into despair for a bit.

You may ask why?

The below write-ups might be lengthy, so I advise you stop reading here if you have a TikTok attention span

I don’t write this to preach a red pill
I am not writing this to push any agenda
I am not writing this for any reason whatsoever

Rather, I write to let a hook off my throat.
A hook that has been discomforting me for the last two years

I had a friend …a very real friend who died two years January. This was a year after he married

I didn’t go to his burial, I didn’t get to wish his wife or little daughter condolences.

Chiboy was my mannest man. I’ll cut this story short

But before he got married .. I would go to his place to play a game chill and eat . We would talk about stuffs ,women .. future goals .. business plans and some next level s**t

He was very f@t and hated working out, but I pushed him into joining me, irrespective of our busy schedule

Chiboy wasn’t my peer. He was above me on every level

He would connect me, put me-on in illegal fights, and then to make money on the side

He hooked me up to celebrities that had shows and concerts ..

I meet with NeYo
I met with Davido
I worked with Evra, Steve Harvey, Ryan Reynolds, some basket ballers legends, I do not even know their names
I got a free pass to big concert, tickets to events and back stages ..all this was possible cos of chiboy

But one thing I loved about him the most was that he treated me like his peer and with utmost respect ( and took my advice very seriously )

He was often in my very first Facebook account, cheering me up whenever I dropped a red pill gospel.

Chiboy introduced me to his girlfriend, whom he wanted to marry, and asked for my opinion

Damn … the girl wasn’t good ( she broke every law of things I preached about vvomen )

I for one knew that my guy was madly in love.. and that whatever advice I give him
… he would tell the girl tomorrow about it. And Dey would most likely use me and settle. So I ignored him

One day, I was at his place as usual. We were jesting and gaming .. the babe was there … and he asked me the same questions again

“Famous .. na you go be my best man o …. Hope say this our wife make sense “

Winking at his babe

On my own I was like

Damn .. how did I get dragged into this … I giggled and told him …

“Chiboy … you dey follow me for Facebook na .. you dey see my teachings … if you are confused about anything … refer back to my teachings “

We laughed it off ..

That evening, I got a notification that my friend, Babe, followed me on Facebook (that’s chiboy’s girlfriend)

The next week, Chiboy and Babe started to give me attitude if I visit

The upper week … Chiboy won’t even join my game if I invite him to play from my own home

…. Our friendship dwindled to the point where Chiboy reminded me of the age gap between us

I tried to hold onto our friendship … but he started skipping working out with me ( even tho I was his trainer )

It clicked on me … “I don’t see his comments no more on my post “

I checked
He unfollowed and unfriended me on Facebook.

Some months later

Eminem came for a show in Abu Dhabi …. I didn’t ask him for a ticket… I never did for other ones, but he clearly knows that I am Eminem's biggest fan.

But I didn’t get any invite or ticket, or backstage invitation.

And his babe would proceed post on her WhatsApp status about having the Eminem ticket and not having anyone who they know that liked to see it go to a rapper Eminem show

Damn! ( how would Chiboy forget I love Eminem )

Well .. over time

Replies started becoming slow on WhatsApp ( we weren’t vibing like befor )…
He wouldn’t return my call.

I traveled twice for exhibition and told him .. he never followed up

Went on vacation and asked if he needed anything (Nigerian food stuffs ), he never responded

Came back .. brought yam for him.. gave his babe, who has now abandoned her job to live with chiboy permanently, like a housewife

But the girl stood at the door and said I should bring it back for him personally when he returned

Imagine me … yeah your guy is that big . But I am not small .. and you know it .. but you disrespect me like that

Okay

At that moment, I knew I had tried. I had to let go of that friendship

He finally got married to this lady, and I wasn’t told
I wasn’t invited

The lady got pregnant and had a baby .. I was not invited to the naming .. I wasn’t told

A few months later … I do not know what happened … he went into a big financial mess that involved the police.

