Everyday life Hack for young women

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26/06/2025

A happy home is not defined by the absence of disagreements, but rather by the willingness of individuals to drive through life's challenges together, find common ground, and make things work, which is a true blessings..

25/06/2025

🔥 5 THINGS MORE VALUABLE THAN A WOMAN’S BODY

Listen up, son.

If the major reason you want to marry a woman is because she’s packing heavy up front (aka Manchester United) and loaded at the back (aka Arsenal), you are not in love — you’re lost in lust.

And trust me, no matter what you think, if that’s all you see, you’re setting yourself up for a lifetime of silent suffering.

Let’s break it down:

1️⃣ PEACE OF MIND

Before you marry any woman, ask yourself:
Does she give you peace?
Some men sleep in the office or at a friend’s place because the woman they married turned their home into a war zone.

A big chest doesn’t guarantee big rest.
If you marry a troublesome woman, you won’t even feel attracted to her anymore. Those “assets” will turn to liabilities overnight.

2️⃣ SUPPORT

Life will test you, and what you’ll need isn’t her body — it’s her brain, her spirit, her strength, and her ability to stand by you.

Can she pray for you? Can she hustle with you? Can she offer counsel, help manage your home, back you up with ideas? ASS is not ASSET.
A woman’s real assets are not physical.

3️⃣ HOME KEEPER

A woman who can’t manage a home, can’t build an environment of peace and order, and turns your house into a mess while partying every weekend is a liability.

When you come home and see disorder, dirt, and disrespect — those curves you married will mean nothing.

4️⃣ COOPERATION

One of the most critical things a man should never joke with is a woman’s ability to cooperate.

How does she embrace your vision? Does she submit? Is she loyal? Is she teachable?

Some women hate the word submission. They’re naturally rebellious, stubborn, and self-governed.
Marry that, and in less than a year, you’ll regret your life.

It won’t matter how big her chest is or how thick her waist curves — you’ll be counting down your escape.

5️⃣ CARE / LOVE

A man doesn’t just need a lover — he needs a woman who can nurture him when life gets heavy.
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25/06/2025

AT 30, YOU’RE TOO YOUNG TO MARRY — HERE’S WHY

Forget what your aunt said at the wedding.
Forget the pressure from group chats.
Forget the “when will you marry?” chants from people who hate their own marriages.

Here’s the unfiltered truth:
Marriage isn’t about age.
It’s about emotional readiness, financial structure, and spiritual alignment.

And at 30?
Most men are still boys in better clothes.

Let’s break this down like men:

1️⃣ VISION BEFORE VOWS
You don’t marry because you’re tired of being single.
You marry because your mission needs reinforcement.
No vision, no vows.

2️⃣ CULTURE CELEBRATES AGE — MARRIAGE DEMANDS CAPACITY
Beards and tuxedos don’t make husbands.
Grit, discipline, provision, and leadership do.
And most men today fold over a blue tick left on read.

3️⃣ KNOW HER LIKE A VETTING OFFICER — NOT A VICTIM OF LUST
Beauty fades. Patterns don’t.
You’re marrying her beliefs, habits, and wounds — not her body.
Vet her spirit.

4️⃣ DON’T MARRY TO FIX — MARRY TO EXPAND
You are not her therapist.
You’re a builder of empires.
If she doesn’t amplify your mission, she’ll abort your peace.

5️⃣ NO VALUE? NO VOWS.
If she can’t multiply peace, protect assets, or think under pressure —
you’re onboarding a liability disguised as a wife.

6️⃣ STOP RUSHING — SUCCESS HAS NO EXPIRY DATE
You’re not in a queue.
You’re under construction.
Your legacy isn’t built on wedding hashtags — it’s built on structure and timing.

FINAL WORD:
AGE DOESN’T MAKE YOU READY — PREPARATION DOES.
Marriage is not an achievement. It’s an assignment.
And if you say “I do” without preparation, you also say “I surrender” to storms you aren’t built for.

Build first. Marry later.
When you show up — come with power, not pressure.

Happy 6th wedding anniversary to us! Six years ago, we made a promise to love and cherish each other, and I'm proud of t...
01/06/2025

Happy 6th wedding anniversary to us! Six years ago, we made a promise to love and cherish each other, and I'm proud of the journey we've shared so far. Through laughter and tears, we've grown stronger and more in love. I'm grateful for the adventures, memories, and quiet moments we've shared. Here's to many more years of love, growth, and happiness together! Cheers to us and our beautiful marriage! May our love continue to flourish and our bond grow stronger with each passing day. I'm excited for what's to come💓💓💓

Happy birthday to the most selfless, loving, and incredible mom in the world! Today marks a special day, a day to celebr...
01/06/2025

Happy birthday to the most selfless, loving, and incredible mom in the world! Today marks a special day, a day to celebrate the woman who has given me so much love, care, and support throughout the years. Mom, you're the sunshine that brightens up my day and the calm in every storm. Your guidance, wisdom, and unwavering support have shaped me into the person I am today.

I'm grateful for the late nights, early mornings, and countless sacrifices you've made for our family. Your love and dedication inspire me to be a better person. As you celebrate another year of life, I hope you know how much you're loved, appreciated, and cherished.

