Everyday life Hack for young women

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11/08/2025

If at first you don't succeed,try reading the instructions..

11/08/2025

Many a good man has failed because he had his wishbone where his backbone should have been.

14/07/2025

Patience is the ability to keep your motor idling when you feel like stripping your gear.
Proverbs 16:32

13/07/2025

You can never gather enough money to get married.

No matter how much you save, it will still feel like it’s not enough.
No matter how prepared you are, something will always seem imperfect on that wedding day.

If you’ve ever planned an event, you’ll understand that no event is perfect. So why stress yourself unnecessarily?

During our wedding, we let go of a lot of things that didn’t matter.

A vendor once told us the wedding gown was N100,000. My wife looked at her and asked, “You mean rent, right?”
We later got her wedding gown for about N33,000 and she looked amazing.

When it came to food, vendors gave us a bill of N800,000. I just laughed.
We called our aunties, bought rice, and they did the cooking joyfully.
And yes, the food was delicious.

Photographer quoted N200,000. We found someone who did the job for less than N20,000.
Simple. Clean. Decent.

The problem is, you worry too much, and that’s why you're scared to take the first step.

If you truly have what it takes to take care of a woman and build a home, focus more on that than the wedding day itself.

Fix a date.
Agree with your partner.
Talk to your parents.
And move forward.

Marriage is not about how grand the wedding day looks — it’s about how peaceful the home is after the celebration.

Do what is within your means and leave the rest.
Even if you wait five more years, it still won’t be perfect.
Perfection is a myth.

If you’re in a serious relationship and you both feel ready, go ahead. Set the date and watch God move.

13/07/2025

The grass may look greener on the other side, but it still has to be mowed.
Heb 13:5

INTIMACY ISN’T JUST SEX—ARE YOU EMOTIONALLY CLOSE?When most people hear intimacy, their minds jump straight to s*x.The t...
12/07/2025

INTIMACY ISN’T JUST SEX—ARE YOU EMOTIONALLY CLOSE?

When most people hear intimacy, their minds jump straight to s*x.

The truth is, you can be s*xually active with your spouse and still feel emotionally distant. You can share a bed but not your heart. And when emotional closeness is missing, even s*x starts to feel hollow.

Today, let’s talk about a different kind of intimacy—the one that holds your marriage together when life gets messy, when kids come, when stress piles up, or when passion isn’t enough on its own.

What Is Emotional Intimacy?

Emotional intimacy is about feeling safe, seen, and truly known. It’s when you can say, “I’m not okay,” and your spouse doesn’t try to fix it or dismiss it—but listens, understands, and stands with you. It’s when you know your thoughts, fears, dreams, and triggers are not just heard—but held with care.

Signs You’re Emotionally Distant

🚩You talk, but only about logistics—kids, bills, chores

🚩You avoid vulnerable conversations or feel shut down when they happen

🚩You feel alone even when you’re together

🚩You’re craving deeper connection but don’t know where to start

If any of these hit home, you’re not alone. Life, busyness, unhealed wounds, and stress can slowly chip away at emotional closeness without either of you realizing it.

Here's How to Build (or Rebuild) Emotional Intimacy

Ask Better Questions: Move beyond, “How was your day?” Try:

“What’s been weighing on your mind lately?”

“What’s something you need more of from me right now?”

“When do you feel most connected to me?”

These spark conversations that open emotional doors.

Be Present, Not Just Available: Put the phone down. Turn off the TV. Look into their eyes when they talk. Presence speaks louder than words—and your full attention is one of the greatest gifts you can offer your spouse.

12/07/2025

When a God measures a man,he puts the tape around the heart instead of the head. 1 Samuel 16:7

11/07/2025

A marriage may be made in heaven,but the maintenance must be done on earth Eph 5:33

26/06/2025

A happy home is not defined by the absence of disagreements, but rather by the willingness of individuals to drive through life's challenges together, find common ground, and make things work, which is a true blessings..

25/06/2025

🔥 5 THINGS MORE VALUABLE THAN A WOMAN’S BODY

Listen up, son.

If the major reason you want to marry a woman is because she’s packing heavy up front (aka Manchester United) and loaded at the back (aka Arsenal), you are not in love — you’re lost in lust.