He ran out of town with tons of debt … he was living and using the resources he had to stay afloat in owerri .

but it wasn’t getting any easier cos nigeria was making it worser

His family started to fall apart … he tried so much to get himself out of the problem, but he was running out of resources

And he was doing it alone …
I kept an open door, hoping he would come knocking … but nothing

In an attempt to see if he would reach out, I remember chatting with him and asking

“Guy, what’s up with you .. what’s going on .. Hope you're good “

Yet I was blanked again.

Later, I heard he died. … CHIBOY was walking up the stairs and slumped. On getting to the hospital, he was pronounced dead as a result of a heart attack

I couldn’t get myself to cry
I couldn’t get myself to tell the wife, “My condolences. “
I didn’t make the funeral
I couldn’t even upload his photo to say “Rip bro. “

While I looked at this screenshot I uploaded… all I could ponder was …this spider being in that cup is not its fault …. Despite its effort alone to come out .. if only the spider had a little help

If only the cup were shorter.
If only he didn’t fall into that cup
If only its webs were plentiful enough to get him out

Maybe .. just maybe it would be alive out there today

I squash bugs daily ..

But this spider in a cup reminded me so much of my late friend.

REST IN PEACE 🪦 CHI BOY.

ECHOES OF OUR LIVES 🌟 EPISODE 23The estate was in chaos. News of Musa’s disappearance spread like wildfire, and the sigh...
21/02/2025

ECHOES OF OUR LIVES 🌟

EPISODE 23

The estate was in chaos. News of Musa’s disappearance spread like wildfire, and the sight of his bloodied uniform near the gate only heightened the fear. Residents whispered in hushed tones, locking their doors tighter, while others debated whether it was time to leave the estate altogether.

But for Hassan and Bayo, leaving was not an option.

Hassan wasted no time. He gathered his security team and a few trusted residents, including Bayo and Malik, Aisha’s older brother, to begin the search.

"We no fit just sidon dey look," Hassan said, his voice steely. "Musa fit still dey alive, and we must find am before e too late."

They split into groups. Hassan and two guards went toward the estate’s outskirts, where a small, abandoned building stood—one of the few places criminals could hide someone without attracting attention.

Bayo, Malik, and another security man, Adebayo, searched near the uncompleted houses on the far end of the estate.

"Make we dey careful," Bayo warned as they walked. "Dem fit leave Musa for somewhere as bait to draw us out."

Malik nodded, gripping the small dagger he had tucked in his belt. "We go dey sharp."

The search continued, but Musa was nowhere to be found.

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A Message from the Gang

While the search was on, a new problem arose at the estate gate. Yetunde was sitting outside with some women when a young boy possibly the same one who had delivered the first message approached.

"Aunty, dem say make I give una dis," the boy said, handing Yetunde a small envelope before quickly running off.

Yetunde’s hands trembled as she opened the envelope. Inside was a small, blood-stained piece of Musa’s uniform and a chilling note:

"Leave this matter or your people go disappear one by one."

The women gasped as Yetunde covered her mouth, her stomach twisting in horror.

She ran inside to call Bayo.

Hassan’s Discovery

Hassan and his group had been searching for over an hour when one of his guards, Solomon, pointed at something in the dirt.

"Oga, see blood for ground."

Hassan’s pulse quickened. The blood formed a faint trail leading into the abandoned building. He gestured for his men to move carefully as they approached.

They stepped inside, the air thick with dust and the faint metallic scent of blood.

And then, in the corner of the room, they saw him.

Musa.

He was tied to a chair, his face swollen, cuts on his arms and face. His breathing was shallow, but he was alive.

"Chineke! Musa, you dey hear me?" Hassan rushed to him, checking his pulse. It was weak but steady.

"Dem… dem say make una stop," Musa muttered, barely able to open his eyes.

