01/07/2025
Teach Your Daughters to Stay Away From Boys...
Teach your daughters to stay away from boys. Not just the ones in school uniforms. Not just the ones with teenage minds. But those who have grown in age but haven’t grown in wisdom.
Let them know that being a “boy” is not about age, it’s about maturity. It’s about mindset. It’s about the way he treats people. It’s about the way he values women.
There are many boys walking around in grown bodies, some with beards, suits, and deep voices, but still lacking the emotional, spiritual, mental, and financial maturity to honour a woman right.
Let your daughters know that those are the most dangerous boys to stay away from.
Teach your daughters that not every man is a man. Some are boys who have mastered the art of pretending. Some are boys who think leadership is control and dominance. Some are boys who still see women as slaves, not as souls.
Let them know that boys are not just found in classrooms, many are found in marriages, in churches, in cities, in offices. They are everywhere. And the pain they leave behind can take years to recover from.
Tell your daughters the truth that most people are afraid to say: That it’s better to be single and whole than attached and destroyed.
That some boys don’t need a partner, they need therapy.
That some boys don’t want love, they want control.
That some boys don't need marriage, they need maturity.
Make your daughters wise. Teach them that love is not just about feelings, it’s about fruit. What does his presence produce?... Does he nurture or neglect?... Does he build or break?
Tell them not to be impressed by muscles, money, or sweet words. Let them look for consistency. For vision. For peace. For respect.
For a man who honours his mother but won’t worship her, who serves his purpose but won’t sacrifice his wife for it.
Teach your daughters that being a woman is not about fixing a broken man. It’s not about enduring emotional damage.
