09/08/2025
From my DM
"My Husband never touches me and I don't know why."
I am 28 years old and have been married for four years now. When I got to my husband I was very happy and I thought we would have a great life together but something strange started happening after a few months of our marriage. My husband touched me only three times in four years of our marriage. He never held my hand or hugged me. I have asked him many times why he chose not to be touching me but he always says that he is tired or busy. At first I thought maybe he's shy or not used to showing love. I told my family and friends but they all said maybe he's tired from work. Men sometimes don't show feelings the way women do, so I waited and tried to be patient but the silence between us grew heavier, I felt lonely and cried many nights wondering what was wrong with me or with our marriage. I started to watch him closely and I noticed he spent a lot of time on his phone laughing and smiling quietly. Sometimes he would leave the house for hours without telling me where he was going. One day I decided to follow him because I want to know the truth. I took my phone and called his friend. This particular friend of his is whom I call always to complain about what I am passing through in the hand of his friend. I thought that this guy was on my side but I was wrong. I followed my husband to a quiet Bar in the city. I hid behind the wall and watched, to my shock I saw my husband and his, the same guy sitting close together holding hands talking together they laughed and kissed. At that point my heart broke into pieces. The man I trusted, the man, I married was in love with his fellow man and his best friend, the same man I was calling for help. I ran home with tears rolling down from my eyes. I felt betrayed and angry, how could these two men do this to me.i wanted to scream and shout but I was afraid . I didn't know what to do next. I confronted him the next day over it and he knelt down and apologized to me. I decided to forgive him, to make the story short, we went to see a counselor together it was not easy. We talk about our feelings, our fears and our hopes I learned that love is not always simple, sometimes it is complicated and painful but honesty and respect can help. After six months I started noticing some moves from my husband. One night while he was in the restroom a message came up on his phone it was written " my love I will forever be yours. Please find a story and give it to your wife so we can meet at our usual place tomorrow" this message is from the same guy, his friend. When he came out I showed him the text message, after some minutes he said to me. Babe am sorry I can't leave my friend for anything including this marriage.
Right now I'm at my parents house.
I need your advice please .
