
14/07/2025
๐ง โ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐โ. Choose Better. ๐ฅ
Many people today are not living from vision, they are living from memory; Their lives are unconsciously defined by how they saw their parents live or the experiences they had in childhood especially the painful ones. They carry wounds, fears, patterns, and beliefs from what they saw, heard, or felt growing up... and then let those same patterns or habits that were never healed but rather just passed down to shape how they live, how they love, and how they raise their children even if it was toxic.
๐ฉธ You saw anger, so now you shout.
๐ง You saw silence, so now you shut down.
๐ฅ You were ignored, so now you don't know how to nurture.
Does this describe You? If Yes, Are you aware that just because thatโs what you saw growing upโฆ๐ฟ๐ค๐๐จ๐ฃโ๐ฉ ๐ข๐๐๐ฃ ๐๐ฉโ๐จ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฉ ๐๐ผ๐ฑ ๐ฌ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐จ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐ฉ๐ค ๐ฅ๐๐จ๐จ ๐ค๐ฃ.
It takes courage to question what you saw as โnormal.โ It takes intentionality to unlearn and rebuild.
But it is possible. With God, with awareness, with help you can be different. You can be better.
๐ Romans 12:2 (NLT)
โDonโt copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think.โ
โจ Let it stop with you.
โจ Let your healing become your childrenโs blessing.
โจ Let your growth become your generationโs turning point.
YOU are not your past. You are not your parentsโ mistakes.You donโt have to parent the way you were parented. The trauma or dysfunction you grew up with should not be the template for your future.Write a new story. One led by healing, truth, love, and light.
Enjoy a joyous week
Ivory Olu
โOne word at a time, we heal, rise, and live again.โ