And trust me, no matter what you think, if that’s all you see, you’re setting yourself up for a lifetime of silent suffering.

Let’s break it down:

1️⃣ PEACE OF MIND

Before you marry any woman, ask yourself:
Does she give you peace?
Some men sleep in the office or at a friend’s place because the woman they married turned their home into a war zone.

A big chest doesn’t guarantee big rest.
If you marry a troublesome woman, you won’t even feel attracted to her anymore. Those “assets” will turn to liabilities overnight.

2️⃣ SUPPORT

Life will test you, and what you’ll need isn’t her body — it’s her brain, her spirit, her strength, and her ability to stand by you.

Can she pray for you? Can she hustle with you? Can she offer counsel, help manage your home, back you up with ideas? ASS is not ASSET.
A woman’s real assets are not physical.

3️⃣ HOME KEEPER

A woman who can’t manage a home, can’t build an environment of peace and order, and turns your house into a mess while partying every weekend is a liability.

When you come home and see disorder, dirt, and disrespect — those curves you married will mean nothing.

4️⃣ COOPERATION

One of the most critical things a man should never joke with is a woman’s ability to cooperate.

How does she embrace your vision? Does she submit? Is she loyal? Is she teachable?

Some women hate the word submission. They’re naturally rebellious, stubborn, and self-governed.
Marry that, and in less than a year, you’ll regret your life.

It won’t matter how big her chest is or how thick her waist curves — you’ll be counting down your escape.

5️⃣ CARE / LOVE

A man doesn’t just need a lover — he needs a woman who can nurture him when life gets heavy.
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25/06/2025

AT 30, YOU’RE TOO YOUNG TO MARRY — HERE’S WHY

Forget what your aunt said at the wedding.
Forget the pressure from group chats.
Forget the “when will you marry?” chants from people who hate their own marriages.

Here’s the unfiltered truth:
Marriage isn’t about age.
It’s about emotional readiness, financial structure, and spiritual alignment.

And at 30?
Most men are still boys in better clothes.

Let’s break this down like men:

1️⃣ VISION BEFORE VOWS
You don’t marry because you’re tired of being single.
You marry because your mission needs reinforcement.
No vision, no vows.

2️⃣ CULTURE CELEBRATES AGE — MARRIAGE DEMANDS CAPACITY
Beards and tuxedos don’t make husbands.
Grit, discipline, provision, and leadership do.
And most men today fold over a blue tick left on read.

3️⃣ KNOW HER LIKE A VETTING OFFICER — NOT A VICTIM OF LUST
Beauty fades. Patterns don’t.
You’re marrying her beliefs, habits, and wounds — not her body.
Vet her spirit.

4️⃣ DON’T MARRY TO FIX — MARRY TO EXPAND
You are not her therapist.
You’re a builder of empires.
If she doesn’t amplify your mission, she’ll abort your peace.

5️⃣ NO VALUE? NO VOWS.
If she can’t multiply peace, protect assets, or think under pressure —
you’re onboarding a liability disguised as a wife.

6️⃣ STOP RUSHING — SUCCESS HAS NO EXPIRY DATE
You’re not in a queue.
You’re under construction.
Your legacy isn’t built on wedding hashtags — it’s built on structure and timing.

FINAL WORD:
AGE DOESN’T MAKE YOU READY — PREPARATION DOES.
Marriage is not an achievement. It’s an assignment.
And if you say “I do” without preparation, you also say “I surrender” to storms you aren’t built for.

Build first. Marry later.
When you show up — come with power, not pressure.

Happy 6th wedding anniversary to us! Six years ago, we made a promise to love and cherish each other, and I'm proud of t...
01/06/2025

Happy 6th wedding anniversary to us! Six years ago, we made a promise to love and cherish each other, and I'm proud of the journey we've shared so far. Through laughter and tears, we've grown stronger and more in love. I'm grateful for the adventures, memories, and quiet moments we've shared. Here's to many more years of love, growth, and happiness together! Cheers to us and our beautiful marriage! May our love continue to flourish and our bond grow stronger with each passing day. I'm excited for what's to come💓💓💓

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