Edybeerelationship/marriagetips

04/05/2025

Uyo city Church

27/04/2025

30/09/2023

Heavenly father, thank you for another year.
Thank you for standing strong for me in every battles.
Inspite all my imperfections, I am getting bigger and better .
I am happy to be alive today and in good health ❤️.
Dear father, make the rest of my life to be the very best in all areas.
Happy birthday Blessings to me.

15/09/2023

*Maturity no be big yash.*
*Maturity no be big breast .*
*Maturity no be big dick.*
*Maturity is not that you can f**k woman many times*
*Maturity no be age.*
*Maturity no be I yellow or black*
*Maturity is in mind.*
*Maturity is when you tell yourself the truth and aspect it.*
*Maturity is when you know everybody around have a life, before they meet you.*
*Maturity is when you understand that if a man most be man, and as a woman, you don't need to count every step they take.*
*Maturity is when you fine happiness in you, because your happiness is not in anybody hands*

*Always lean how to tell yourself the truth, lean how to call yourself board meeting sometime*. Just an advice.

14/09/2023

...A Lawyer Told Me

"Don't Kill Yourself If Your Wife Is Sleeping Around ! "

"I just remembered a case I handled while in Chief Rotimi Williams Chambers"

"A man met his Landlord sleeping with his wife. Our client took a side stool and hit it on the landlord's head. He died instantly"

"He was arraigned for murder. After 5 years of trial, he told me in court one day that he regretted killing his Landlord"

"I asked him why? He said he just realized that only God knows how many men his wife would have slept with during the period he has been in jail"

"Sincerely both of us wept.
Luckily the court upheld our argument that he was provoked. He spent 10 years in prison and was released"

"WHAT HAPPENED:
He came out only to find out that his wife already had 2 boys & nursing a baby girl for a neighbor"

THE LESSON I LEARNT:

Do not fight over any thing. It's not worth it at all!
Just be yourself!

What will be will be,
because at the end, you are just alone,
even your shadow may leave you in the darkest corner.


..From A Law

02/09/2023

ALL SIDE CHICKS MUST LEARN FROM THIS

What side chicks don't understand is that we're not looking for a new girlfriend

side chick you are not there to replace girlfriend you are there to be used anytime.

You are there to be a stress reliever to us that's why we give you peanuts and use you anyhow.

you will always be the woman we takes to the guest house or hotel that's the only place a person like you make sense to us.

We love our dear wives and children because there are source of happiness and hope.

You are just a piece of meat with make up
That's why disrespecting other wives will never get you anywhere.

We buy you flashy things just to buy your desire but we give our wives the whole world.

Moral Lesson

If you're a single lady, please abstain from sleeping around just to survive.
I know times are tough but it's not tougher than God. Men and yahoo boys are out there to destroy your lives.
If you find a man with vision but struggling today, just grow with him and be contented with what he gives you.
Stop sleeping with married men because you're building curses upon yourself and your generation unborn.

A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE

01/09/2023

THE WOMAN KINGDOM

Our underwears are now a thing of public display.
Our dresses are made of transparent material to boost the design of our underwears.

With our hands we buy indecency, walking on the street unashamed.
We are not ashamed any more to leave some part of our breast out.

Our thighs are perched with flies leaving trace of unwanted spots.
We walk with open slit revealing our panties.
Fashion is what I hear it is.

We've thrown our royal nature all in the name of fashion.
We've Laid down our robes for rags all in the name of fashion.
We've traded our 'lion walk' for 'cat walk'.

We prefer to slay in makeup and not with our words and the works of our hands.
WOMAN
Where is thy God?
WOMAN
Where is thy Pride?
Will he who find you still find a GOOD thing?
Will he who find you still obtain FAVOUR?
Can he who find you sing praises of VIRTUOUSNESS?

One thing I know and the spirit bears witness, A girl who says she loves God will not associate herself with indecency, She will Hate it.

All this short are to be worn in the house not outside

08/08/2023

BEFORE YOU SAY YES. (5 QUESTIONS TO ASK HIM)

1) CAN YOU BE ALL I WANT?

A Woman INSTINCTIVELY and naturally SEEKS and NEEDS her Man to be many things.

✔️ Her FRIEND (Friendship)
✔️ Her LOVER (Romance)
✔️ Her GIST BUDDY (Communication)
✔️ Her PRIEST (Spiritual Leadership)
✔️ A FATHER (to their kids)

When he fails in one of this areas, it tells on her emotionally and otherwise.

