12/11/2025
You see eehhnn, I am in awe by all the steps we as humans have to go through.ππ There were times I looked at couples and wished I was married and could experience the love they shared.
Then I got married and after experiencing the love ππ
π I wished I had some little munchkins moving around my empty house when hubby had gone to work.
Little did I know πππ. Sis to Sis, marriage and child birth is an immense blessing, you know you really have yours for life. However, it's not always picture perfect as the world on the internet claim to be. You are not in there house, I REPEAT YOU ARE NOT IN THERE HOUSE.
Being a Mom and wife is the best gift God could have ever thought of giving me, but by his Grace I am a mom. However, OMOH! MUMMY DUTIES, PLUS WIFEY DUTIES IS NOBODY'S MATE. RESPONSIBILITIES WAN KILL PERSON WEY DEY RESPONSIBLE.
Kids will test all your organs π€£, when they are in you and even when they are out. Your brain will be running on overdrive and when you think it's time off, it's like your village people will bring in small side dishes for you to explore. NO DAYS OFF! Whether you are a stay home mom or working mom.. The responsibilities will follow you wherever you goπ
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BUT, Yes there is a BUT, ππ.. Those little hands that turn into big hands, those tight hugs, those unending gist that you don't even have the time to sit still and be depressed. Those are the reasons why most mums keep pushing. It's like you have little pieces of you running around. That feeling is amazing and I won't trade it for anything else.
I am a very present mother, and it's a chore I would continue to do for free β€β€β€β€β€