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The amazing couple, Makurdu, Benue (2025)

13/08/2025

Many people are fighting depression for different reasons
Tell us what you do to fight depression, you may be helping someone....

13/08/2025

'Pls, i need advice from matured minds only, do not insult me please, I'm 32yrs of age married with 2 kids. I met my husband when I was 17, I was a virgin, so he was too (as he claimed). He was 19 yrs at the time.

We later got married. All these years of marriage, my issue is this. Ever since I knew my man, when we hv x he doesn't m'o'n or show any iota of 'plæ'zure', he'll just be there stirring at me,
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‎I din't know anything about x that time we just started, But I've always tried to please him. I'll do research & even watch x -vdêos just to learn so can be able to satisfy him coz I don't know if I'm good for him on the bed. Still nothing, he'll just be there like a peace of wood..
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‎At a time I chìì,têd on him just to know if I'm good in bed or not & you know what? the guy was m'o'nìn. But my man will just do & do, no sound will come out from him, even till date. I'm tired & i don't know what else to do.
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Whenever,‎ I ask him if he enjoyed the x or not he'll just immidiately change the topic. I don't understand if its that, he doesn't have weak point or somethin,

It is when he wants to have x we have it. if he's not in the mood there's nothing I'll do to make him be. It's only when he's in the mood, we do it. Seriously, ‎I don't know what to think or do again oo..

‎Dont insults me pls I'm a shy person. I'm only seeking for advice,

- Anonymous poster
- pls advice her

09/08/2025

"My wife, Adesua and I struggled to have kids for over 4-years after our marriage to no avail. Everyone laughed at us."
- Banky W

"After my wedding, my wife, Adesua and I got to the point where the desire for a child became an idol. Every month if her period would come, she'd be crying, she'd be depressed, she'd be upset and all that. We did IVF(Invertual Fertilization) 3-times and it didn't work. We spent money on this struggle to have a child but it didn't work.
my wife and I became a laughing stalk in the society. My family members laughed at me, my friends, and almost everyone I knew laughed at me behind my back. Some called my wife A Barrēn woman, and I was sad because she let the mockery get to her.
So one day, I called Adesua and said, 'I don't care if this child we're looking for comes today, tomorrow, next month, next year, in the next 10-years, or never. It's okay, let's love ourselves and trust God. Then we stopped worrying and a couple of months later, we got pregnant just like that. Whatever you're seeking, seek God first and the thing will come."

In all you do, never use someone's predicament to mock them or mock people in their lowest moments, because you do not know the story... People are going through a lot and all you could do is to blab ru$$6ish and mock them instead of praying for them.....

09/08/2025

Supporting a partner who shares your vision and values can be incredibly rewarding. Building a life together takes time, effort, and perseverance, but the journey is worth it. Starting from the ground up can be challenging, but reaching new heights together makes every struggle worthwhile.
Having a partner who grows with you is amazing. It takes hard work, but the payoff is huge.
Building a life together takes time and effort, but the view from the top is breathtaking.

These couples are evidence of hard work and team work...

08/08/2025

Parenthood Considerations: Timing and Circumstances
Should someone who's single and getting older consider having a child to secure their future, or is it better to wait until they're older and potentially without a partner?

07/08/2025

“My husband wants to kpa! me. I don’t want the marriage again” - Actress Evan Okoro cr!£s for help.

Nollywood actress Evan Okoro has cried out over her troubled marriage, revealing that she’s no longer interested in staying with her husband, Chibuzor, due to ongoing issues that have left her f£ for her life.

In a video posted online, Evan accused her husband of thr££n!ng her after she told him she wanted out of the marriage. She also claimed he was trying to control her finances and became h0$t!l£ when she refused to give him money — especially because she was focused on funding her building project.

She said he would often withdraw affection whenever she didn’t meet his demands, leaving her emotionally exhaᴜsted and constantly begging to keep the peace.

Evan added that her bride price was never paid on their traditional wedding day — something the village elders later pointed out and questioned him about.

According to her, after she ended the relationship, she started hearing alarming things, including that he was planning to k!dn@p her.

Out of f£, she said she wrote a p£t!t!on and had him arr£st£d for her own safety.
What's your take?

05/08/2025

Hmmm respect sir !
"No Kids, No Regrets" — John Cena Explains Why He and His Wife Chose a Child-Free Life😳🤔

In a world where having children is often seen as the ultimate goal of marriage, WWE legend and Hollywood star John Cena is boldly walking a different path — and he's not apologizing for it.

Speaking honestly in a recent interview, Cena revealed:

> “My wife and I have decided that we’re not going to have any children. We want to enjoy our lives, and having children would distract us.”🙆🤷

He went on to explain that the decision wasn’t impulsive — it was something they both agreed on before getting married. And four years later, he says their life together has been nothing short of fulfilling.🙏

> “We don’t stress about school runs, breakfast routines, or sleepless nights. We just live, love, and enjoy each other.”😊

For John Cena, happiness means not placing anyone’s needs above his own, and that includes the responsibility of raising children.

While the decision may shock some, he hopes people can respect it and, in his words, “mind their own business.”

It’s a reminder that life has no one-size-fits-all blueprint — and everyone deserves the freedom to choose what happiness means for them.

Whether you agree or not, it takes courage to live your truth in a world full of expectations.

What's your take on this

04/08/2025

Cherishing the Gift of Marriage
Marriage is a beautiful institution that can bring immense joy and fulfillment to our lives. However, it's also important to acknowledge that it's not for everyone, and that's perfectly okay. For those who are fortunate enough to find their perfect match, it's essential to nurture and protect that relationship with love, care, and dedication.

