11/07/2025
I saw Olivia’s post where she shared how she is spitting in this her ivf pregnancy, and it brought back memories. Not because it was strange, but because I understood it deeply. Some people were still calling it fake, imagine! Until you’ve carried a child, especially through those rough first three months, you won’t really understand the struggle.
During all my pregnancies, I went through hell in the first trimester. I couldn’t eat, I spat a lot, I had serious weakness and even going out was a problem. Yet some people would say, “It’s not that deep.” It’s very easy to laugh at someone’s reality when it’s not your own.
That post took me back, and it reminded me that pregnancy is not the same for everyone. Some people cruise through it, others are fighting silent battles every single day. Let’s learn to stop mocking what we’ve never experienced. Some of us went through it, and we survived, barely.
Respect every mother you see out there, because some of us paid the price even before delivery.
If you don't spit during pregnancy then you don't know what God has done for you... smh.
Let's all be guided on how we analyse what we have never been in.
May God strengthen all the pregnant women going through some experiences that is unexplainable. You will come out stronger. Amen..
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