2) CAN YOU HANDLE MY STRENGTHS?

You have strengths, talents, gifts, passions that God has put inside of you.

Can he handle them?

Or is he the insecure type who will want to suppress the greatness in you because you are his Wife?

3) CAN YOU HANDLE MY WEAKNESSES?

No body is perfect, we all have our weaknesses, and not everyone can stand us or be in our lives because of that.

Marry a Man who cares enough to overlook your weaknesses and will PATIENTLY help you overcome them.

And remember, WEAKNESS is different from WICKEDNESS, don't confuse the two.

4) CAN YOU IMPROVE ME

Man is HEAD because God expects him to be AHEAD.

The Bride Groom is to GROOM (Improve) the bride, not DOOM Her.

Don't marry someone who will make you worse than he met you.

5) CAN YOU STAND BY ME AND STICK TO ME?

If there is no issue/child after one year of marriage, will he stand by you?

He'll see more beautiful, better endowed Women everyday, some willing to have an affair with him even if they know he's married, will he be faithful to You?

As you grow older, will he stand by you despite your body changes?
Or will he cheat on you with younger girls.?

09/06/2023

"Whose Father is He?"

A beggar came asking for food. I told him to come around to the back door and asked him to sit on the floor while I went in to bring the left over food.

I brought him food & said, let's pray. Now repeat after me, "Our FATHER in Heaven". He said, "Your Father in Heaven". I said."No, say OUR FATHER in Heaven". He again said, "Your Father in Heaven"!!!

This extremely Irritated me! I asked why do you say 'Your' father when I say 'Our' FATHER?'

He said, "Sir, it's like this. If I say Our FATHER, then we both become brothers. If we are brothers, you would invite me in through the front door and not the back; you would ask me to sit at your dining table not on the floor; you'd also not give me stale food! Sir, somehow it's not possible that we are sons of the same father!"

He may be your Father, but he can't be OUR Father!

Whose FATHER is He?

It took a beggar to teach me the truth!!!

GOD becomes our FATHER when we treat one another as brothers and sisters.

27/04/2023

FOR COUPLES:

"A man and his wife went to the zoo. They found a Monkey who was passionately playing with his female. His wife said to him, "What a romantic animal."

Then, they found a Lion and his Lioness separated from each other; the silent Lion sat alone in his corner as if the Lioness doesn't exist. His wife said to him, "What a sad scene without love."

Her husband then said to her, “Throw that stone at the Lioness and watch.” When she threw the stone at the Lioness, the Lion roar to defend his Lioness, then she was asked to repeat it with the Monkey, the Monkey then jumped up and climbed the tree 🎄 and abandoned his female to save his own skin.

Her husband then told her, “Do not be deceived by what you see as romance in outward show, often times, it is a deceptive appearance just to hide an empty heart; there are others on the contrary who are relaxed, but their hearts are full of sincere love."

Presently, we have so many in the monkey 🙊 shadow, and few Lion 🦁 nowadays."

24/04/2023

Transport fare for coming 5000
Hotel room 15,000
Fish 4, 000
Drinks 2500
Food 2500
Bottle water 500
Drinks overnight 3500
Thanks for coming 20,000
Total N53,000

This is just to a short time pleasure,with a girl you met online oh!!!

But

Your wife will wake up 5am Cook, Wash, Clean, Advice You, wash children's clothes, wake up early, dress children to school, come back home clean house, prepare your breakfast, rush to market, pick children from school, start assisting them in their home work, start preparing dinner, make sure the kids are tucked into bed by 9pm

Then you open your mouth to call her, COMMON HOUSE WIFE" like seriously???
We need to change our attitude. It is never too late to make a "U" turn. Shìná no de open door to prosperity.
God help us all.

11/04/2023

Food For The Day
*1. Nothing makes life sweeter than making people happy*

*2. The people you help today become your soldiers in the battle of life tomorrow*

*3. To invest in properties is good but to invest in people is far far better.*

*4. To make money, make people.*

*5. Your greatest trophies are the tears you wipe away from people's faces not the things you acquire.*

*6. Your greatest achievement should be raising achievers.*

*7. People will defend, stand by you & honour you when they realise you value them*

*8. Don't let other people's ungratefulness stop you from making others Great.*👌👌👍.