Here's to another year of love, laughter, and adventure! May your birthday be filled with joy, cake, and all your favorite things. I love you more than words can express, Mom. You're the best mom in the world, and I feel so lucky to have you in my life. Happy birthday, Mom♥️♥️♥️

S*x is not for fun but it is spiritual bond(soul tie). How many men/women have u slept with. Any man or woman you slept ...
25/05/2025

S*x is not for fun but it is spiritual bond(soul tie). How many men/women have u slept with. Any man or woman you slept with leaves a spiritual demon in your soul. We have sexual transmitted demons. They are worst than sexually transmitted diseases. Some of the people you sleep with are demons. Immediately you sleep with them, they turn back and fight you spiritually. They truncate and destroy destiny. It is not all that glitters that is gold. She is beautiful , do u know the demons she carries? Some of the people you sleep with have spiritual husbands and wives. Any body you sleep with leaves a part of their spirit (demon) in you. Be careful who you move around with. Some people are destiny killers

PHONE APPS EVERY WOMAN MUST KNOW HOW TO USE (ESPECIALLY IF YOU’RE SERIOUS ABOUT GROWTH)Your smartphone is not just for W...
22/05/2025

PHONE APPS EVERY WOMAN MUST KNOW HOW TO USE (ESPECIALLY IF YOU’RE SERIOUS ABOUT GROWTH)

Your smartphone is not just for WhatsApp and TikTok o.

That phone you’re holding can help you manage your health, grow your business, learn new things, make money, and even get in shape if you use it intentionally.

Here are MUST-HAVE phone apps every woman should not just have, but know how to use.

Workout & Wellness Apps.
You don’t need a gym subscription to stay fit. These apps are your virtual trainers

1) FitOn: Here you get free workouts for every body type.

I love that it feels like a friend is training you.

2)Home Workout app, I love using this.

3) YouTube: Search “10-minute workout for flat tummy or general workout ” and thank me later.

4)Period Tracker (Flo or Clue): Stop guessing.

Know your cycle.

Money Management Apps
You can’t build wealth if you don’t track your money.

5) Mint or MyBudgetBook: Know where your money is going before it disappears.

6)PiggyVest or Cowrywise: Save like a queen. Automate your savings and stop eating your future.

7)Palmpay or Opay: Smooth financial transactions for business women who are not playing.

You don’t have to be an accountant.
But you must know how to manage your income and spending like a boss.

Business & Productivity Apps (For your online empire)

You have a gift. A skill. Knowledge. Turn it into impact and income with these tools

8)Canva: Design flyers, ebooks, Instagram posts, everything even if you’re not a designer.

9) Zoom / Google Meet: Host sessions, trainings, and coaching calls professionally.

10)Selar : Sell your digital products and collect payment in naira, dollars, pounds etc

11)Notion or Google Keep: Plan your content, courses, goals, and life.

You’re a CEO.
Learning & Growth Apps (Grow your mind, grow your money)

The more you grow, the more you glow and earn!

12)YouTube: Yes, again.
Learn anything. parenting, cooking..

21/05/2025

HOW TO LOVE YOUR WIFE

1. Play with her bréasts, don't play with her heart.

2. Open up her heart, don't open her old wounds.

3. Keep her secrets, don't keep secrets from her.

4. Béat up her problems, don't béat her up.

5. Help her to make good judgements, don't judge her.

6. Spread her legs alone, don't spread sexual diseases to her.

7. Fool around with her, don't make a fool out of her.

8. Laugh with her, don't laugh at her.

9. Sûck her nîpples, don't sûck life and joy out of her.

10. Make her scream in bed when making love, don't make her scream out of frustration and depressiôn.

11. Silence her storms and battles, don't silence her voice and opinions.

12. Make her møan in pleasure, don't make her mourn the death of your love.

13. Relieve her stress, don't give her stress.

14. Spánk her bûtt cheek, don't slap her face cheek.

15. Surprise her with gifts, don't surprise her with lies.

16. Make her wet between her legs, don't make her eyes wet with tears.

17. Be by her side, don't sideline her.

18. Make other women jealous of her by how you love her, don't make her jealous.

19 Keep a record of all the good she deliberately does daily, not the wrong she unintentionally does occasionally.

20. Don't insult her stretchmarks, stretch her vision so that she leaves a positive mark on Earth.

21/05/2025

My upcoming musician
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21/05/2025

Tonight, I’ll sleep in peace, knowing God is handling everything on my behalf. Thank You, Lord. Amen.🙏💪😇

21/05/2025

COMMUNICATION TIPS FOR MARRIAGE

1. Talking about a sensitive difficult matter is all about timing and setting. Don't introduce the discussion when your spouse doesn't have time, and in the wrong setting such as in front of people or the children

2. When you ask your spouse a question, give your spouse time to answer without jumping in. Otherwise what was the purpose of asking?

3. Do not listen to answer back or defend your point of view. Listen to understand

4. Don't come into a conversation with a prejudiced conclusion. Come with an open mind

5. Avoid having major conversations when angry, it almost always goes wrong. Calm down fast

6. Avoid calling your spouse names and insults during an argument. Argue respectfully

7. Maintain warm communication during the day to pick up the warmth when together at night

8. The more courteous you are with the words "Please", "Kindly", "Thank you", the more your spouse will enjoy talking with you

9. Sometimes your spouse doesn't want advice but just to speak and be heard. Don't be quick to give solutions

10. Non-verbal communication of eye contact, physical touch, hugs, inviting facial expressions help in the quality of communication.

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