26/02/2025
IT'S GOOD FOR SOME PEOPLE...
One of the things that destroys relationships is what I call misplacement of priorities.
Attend to first things first, it makes life easier. Don't pursue a relationship when you ought to be preparing for one.
There's no shortcut in life, no matter how good you are, you can't cheat your way to the product without the process, one way or the other, life will bring you back.
We don't prepare in marriage, we prepare for marriage.
Although learning happens continuously, there are fundamental things that ought to be in place before stepping into marriage.
Many people rush into relationships simply because they feel they are of age, not because they are ready.
But understand this today, life is in phases, and whether you should be in a relationship or not should be determined by your current phase, not just your age.
I've said this repeatedly, you can grow old without necessarily growing up, the former is natural while the latter is intentional.
Growing old is by force, whether you like it or not, you must grow old as the days turn into months, but growing up is by choice.
Maturity is not measured in years but in personal growth and transformation.
There are certain people that it is good for them to be alone irrespective of their age.
When God said, "It is not good that the man should be alone", He wasn't referring to every man, but to a particular man—the man He had prepared.
If you notice, He said "the man" and not "a man." This means that not every man is ready for marriage at the same time.
There are people in relationships today who ordinarily shouldn't be in a relationship at all in this phase of their lives.
Life is meaningless without purpose, and of course without vision people perish, you have no business being in a relationship if these things are not already sorted out, these are the structures that direct you to your future.
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