12/08/2025
A strange guy once crossed my path. We exchanged pleasantries, and like most casual encounters, we went our separate ways. Weeks later, fate brought us together again, but this time, he looked different. The liveliness from our first meeting had faded. His eyes carried a quiet heaviness, the kind that no smile could hide. It's possible that he had hid it the first time...you know as someone meeting a total stranger.
Though we barely knew each other, my instincts told me something was wrong. Looking at his face, I could almost read the script of his struggles, marked by loneliness, frustration, and the exhausting weight of life’s battles.
When I asked, he didn’t hide the truth. He told me that he had left his parents’ home years ago in search of greener pastures. For a while, life seemed good. His collaboration business was thriving, and things looked promising. But beneath the glamour, a silent enemy had been eating away at him. The enemy? Betting.
At first, it was just a habit. Then, it became an addiction. Slowly, it drained his savings, crushed his spirit, and dragged him to a place of shame and regret.
That day, I couldn’t give him the thing he might have needed most — money. But I gave him what I had in abundance: words. Words of truth, hope, and encouragement. I reminded him that rock bottom can be the start of a new foundation. Those words stayed with him.
Today, he’s doing his best in commercial transport work. It’s not glamorous, but it’s honest. We still talk sometimes, and every time we do, I’m reminded that a simple conversation can be more powerful than we imagine.
1. Dear reader, not all struggles are visible. People can wear smiles while carrying silent battles. Learn to look deeper.
2. Avoid simple dangerous habits that can linger dangerously. Addiction is a slow thief. It doesn’t just take your money; it robs your time, peace, and dignity.
3. Help isn’t always financial. Sometimes, the right words at the right time can be worth more than money.
4. Starting over is not failure. Honest work, no matter how small, is better than glamorous destruction.
Remember, YOUR PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT is MY PRIORITY!
Chukwuebuka Augustus GIG✍️