"Dem no go fit silence us," Hassan said, quickly cutting the ropes. "We go carry you go hospital now."

As they carried Musa out, Hassan’s mind raced. The gang had taken things too far. It was time to fight back.

Bayo and Hassan’s Plan

Later that night, Bayo and Hassan sat together in Bayo’s living room, their expressions dark. Yetunde sat nearby, silent but listening intently.

"We no fit wait make dem take another person," Bayo said, his fists clenched. "This estate na our home. If we run, dem go take over."

Hassan nodded. "We need to involve police."

Bayo exhaled deeply. "You sure say dem no go leak the matter back to the gang?"

Hassan’s eyes narrowed. "We no go involve just any police. I get one contact one officer wey no dey take nonsense. If we give am solid evidence, e go help us. But we go still need plan our own defense for estate."

Yetunde finally spoke. "We go tell the men for estate make dem join security efforts. Make everybody dey watchful. If we no stand together, dem go break us one by one."

Hassan agreed. "From tomorrow, we go start night patrol. No corner of this estate go dey dark again."

Bayo sighed. "And if dem still no back down?"

Hassan’s face hardened. "Then we take the fight to them before dem bring it to us again.

As they planned, they had no idea that a pair of eyes watched from the shadows.

A figure stood near the estate gate, partially hidden by the darkness. He had been sent to listen, to observe. And now he had heard enough.

Slowly, he pulled out his phone and typed a message.

"Dem dey plan fight back. Make boss know say e go start soon."

Then, without making a sound, he disappeared into the night.

The war had begun

ECHOES OF OUR LIVES 🌟 EPISODE 22Bayo hesitated before opening the door. Something about the boy’s nervousness felt off. ...
19/02/2025

ECHOES OF OUR LIVES 🌟

EPISODE 22

Bayo hesitated before opening the door. Something about the boy’s nervousness felt off. Yetunde stood behind him, a wooden spoon still in her hand, her expression tense.

"Who you dey find?" Bayo asked, his voice firm.

The boy glanced around as if checking for something or someone before stepping closer. His voice was low, almost shaky. "Dem say make I give you this."

He pulled a folded piece of paper from his pocket and held it out. Bayo didn’t take it immediately. Instead, he studied the boy’s face. His eyes were sunken, his lips dry, like someone who hadn’t eaten in a while.

"Who send you?" Bayo asked.

The boy swallowed hard. "I no fit talk. Just take am."

Something in the boy’s demeanor told Bayo he was scared. Maybe even trapped. Slowly, Bayo took the note and unfolded it. The message was written in hurried, untidy handwriting:

"Tell your wife and daughter to mind their business. This is our last warning."

Bayo’s grip on the paper tightened. A cold wave of anger rushed through him. He looked up, but the boy had already turned and was walking briskly toward the gate.

"Come back here!" Bayo called, stepping forward, but the boy didn’t stop. In fact, he broke into a run.

Yetunde grabbed Bayo’s arm. "No chase am! This one na warning. If you go after am, we no go know wetin dem fit do next."

Bayo’s jaw clenched. He had expected retaliation, but the fact that they had mentioned Yetunde and Simi made his blood boil.

Simi was in her room, reading, when Yetunde and Bayo walked in. She knew immediately that something was wrong.

"Papa, wetin happen?" she asked, sitting up.

Bayo handed her the note. As she read, her stomach twisted.

"They know me?" Her voice was barely above a whisper.

"Maybe na because of Adamu," Yetunde said. "Or maybe because of that day wey you see dem near the park."

Simi felt a shiver run down her spine. The thought that people dangerous people were watching her made her feel exposed.

Yetunde sat beside her and took her hands. "You no go waka alone again. If you need go anywhere, me or your papa go follow you. We no go take this threat lightly."

Simi nodded slowly, but the fear had already settled in.

Across the estate, Adamu was also struggling with his conscience. When he heard about the threat against Simi, guilt hit him hard. He sat on his bed, head in his hands.