Guarding Your Relationship
When you've found your better half, it's crucial to prioritize your relationship and make conscious efforts to strengthen your bond. This means communicating openly, showing appreciation and gratitude, and working through challenges together. By doing so, you can build a strong foundation for a happy and fulfilling marriage.

Make it a Priority
In today's fast-paced world, it's easy to get caught up in our individual pursuits and forget to prioritize our relationships. However, by making your marriage a priority, you can create a loving and supportive partnership that brings joy and happiness to both partners.

Marriage is a precious gift that requires effort and dedication to thrive. If you're one of the lucky ones who've found their better half, cherish and guard that relationship with love and care. By prioritizing your partnership and working together, you can build a strong and fulfilling marriage that brings happiness and joy to your life.

03/08/2025

Big brother naija star, Bisola Aiyeola says she is not interested in marriage.

In her words:

I’m not really keen on marriage any longer. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn’t, it’s okay too.
"I gave myself an age marker; I don’t want to have babies after I clock 38. I have passed 38 and no man yet, so, I am just here and not actively looking forward to it.
"I think I have gotten used to being alone. I love love, I still do. Love is sweet, it’s nice, it’s a beautiful thing, but reality is a different story.
“Marriage is not a do-or-die affair. There are so many more things one can aspire to be besides getting married. I am not desperate for marriage,” she stated.

Best wishes to her….

What's your take?

03/08/2025

The Beauty of Anniversary Celebrations: A Journey of Imperfection and Growth
When couples celebrate their anniversary, it's not about pretending to be perfect or claiming to have had a flawless journey together. It's about acknowledging the ups and downs, the laughter and tears, and the countless moments that have shaped their relationship into what it is today.

Imperfection is Part of the Journey
No marriage is perfect, and it's the imperfections that make each relationship unique. The arguments, misunderstandings, and challenges are all part of the journey. But it's how couples navigate these imperfections, learn from them, and grow together that truly matters.

Resilience Building
Anniversary celebrations are a testament to the resilience and commitment of a couple. It's a celebration of the efforts they've made to work through their differences, to forgive, and to build a life together. It's a recognition that marriage is a journey, not a destination.

A Continuous Journey
Marriage is a continuous journey of growth, learning, and exploration. It's about evolving together, supporting each other, and finding new ways to love and appreciate one another. Anniversary celebrations are a reminder that every day is an opportunity to strengthen their bond and build a stronger relationship.

Anniversary celebrations are a beautiful way to acknowledge the imperfections, challenges, and triumphs of a marriage. They're a celebration of the journey, not just the destination. By embracing the imperfections and focusing on growth and resilience, couples can build a stronger, more loving relationship that will continue to flourish for years to come.

01/08/2025

Some couples now leaves like roommate in their own matrimonial homes and it's looking like the home is no longer comfortable anymore which could be caused by many reasons....
You know, sometimes marriages can feel like you're just two people living together, rather than two people who are deeply connected and in love. This is often referred to as the "roommate syndrome." It's like you're just going through the motions, sharing a space, but not really connecting on a deeper level.

What's Causing This?
There are a few reasons why this might happen. Maybe life got busy, and you stopped prioritizing quality time together. Maybe you started taking each other for granted, and stopped making an effort to show love and appreciation. Whatever the reason, it's not too late to fix it!

One way to overcome the roommate syndrome is to prioritize quality time and connection. This means setting aside time just for the two of you, doing things that you both enjoy, and making an effort to really connect with each other.

1. Schedule regular date nights, Set aside a specific night each week or month to go out on a date, just the two of you.
2. Make time for meaningful conversations Take the time to really talk to each other, sharing your thoughts, feelings, and desires.
3. Show appreciation and gratitude, Make an effort to show your partner that you appreciate and value them, whether it's through small gestures or bigger gifts.
4. Try new things together: Shake things up by trying new hobbies, activities, or experiences together.
If your marriage is experiencing " roommate syndromes do whatever it takes to come out of that situations, because it's that bad and could lead to divorce if not properly handled and resolved, listen to each other and trash all problems out, marriage might be stressful and emotionally draining but if you fix your differences it's worth enjoyable.....

31/07/2025

When it comes to choosing a life partner, there are some really important things to think about. You want someone who shares your core values and beliefs, and who you can build a life with. Here are some key things to consider:

First, you want someone with emotional maturity - someone who can manage their emotions, communicate effectively, and resolve conflicts in a healthy way. Trust and reliability are also crucial - you need to feel like you can count on this person to be there for you. And let's not forget about communication - it's essential to be able to talk openly and honestly with each other.

Compatibility is also key. You want someone who shares your interests and lifestyle, and who has similar long-term goals. But it's not just about surface-level stuff - it's about finding someone who truly gets you and supports you for who you are.

On the flip side, there are some red flags to watch out for. Any form of abuse or manipulation is a major no-go, and you should never tolerate disrespect or criticism that makes you feel bad about yourself. If you're significantly incompatible or your partner is unwilling to grow and change, that's a problem too.

As you're thinking about potential partners, ask yourself some tough questions. What are your non-negotiables? What do you want in life, and does this person fit into your vision? And most importantly, how do you feel when you're around them? Do you feel supported, respected, and happy?

Ultimately, choosing a life partner is a big decision that requires some serious thought. By prioritizing the things that matter most to you and being aware of potential red flags, you can make a decision that sets you up for a fulfilling and happy partnership.

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