"This no suppose reach Simi and her family," he murmured.

Mama Adamu placed a hand on his shoulder. "Na because you dey try do the right thing dem dey fight back. But if you stop now, dem go win."

Adamu sighed. "Mama, I swear, I no even know how I take reach this point. I just wan do better."

"Then do better," Mama Adamu said firmly. "Stay strong. Help Hassan. Help Bayo. If you run now, dem go keep coming after you."

Adamu nodded, determination hardening in his eyes. It was time to finish what he had started.

The next morning, Hassan was making his usual patrol around the estate when he noticed something strange. One of the security guards, Musa, was missing.

Musa was the most punctual of the team. He was always at his post by 6 AM. But today, his chair was empty, his radio left on the table.

"Anybody don see Musa this morning?" Hassan asked the other guards.

They shook their heads. "We sef dey wonder where e enter," one of them said.

A sinking feeling settled in Hassan’s stomach. He took out his phone and dialed Musa’s number. It rang, but no one answered.

That was when Hassan noticed something near the estate gate, a piece of cloth, dark red, almost brown, peeking from behind a bush. He walked closer, heart pounding.

As he reached down to pick it up, his breath caught. It was Musa’s uniform shirt stained with blood.

Hassan clenched his fists. This was no longer just a threat. It was war.

To be continued…

ECHOES OF OUR LIVES 🌟 EPISODE 21The estate was no longer the peaceful haven it once was. There was a new, unspoken tensi...
18/02/2025

ECHOES OF OUR LIVES 🌟

EPISODE 21

The estate was no longer the peaceful haven it once was. There was a new, unspoken tension hanging in the air. Neighbors who used to leave their doors open now bolted them shut before nightfall. Children were called inside earlier than usual. Everyone could feel it the looming danger Hassan had warned them about.

Bayo, seated in his living room, drummed his fingers against the table, his mind racing. The warning Hassan had received last night confirmed what they feared: the gang wasn’t going to back down quietly.

The next morning, Hassan gathered his security team at the gate. The usually relaxed men now stood with a sense of urgency.

"This no be ordinary wahala," Hassan told them. "Dem don warn us, meaning dem go soon act. From now on, no unknown face go enter this estate without proper check. If you see anything wey no clear, report immediately. No assume say e no concern you."

The men nodded, adjusting their caps and standing taller. It wasn’t just about protecting the estate anymore it was about survival.

Meanwhile, Adamu couldn’t shake off the fear that gripped him. He had barely slept since agreeing to help Hassan and Bayo. The moment he turned against the gang, he became a target.

His mother noticed his silence that morning and sat beside him. "Adamu, you sure say you fit handle this?"

He swallowed hard. "Mama, I no fit let dem use me again. But I dey fear. Wetin if dem come for us?"

Mama Adamu took his hands in hers. "Na fear dem wan use hold you. But you no go fight alone. We go protect each other."

Her words gave him a little strength, but deep down, he knew the gang wasn’t going to let him go that easily.

That afternoon, Simi was at Aisha’s house when Aisha’s older brother, Malik, entered the room, his face serious.

"Simi, I hear say una dey fight some gang for estate," Malik said.

Simi sat up. "How you take know?"

"People dey talk. But no be that one I wan tell you. Be careful. Some boys dey ask questions about you for outside."

Simi’s eyes widened. "Which kind boys?"

"Dem no call their name. But dem mention you and that boy, Adamu. Just make sure you no waka alone."

Simi’s heart pounded. If the gang was looking for her, that meant they saw her as a threat.

That evening, Yetunde was preparing dinner when there was a loud knock at the door.

Bayo, who was sitting in the living room, stood up cautiously. "Who be that?"

Silence.

He moved closer and peered through the peephole. A young boy, probably no older than sixteen, stood outside, shifting nervously.

Bayo hesitated before opening

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